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IN THIS EDITION:  Can it be possible that Emily and I have such a
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SO...IS MY RELATIONSHIP WITH EMILY REALLY AS GREAT AS I SAY IT IS?


Scot,

You make your marriage sound almost mythical.

What troubles do you really have?  Have you gone through any
extremely difficult times yet, like a death or some sort of
devastation together?

How do you know when trouble comes it will stay like this blissful
movie you portray?


Thanks,

Greg



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Thanks for writing, Greg.  I think you ask fair questions.

There sure aren't a whole lot of truly happy couples out there, so
how can you truly be sure that Emily and I really are the exception
rather than the norm?

And if we are indeed "the real deal", what assurance is there that
we'll continue to be well into the future?

I mean, you could even ask if it's altogether reasonable to expect
happiness from marriage at all nowadays rather than strife and
eventual breakup.

After all, there are several well-known dating coaches who've been
married and divorced since we started writing newsletters back in
2005, and yet they're still advising others.

Others have gotten into long-term relationships, made babies and
broken up without ever even having gotten around to getting married
(or telling their respective audiences about all the drama).

Truth be told, Emily and I may STILL be the only truly happy
married couple out there teaching this stuff AND "walking the
talk".  If anything, we're among very few.

Your letter has actually caused me to come to that realization even
as I'm writing this, and it's a sobering thought indeed.

I'm certainly not overjoyed about it.  I wish there were others
...many, many others.

But nevertheless, there's a reason why I've had other famous dating
coaches hire me to coach them on choosing a great woman and
relationship management.

And I firmly believe there's also a reason why we've got
testimonials from dozens of men and women who've found the love of
their respective lives--and are continuing to be in a happy
relationship months and years later.

I mean, obviously we've only been here a little under ten years,
so we're going to have to see how everyone's doing 25 or 30 years
from now, right?

But the trend is clearly there.  What we teach is what we live, and
it works.

In fact, guys who've come here for a Ten-Plus Live weekend have
seen us in action.

So then, what's the secret?

Well, it all starts with this, Greg.

When you deserve what you want AND marry the right woman things
tend to go WAY, WAY, WAY better from the very start than they do
for most couples.

Those are BY FAR the two biggest "X-factors" at play here.

Welcome to why I harp on them both so much...because I know the
sheer POWER of them.

That's why I've devoted my life purpose to helping other
people achieve great relationships as well.

Now, to address your most pressing question directly, Emily and I
get our fair share of challenges in life, believe me.

I'm not going to "go public" with what those challenges have been
thus far as I don't believe it would serve any constructive purpose
to bore you with them.

But see, one key factor is that we tend not to create those
challenges for each other.  As such, when they come up we're a team
and we tackle them together.

I will say this, also.  There's an inverse correlation between
making good decisions and bad things happening.

The wiser you get, the better "luck" you tend to have in this life.
Nevertheless, there's no denying that "stuff happens" sometimes
anyway.

But you see, that's where I look at even your baseline assumption
differently than you do.

In my mind, were something truly devastating to happen, I believe
Emily and I would become even closer rather than be torn apart by
it.

That's because our relationship has been built on a firm foundation
of mutual concern and respect rather than the shifting sands of
"what can I get from the other person?"

The former mindset is that of a true partnership.  Partners tend
to gain energy by doing the right thing for each other, and by
being there for each other when times get tough for everyone.

Meanwhile, the latter is basically a business transaction. And it's
when things are no longer "fun" or "profitable" that men and women
who form couples on that premise bail on each other.

The bottom line remains that when a man and a woman represent the
"big four" for each other they can stay crazy about each other
indefinitely.

And make no mistake, ultimately it's that fourth component--
character--that delivers the real "secret sauce" with regard to
lasting power in a relationship.

Even extreme challenges make that bond stronger rather than
weakening it.


 

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