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IN THIS EDITION:  As promised, here's Part Two on badass skills
that women love.

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"CAN I JUST STAY HERE TONIGHT?  IT'S SO COLD
AND LONELY IN MY APARTMENT."


Have you ever wondered what really makes a woman
stick around?

What makes her completely addicted to you and 100%
loyal?

So loyal, in fact, that a richer, better looking,
younger guy could come along and try to sweep her
off her feet...and she'd tell him where to go.

Ever wondered how to make a woman that into you?

Well, the most important factor is to treat her right
in the bedroom.

"Blow her mind in the bedroom and she ain't going
anywhere"

Why?

Because so few guys know what they're doing in bed that
when a woman meets a guy who really 'gets it' she doesn't
ever want to let him go.

Here's what one of my favorite sexperts, Adam Armstrong,
has to say:



Better In Bed...Starting Tonight



His techniques work even if you're not sexually experienced
and aren't very big 'down there'.

Click here for the whole story:



Better In Bed...Starting Tonight



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7 BAD-TO-THE-BONE SKILLS THAT WOMEN LOVE (PART TWO)


Yesterday I sent you the first four of seven completely killer
but relatively easy to acquire skills that are guaranteed to
make women think you're amazing.

If you were inspired by those, the last three should really
melt your face off.

These are the ones that few guys really ever consider, but
they're the most POWERFUL of all:

 

5) Negotiating
 

Oh man, this one is PRICELESS.

Did you know that most women really CAN’T STAND having
to negotiate deals? That’s especially true if it’s a BIG deal, and
it goes DOUBLE if she’s got to negotiate with a bunch of “macho”
dudes who’ll probably not respect her.

Meanwhile, here’s something you may or may not have figured
out about the art of negotiation. It’s WAY less stressful to negotiate
someone else’s deal than one you’re directly involved in.

The fact that you perceive there to be less at stake when you’re
not directly involved can actually be a good thing, as long as you
do indeed care what happens. It keeps your thoughts clear and
focused while taking personal emotion about what you want and/or\
what you fear pretty much out of the equation.

It’s kind of like how it’s easier for me to tell you how to write a first
e-mail to a woman online than it was for me to come up with
something whenever I saw a woman’s profile pic that was so hot
she stopped me in my tracks. I don’t have any extreme desire or
fear of loss working against me when I make suggestions for others.

All of this can only lead to one thing. A woman will think you’re
INCREDIBLE if you go with her to the Fiat Dealership and help her
get a great deal on that “cute little yellow one” she’s been dreaming
of.

She may ultimately think you’re even more amazing if you talk her
out of it altogether, but that’s a different blog post.

Anyway, here’s the thing. You don’t really have to be a big-time
“closer” to get this right. First of all, the fact that you’re a GUY
almost automatically means the salesmen aren’t going to play as
many games with you. That’s just the way it is. It’s not like you’re
going to be intimidated by some car salesman’s “machismo”, are
you?

Even if the dealership is run by women, being a guy is still going to
be a plus. I can assure you that from direct experience.

As for the negotiation itself, advance preparation is everything.
Knowledge is power, and the Internet makes everything dead simple
nowadays. The numbers you arm yourself with will ultimately trump
just about any dealer’s attempt at taking her for a ride.

Your first move should be to go to Edmunds.com and see what the
exact car she wants (options included) goes for locally. Those guys
give information for the US market, but I’m sure there are sites like
that for those of you outside the States.

If she’s got a car to trade in, figure out whether she’s better off selling
it herself or not first, remembering how sales tax will play into it. If
she’s likely to do better trading it in, check both Edmund’s and Kelly
Blue Book (kbb.com) to get an idea of what she should be getting for
it. Then, just print off all the numbers and take them with you to the
dealership.

Don’t let the sales guys tell you that the information you gathered is
“inaccurate” or any other B.S. Stick to your guns and they’ll soon
figure out they can’t play that game with you.

In fact, you’re actually better off keeping your cards close at first,
leading with more favorable numbers than your research may have
led you to expect. You might be amazed when they actually go for a
better deal than you think, so it’s okay to swing for the fence at first.

Bear in mind also that you can typically sell your car to a different
dealership than you buy the new one from. Not everyone knows
that and it’s a true ace in the hole. It’s actually useful to go to Carmax
first just to get a baseline, real-world trade in value.

Actually, here’s something else useful to know. If you’ve got your eye
on one particular car sitting on a certain dealer’s lot, another dealer
can actually sell it to you through a process called “dealer trade”.

Finally, be sure to take her to multiple dealerships. You’ll know fairly
quickly how good the offer is from the first dealer you visited.

When we bought Emily’s current car we actually got a better deal for
her old one from Carmax than Kelley had told us to expect if we sold
it ourselves—and several thousand more than what other dealers
had been offering.

Then the dealership we bought her new vehicle from wrote us a
deal on it that beat all others by $2500.

With the new car’s price negotiated independent of the trade, we
then leveraged the Carmax quote on the old car and they beat it by a
nominal sum, saving us a step.

The fact that they had they exact car Emily wanted on their lot further
simplified matters, so the deal was about as streamlined as possible.

Obviously, a little shopping and negotiating paid BIG dividends.

I’m sure it also helped that we bought the new car at 9pm on the last
day of the month, right when the salesmen are about as motivated as
humanly possible.

Here endeth the car buying lesson, but suffice it to say women will
love you if you can work similar magic at the furniture store, with real
estate agents or in any other big-ticket instance where negotiation
matters.

6) Driving
 

I’m not going to get into the whole debate as to whether men are
better drivers than women or not. It’s actually sort of irrelevant,
anyway.

The point is that when you’re with a woman she’d greatly prefer if
YOU did the driving. That’s true a startling percentage of the time
even if you’re in HER car. This can only mean that you have to be
an EXCELLENT driver. And I don’t mean like the Rain Man. I mean
for real.

Now see, to some guys that means that they know how to rev
their motor and “burn rubber”. But to women an “excellent driver”
is the guy who she feels perfectly safe sitting next to in the
passenger seat.

Focus on that part, which you learned in order to get your license
to start with, when she’s with you. She’ll LOVE you for it. There’s
just no finer way to come off as a protector.

You can cross off the performance driving school item off your
bucket list at some point, and she may even like going with you to
track days afterwards…but that comes long after you establish
your ability to think and act effectively behind the wheel.

By the way, if you don’t know how to drive a stick shift, learn.

And yes, I know some of you live in dense metropolitan areas
where it’s actually a liability to have a car so you don’t drive. I
still think you should get your license, if only because you might
want to rent a car the next time you go to Los Angeles…or date
a chick who lives in the suburbs.

7) Winning Prizes At Carnivals
 

What an easy way to be a woman’s hero this is. Words cannot
describe how much women love you when you win them some
cheesy panda bear at the fair.

Nevertheless, this is an area where 90% of men out there will
make every blasted excuse in the book to keep from having to
face up to the truth: If you wimp out, you suck.

Notwithstanding that, it’s actually pretty easy to see why so many
men are reticent to even go there. If they do indeed play—and
lose—they’ll instantly look like a, well, loser in front of their girlfriends.

But you can count on this every single time. Some other guy’s
going to win the pink and orange koala and his girl is going to be
BEAMING. Meanwhile, YOUR girl is going to wish she was her.

So essentially, there are only three options: 1) Wimp out and suck,
2) look like a loser in front of literally everyone, or 3) win.

Obviously, the third option is the only viable one. Yes, you’ve got
to spend $20 to win a bear worth $10…assuming you’ve got stone
cold skills. But I promise you the investment you’re really making
is NOT in the bear.

So then, let’s make this as painless on you as possible. Go for the
booth where you bust balloons with darts.

That really is the easiest one of the lot, while still having the right
psychological effect. All you really have to do in order to win stuff
at carnivals forever is to spend $20 the next time you’re at one
without a woman and you’ll be good at it by the time you’re done.

Second place goes to the game where you shoot water into a hole
faster than anyone else. You should start winning the second time
you try it, simply by holding your aim from the first attempt.

But the darts are the true winner because of the all-important
perceived skill involved. Let’s face it, you can’t just pick little
floating ducks out of a kiddie pool and get lucky. That game
doesn’t count.

For what it’s worth, the basketball games tend to be much harder
than they look because the hoop is usually smaller.

Actually, the game where you shoot the red star out of the center
of a piece of paper has got to be the hardest. The secret is to shoot
a circle around the star, but even then I’ve had the guy find one
speck of red dust on the back of the card and deny me the victory.

I’m telling you…it’s balloons for the win.

Yes, you still need to have a sense of style, have the right body
language, clean up and do the best with what you have. You know,
everything that will make a good first impression.

But if you unleash any (or all) of the seven skills I’ve shared with
you I can double-dog guarantee you that women will not only be
duly impressed, they’ll flat-out adore you, all without you having to
“fake it” or pull any kind of weird tricks.

Essentially, ANY skill that demonstrates that you are a man who
leads with a solution for making a woman feel safe, comfortable
and provided for will be right on the money.

Be Good,

Scot McKay





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