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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Are you thinking you want a woman who's more of a
"firecracker" than a "shrinking violet"?  If so, read this...

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WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN


Most guys mortally dread the idea of starting a conversation with a
woman, only to draw a blank and end up confronted by "awkward
silence".

Well, as fortune would have it one of the "mad geniuses" I know
has come up with something that solves this painful problem
forever:



What To Say To Women



This is an easy system that any man can handle.

It all but ensures that you'll NEVER run out of things to say
when you meet a woman.

No more embarrassing, awkward moments...no matter WHAT she
throws at you, even if it's complete silence.

Start the conversation the RIGHT way--the confident way--without ever
getting stuck, fumbling for words, or even saying the WRONG thing
that'll kill all hope for attraction:



No More Awkward Silences...Ever



But let's go beyond simply not messing up.

What if you could actually OUTPERFORM all the other guys out there
when it comes to enchanting and amazing women with your words?

What if you could get them laughing and enjoying themselves?  

What if you could effortlessly flirt with them and fully expect
them to flirt back...even in the most open and obvious ways you can
imagine?

You'll thank me for this, I'm sure:



Never Be At A Loss For What To Say Ever Again



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MY #1 SECRET TO NEVER ENDING UP WITH A BORING WOMAN


You know, there's a lot of talk in the world of men's dating advice
about what kind of man attracts women.

Nevertheless, here's something that DOESN'T get talked about nearly
as often, at least among us guys: What drives the kind of women
WE'RE attracted to?

In other words, beyond their level of physical attractiveness--which
is obvious--WHY do we tend to favor a certain "type" of woman?

Interestingly, some would argue that we as MEN tend to be attracted
to "bitchy" women in a manner similar to how women might apparently
be attracted to "jerks".

Now THAT'S an interesting thought, particularly since I have to
admit I just might have gone through a phase where I thought and
acted in support of that theory myself.

How about you?  

Do you find women who'll "contend" with you irresistibly
intriguing?   

In fact, if they put up a fuss more often than not and/or willingly
start arguments at the drop of a hat, is that flat out sexy to you?

If so, you're far from alone, believe me.

Why is it that so many of us are drawn to such women?  

Is it a case of most of us lacking self-esteem, like what we so
often cite in the case of women who end up with I/Js?  

I'm not at all convinced that's it.  

I think most of us as guys aren't so much thinking in terms of
deserving mistreatment by a woman who's a bit contentious as we are
about being CHALLENGED by her.

Truth be told, we're sometimes less drawn to a more complacent and
agreeable sort of woman because we are deathly afraid of being
BORED by her.

Meanwhile, a woman who's unafraid to ignite some good old-fashioned
conflict once in a while seems more EXCITING to hang out with, at
least in our eyes.

We rationalize that if she is more challenging and less compliant
life will be a TON more interesting overall than if we ended up
with a woman who could be best described as a "shrinking violet".

On the surface, I suppose this all makes sense, especially when you
start fantasizing about what a "firecracker" would be like in the
bedroom compared to a "shrinking violet".  

No comparison, right?

But despite our wildest fantasies, the REALITY of living with such
a challenging woman only arises once we actually HAVE her in
our lives.

Sure, things may be exciting for a bit, but ultimately we might
very well realize we're nothing short of MISERABLE if we're reduced
to arguing with this chick and defending ourselves against her
challenges all the time.

And yet, if we do in fact get sick of putting up with her crap
we're still left to deal with it, even if the fun has long since
been sapped from the experience.

But hey...at least we're not BORED, right?

I have to say I've been in long-term relationships with contentious
women in the past and grew very frustrated sooner than later.

I finally figured out that although I certainly don't like to be in
a boring relationship, having a woman who would "challenge" me in
an argumentative way was NOT the best way to spice things up.

The more effective solution, I found, was a disarmingly SIMPLE one.

Instead of relying on a contentious woman to make life more
interesting, why not actually go find a woman who LIKES TO HAVE
FUN?

You know, one who ISN'T BORING?

Well...duh.

Think about it.  She can be interested in all sorts of outdoor
activities, be blessed with an amazing sense of humor, have an
unquestionable zest for life, be multi-talented, and even be ready
to go explore the world with you.

But she can ALSO be a total sweetheart who goes about all of the
above with a smile on her face almost all the time.

She can rationally discuss with you what the next thrilling
adventure the two of you should take together might be, and agree
totally with whatever decisions you make with regard to it.

And guess what?  All of THOSE traits might not only make her
downright fun to hang out with in public, they might ALSO make her
every bit as much of a "firecracker" in the bedroom as a woman who
argues with you all the time.

But here's the most amazing part of all.  She's not necessarily a
"shrinking violet", either.

A woman really can be a smiling, fun bundle of energy even as she
knows how to rationally defend her position and assert her
opinion...when necessary.  

That's what having self-respect is all about, right?

So maybe it's time to rethink what having an "exciting" woman in
your life really means.  

Definitely don't ever settle for a woman who bores you to tears,
but all the while make sure to choose a woman who's going to
contribute to your happiness over the long term rather than to your
misery.

Hey, horror movies and good comedies are BOTH entertaining.  But
which scenario would you rather live out on a day-to-day basis?

The choice is YOURS and YOURS alone.  Deserve what you want.


 

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