[X&Y] 7 Insanely Cool Skills That Women Love
Published: Wed, 09/23/15

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IN THIS EDITION: Do you wonder if you're interesting enough for a
woman? Are you unsure if you've got enough to offer compared to
other guys? Read this...
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DON'T READ THIS (AND KICK YOURSELF LATER)
One of the questions guys always ask me is, "Hey Scot man,
you've got some great programs there...so which one do I
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That's a tough question. Female Persuasion, Behind Closed Doors,
The Big 4 Man Challenge, The Leading Man, The Man's Approach,
Virtuosity, Online Dating Domination 2.0, The Difference and The
Master Plan each focus on a different, specific area of excellence
with women.
But unlike most tough questions in this life this one actually
comes with an easy answer:
When the time is right, pull the trigger and get them ALL.
As it turns out, that perfect time to make your move is right
now.
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7 INSANELY COOL SKILLS THAT WOMEN LOVE
I'm not sure what it is lately, but I've been getting more than my
fair share of e-mails from guys saying something to the effect of
this:
"But Scot, I'm incredibly useless/boring/average and there's
nothing about me that a woman would be attracted to, especially
compared to other guys out there."
My knee-jerk reaction is to encourage men who think that way to
stop comparing themselves to others and take control over their
circumstances instead.
Thankfully, we can do something to change the way things are if
we just don't feel like we've got a whole lot to offer a woman.
That's what deserving what you want is all about.
But that said, my knee-jerk reaction has to yield to a gut-level
hunch in this case.
That's this: I'd be willing to bet that you already have some
pretty badass skills in your toolbox. The problem is that you
simply aren't leveraging them.
Here are the first four of seven common skills that thrill women to
no end. You may already possess some, but all of them can be
acquired with a modicum of effort:
1) Fixing Stuff
Right now, as we speak you might already consider yourself a whiz
at plumbing, electrical work, carpentry, automotive repair or the
like. If so, that's a very good thing.
But if you don't consider yourself so handy, here's the truth.
It's extremely likely that you're better at fixing things than you
think, if you'd only give it a shot.
I know this because for years I personally avoided getting involved
with any kind of repairs that I didn't already feel confident with
(which is to say, practically all of them).
Then one day somebody wanted more money to repair something than I
could afford. So I read the friggin' manual. And what do you
know? I fixed it myself. And it wasn't that hard.
You too can do this, and the experience will be good for you. In
fact, for most basic repairs the true skill involved is following
directions.
In fact, let's take this conversation even further. I don't care
who you are, my bet is that you already know how to fix something.
Every man who's ever lived has been forced to figure out how to
repair certain things, even if it was because some sort of
emergency situation forced his hand.
For example, that's actually how most of us discovered we know
how to change a flat tire. Go figure...
Now, I'm not saying you have to know how to jet racing carbs or
calibrate rocket engines in order to make the grade here. All you
really have to do is start thinking of yourself as "useful" and
then get on with it.
In the vast majority of cases, the very first time you attempt to
repair something will be the only time you need to feel confident
about doing it the next time.
To be perfectly frank with you, plenty of women (especially single
moms) already know how to fix stuff themselves. They've learned
how through the very same process I just described.
But here's the thing. Fortunately for us, it still turns them on
to no end when we can handle it instead.
2) Knowing Another Language
Oh, I know what you're saying.
"Scot, man...I took like six years of Spanish in school and I still
don't know diddly. You've got to bekidding."
Yeah, well...who ever said anything about being fluent?
For some insane, undisclosed reason women go bonkers with
attraction whenever a guy they're already somewhat intrigued by
throws down another language. Even if it's just one strategic
phrase.
Heck, it can even be one WORD. If you know how to say "thank you"
in Arabic ("shokran") you're already way ahead of almost everyone.
Bust out with that the next time the opportunity presents itself
and watch your woman's jaw drop.
Indeed, knowing how to greet people and thank them in as many
languages as you can think of is a KILLER arrow to have in your
quiver.
Even if you just know how to pronounce menu items at French,
Italian and Mexican restaurants you've probably already separated
yourself from the herd.
3) Music
Here we go again. "But Scot..."
Yeah, yeah. Whatever.
So you're not wielding an axe like Yngwie Malmsteen just yet.
That's fine. Hang in there with me, here.
One of the most amazing moments of my entire life was when I
discovered I could attract a half-dozen young, single hotties while
doing something I previously dreaded...the laundry.
I took a guitar to the laundromat, sat on the table and strummed
four or five songs that contained the same three chords each.
You'd have thought I had stapled catnip to my boxers.
It takes about ten minutes to learn a G-C-D chord progression
(Google it), and about a week's worth of sporadic practice until
your fingertips stop hurting.
And it's not like you need a $3000 Taylor guitar either. Go to a
pawn shop and pick up a half-decent old beater for $75 and you're
in. I recommend a Yamaha or Seagull because they're both known to
be easy on the fingers.
Some of you also have piano lessons in your past. If it has been
years since you blew the dust off, you might be shocked at how
quickly it all comes back to you.
Others of you played the sax in junior high. That can work well
also, as it has been known to for Bill "Slick Willie" Clinton.
Now, if you went with the tuba or bassoon back in school, I'm not
sure there's an app for that. But if all else fails, I will say
this much...most people are WAY better singers than they think they
are. It's just that most of us are straight-up terrified of
singing in front of people.
Why not throw it all out on the table the next time you're at a
karaoke bar? Just give it a "test run" and see how it goes.
Even if your vocal cords fail you, confidence and energy will
earn you thunderous applause.
4) Cooking
You knew this was coming. After all, I literally wrote the book on
this skill.
Seriously though, this really is the "nuclear weapon" of attraction
and I'll tell you why.
For starters, the basic fact of the matter is that almost nobody
knows their way around the kitchen nowadays. That alone makes a
man who can cook interesting.
Just last night I took our extended family out to a Mexican
restaurant for dinner. The place was packed. There were two
dozen other restaurants nearby, and the parking lots of each one
were overflowing.
Last night was TUESDAY night, remember?
I mean, who cooks dinner at home anymore? If they do, it's
probably pre-processed crap in a box.
If you find a great woman who CAN cook, good for you. But if
you can challenge her to an "Iron Chef Battle", she's probably
going to accept...and that's even better.
That's exactly what I used to do. I even talked about it in my
online dating profile.
I'd have women show up at my house who I hadn't even met before.
And yes, I'd cook something amazing for them. Sometimes they
helped, which was cool too.
There's really no better way to build rapport and set the precedent
for intimacy than by cooking dinner and eating together in a
private environment (i.e. your place or hers).
By the way, if you can boil water you can do this. I'm fully
self-taught, and once again this is yet another skill that just
isn't as difficult as people make it out to be.
It looks like there was plenty to say about the first four "badass
skills", so I'll let the next three wait until tomorrow.
For now, let's just say that Part Two will cover three areas that
you'll probably NEVER guess...so stay tuned.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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