[X&Y] 5 Clear Signs You Should RUN AWAY
Published: Sat, 02/21/15
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WHAT'S INSIDE: She may be hot, but how do you know when you should
look WAY past that and RUN AWAY? Here are some objective signs to
look for.
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5 CLEAR SIGNS YOU SHOULD RUN AWAY
OK, I understand that some of us can be lazy at times. But good
gravy, how do people like you and I become so lethargic as not to
RUN AWAY from certain people we end up on dates with?
Granted, the "warning signs" of when to hit "eject" are not so easy
to recognize--especially when we are clouded by attraction.
That said, it's important to realize that getting out of a
potentially bad relationship situation tends to be more emotionally
and possibly physically difficult as time progresses
That is EXACTLY why today's newsletter is of crucial importance.
Today we are going to talk about the unequivocal signs of a bad,
bad deal. No gray areas here. Nothing subjective. When you
encounter any of the following traits...leave.
1) Addictions
If you are dealing with someone who has a substance abuse problem,
run away. If not, their problem will soon be YOUR problem. No,
I'm not saying you will succumb to "peer pressure" to join in.
I'm saying that people with addictions learn quickly to become
MASTER manipulators. Should you choose to enter into a
relationship with such a person, you will be a part of their
problem.
And this isn't about drugs and alcohol exclusively. Gambling
addictions are among the hardest to kick.
If you are involved with a gambling addict, expect a life where
any and all financial gain that is worked so hard for is literally
squandered with absolutely nothing to show for it.
Open the window, and throw buckets of $$$ to the wind. Worse...open
your wallet and hand your paycheck to shady people who are preying
off of your significant other, and therefore preying on YOU also.
Run away from all of this. You know you don't want it, and NOBODY
deserves to be subject to it. This is 'deserving what you want' at
the most baseline level.
2) Evil
"Oh, she's not a bad person, just misguided, etc." Stop making
excuses for people.
I've noticed that good people generally do not want to "label"
others as "bad". It's as if it's a "bad thing" to consider someone
else bad. Get over it.
There are bad people out there.
Again, do not be manipulated into a relationship with someone who
has bad intentions. Watch closely how such a person treats
animals, parents, wait staff, and / or anyone or anything else that
she has nothing to gain from personally.
3) Sexual Ambiguity
If your date has any leanings towards a sexual orientation that
does not match yours, RUN AWAY.
This is not something where people in disagreement compromise.
If you have any doubts, throw them on the proverbial table
immediately. For example, you do not want to be involved with
someone bisexual if you are interested in a monogamous relationship
between two people.
Similarly, you do not want to be a part of someone's plan to
prolong "coming out" by showing the world that she dates MOTOS
(i.e. members of the opposite sex).
I've heard of a breathtaking number of cases where couples were
broken up by changes in and / or realizations of differences in
sexual orientation.
Whatever lifestyle you choose to live, it is imperative that you
find someone who is like-minded. And keep in mind that sentiment
must be genuine on the part of the other person.
It's fair to say here that if you have an interest in a sexual
lifestyle that classifies as an alternative to the established
"norm" of one man and one woman, it is YOU who must be extra
careful of those who are desperate enough to feign approval simply
because they are DESPERATE.
Dig deeper. Deserve what you want.
4) Emotional Instability
Have you ever known woman who you couldn't ever really be sure of
when it comes to her demeanor? You know...you had no idea which
"version" of this person was going to "show up" at any given
time.
Yeah, well...RUN AWAY.
Someone who is emotionally unstable is not someone you want to be
in a relationship with. Be very vigilant here. Ask hard
questions.
Thanks to miraculous new advances in medications within the last
several years, there are people among us with severe mental illnesses
who act "fine" and lead perfectly "normal" lives...as long as they
are TAKING their meds.
Should there be a lapse in taking such medication, it is not
uncommon for it to be a real bear to get these folks back on track.
This spells out a VERY difficult life for you--and one that will
take twists and turns that are utterly arbitrary and will leave you
powerless to affect.
Is that what you want? Is that what you deserve?
5) Extreme Selfishness
If it is apparent upon getting to know someone that you will be
doing all of the giving and they will be doing all of the taking,
run away.
This realization can take place in ten minutes or it can take much
longer to sort through. Either way, get out.
Watch out for manipulators of this ilk. People like this can be
utterly fascinating to watch operate.
Masters at "self-promotion", the manipulatively selfish know
exactly how to get others to willingly do what they want--preferably
making them feel good about it all the while (somehow).
Such people tend to know how to appear "generous" at first, when in
reality all is part of a carefully crafted plot to get what they
want, typically at deeper levels than is apparent at first.
Extremely selfish people give "generously" on their own terms only.
What is given to you is what they choose to give you and what they
think you need. Your wants and needs are not considered...and never
will be.
Did I wake anyone up? I sure hope so.
Do not underestimate what I am talking about here. Despite my
blatant and opinionated disregard for sugarcoating the truth, I am
boldly telling you how to avoid a miserable life.
I do this because my concern in this particular context is for you,
the reader, not for those you DO NOT DESERVE.
When you find yourself dealing with anyone bearing the unmistakable
earmarks of "highly avoidable people", RUN AWAY. DO IT
IMMEDIATELY.
Whatever you do, do not fall into the temptation to "change her"
because you "care". Generally speaking, you will not succeed at
that.
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