[X&Y] 5 Secret Tricks To Look Your Best On A Date
Published: Mon, 09/21/15
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WHAT'S INSIDE: It's always a good idea to look your best when
out on a first date with a woman. Here are five little-known
secrets to doing so.
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WHAT IF WOMEN ONLINE WERE WRITING YOU FIRST,
BEGGING TO MEET YOU?
Most guys mess up big time when they try online dating.
The crazy part is that even as their chances with women are
swirling down the drain in plain sight, they still do NOTHING
about it.
Welcome to why over 95% of all men quit online dating in shame
and disgust within 90 days.
Now, your response to that statistic might be despair. As in, "Why
even try?"
But...if you're in the know, you can say instead: "Great...more for
me."
See, online dating is a LEARNED SKILL...yet a shockingly easy
one.
Layer on top of that a few carefully crafted ninja secrets that even a
Jedi could love, and you'll start getting ALL the women (literally).
By now you know I made online dating my own personal bonanza,
cultivating in my meeting Emily on Match.com.
But that was TEN years ago. Since then I've become more and
more immersed in the art and science of online dating success.
The culmination of all that time and effort is that I've now developed
a clear-cut method for writing your online profile that CAN'T LOSE:
The Projection Profile
Guys who have been running The Projection Profile have reported
dramatic increases in the number of women writing them first,
often with messages like "OMG...that's the best profile EVER".
Other women practically beg to meet as soon as possible, just
because they're stir-crazy with intrigue.
But the best part is that The Projection Profile gives you all the
power. Watch in awe as woman after woman tries as hard as
she can to impress YOU.
The Projection Profile
Yes, it's different. Most even think it's counter-intuitive.
But all that means is that NOBODY figures this out on their
own.
Like I said...more for you.
The audio (which comes with a transcript) also contains
all-new secrets to great profile pics, how to write first e-mails,
how to get women to meet you ASAP without "flaking", and
more.
It's yours for less than the cost of one month's membership
to Match.com.
How much is it worth to actually make online dating WORK
for you, instead of continuing to send message after message
into what seems like a black hole?
Online dating can and should be this fun.
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5 SECRET TRICKS TO LOOK YOUR BEST ON A FIRST DATE
First of all, nothing has changed where it counts.
You STILL don't have to be a GQ model in order to build massive
attraction in women.
It's also still true that most women aren't really all that psyched
to be around men who are "prettier" than they are. They want to be
the ones who draw the visual attention.
Fine. If you're like me, you're good with that.
But that's not to say you can forget about looking your
best, especially when you're meeting a woman for the first time.
Women appreciate a man who does the best with what he's
got. They always have, and always will.
Why? Well, that would be because self-respect, confidence,
character and the sheer ability to master any situation (including
your appearance) are traits that turn women on.
Deep down I think we all know this, at least at a basic level.
We know better than to skip the shower, throw on a ketchup-stained
wife-beater shirt and lose our comb before heading out to spend
quality time with a woman.
And most of us have already heard before that our shoes and our
belt ought to match, that we should wear something other than a
company-logo golf shirt, and that a small amount of Dolce & Gabbana
cologne rocks a woman's house to the foundation.
But what I've got for you today is something that will help you
take all of this to the next level.
Read on, and gain an edge that almost no guys will ever take
advantage of...unless they happen to be doing some of what I'm about
to share by mistake.
Here, right before your very eyes, are five ways to make sure you
look your absolute best on a date...all of which are virtually unheard
of:
1) SLEEP
Yeah, yeah. I know you work too hard and play too hard also. The
mantra of today's modern man is "sleep when you're dead".
But here's the problem. When you're out with a woman after not
having had enough rest, you basically look dead already.
Seriously, it shows. Your eyes look sullen and have dark circles
under them. You lack the kind of charismatic radiance you'd have
if you'd gotten more shuteye.
On the contrary, when you're well rested you not only look
healthier and more alive, your wit is sharper and your
decision-making more effective. You're just a better man all
around.
2) WORK OUT
A lot of us have a fitness club membership. Only some of us use
it.
If you're among the latter, I can't think of a better reason to
shock everyone by making a cameo appearance at the gym than as a
"pre-game warmup" before meeting a woman.
Go lift some weights and do some cardio. It'll get your blood
flowing, raise your energy level, and probably make you look
fresher and healthier in an almost supernatural, subjective way.
Even if you only have 90 seconds to spare, you can do this.
I can't explain the effect, exactly, but just like getting some
sleep has entirely positive effects on your appearance AND your
attitude, so does mixing in a workout before a date.
This goes DOUBLE if you're meeting a woman sometime after a long
day at work, by the way.
3) GET THE RED OUT
OK, here's a secret weapon for you. Get some extra-strength eye
drops and use them right before you leave the house.
I know this sounds crazy, but women focus on a man's eyes like you
would not believe.
One drop in each eye will make your eyes clearer and sharper. This
will enhance your appearance in a way that matters to a woman.
Plus, on the off chance that you're not exactly 18 anymore, you'll
look noticeably younger and healthier also. "Survival of the
fittest" is yours, all in a one-ounce bottle of Visine.
The caveat is to use this tip sparingly. You don't want to get
into the habit of using eye drops all the time.
4) ...AND GET THE BLUE OUT, WHILE YOU'RE AT IT
Unless you've been to some style expert who called you out as a
rare exception, most of us guys look GREAT when we wear blue.
Throw anything you've heard about being a "summer" or a "winter",
etc. out the window. Break out the most tasteful blue shirt you
have (preferably solid color) and WEAR IT.
Whether this is going to "bring out the color of your eyes" or not
isn't the whole point (although if you DO have blue eyes and don't
wear blue you've been missing out big time).
What DOES matter is that the color blue conveys peace, safety and
security. If you want proof, just about every major airline in
the world has blue paint somewhere on their airplanes.
And considering that your ability to make a woman feel safe and
secure in your presence is an integral component of the "big four",
I think you can see the value here.
5) MUSIC
Having talked about sleep and hitting the gym, it should be
apparent by now that a positive attitude when with a woman is HUGE.
How you feel is written all over how you look on the outside.
So while you're driving to meet a woman, listen to your absolute
favorite music on the way. And crank it up.
I really don't care what kind of music it is. That's all a matter
of your personal preference. Just make sure you get a solid dose
of it before seeing a woman.
Music has a tangibly magical effect on our mood. Show up smiling
instead of cold or distracted. Things will end better for you (and
her) that way.
Granted, some of what I just shared with you may sound a bit
unorthodox. Then again, they're five unheard of ways to maximize
your appearance when meeting a woman.
So brush your teeth and use mouthwash. Make sure your nails are
clean. Get a fresh haircut. And by all means trim the nose hair.
Go through the typical checklist and get typical results.
But add in the secret steps above and you MAY just get revolutionary
results. Try them, and let me know how it turns out.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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