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WHAT'S INSIDE:   You may or may not be dating an "A-list" celebrity
(see below)...but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be ready to handle
being with a woman who ACTS like it.

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SELECTING WOMEN WISELY


Before we get going with today's newsletter, I've got to give you
"fair warning" about it.

The e-mail I received and am sharing with you today is flat-out
shocking.

I know that description is used pretty glibly by a lot of "gurus"
out there, but in this case it's very, very true.

Reading this guy's e-mail SHOCKED me.

In fact, I'm not sure if I even believe what he's telling me.  But
yes...what you're about to read landed in my inbox word for
word.

I will say this, however. 

Given the context of his message it comes off as genuine.  What
he's saying is well in line with what I've heard elsewhere about
what it's like to date A-list celebrities.

And one thing I AM sure of is that it's indeed a man who's read up
on being a "big four" guy who stands the BEST chance of dating one.

No matter what though, the important part to remember when reading
what follows is that you've GOT to choose a high quality woman...that
point is driven home with considerable force.

I'm reminded of David Shade's excellent program Select Women
Wisely.  I can't recommend enough getting your hands on a copy of
it right here:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/sww
   


In fact, I'll stand by that recommendation by also including for
you a copy of my own program on how to build long-lasting
relationships with high quality women, The Leading Man.

Just e-mail me at:  scot@deservewhatyouwant.com  when you
order Select Women Wisely from the link above and I'll send it to
you.

If you already have The Leading Man, no problem.  I'll send you
another of my major programs of your choice instead.  Just specify
which one  (e.g. Behind Closed Doors, The Big 4 Man Challenge,
Virtuosity, Female Persuasion, The Man's Approach, Online Dating
Domination 2.0, The Master Plan or The Difference).

Really, gentlemen...this is one of THE most important parts of life.
You've GOT to get this right:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/sww



And now, get a load of this e-mail from one of you...



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LETTER FROM A READER


Hello Scot,

I have been receiving your mails for a while now and enjoy the
common sense in them.

I wont brag or bore you, I am sure you are aware of the great
things that can happen for an evolved/alpha male in our society.

I have been lucky/unlucky enough to have been dating an a-list
celebrity off and on for the past few months.

Really.  Oscar nominated actress, model, fashion house, the full
deal.  And yes, beautiful.

Me?  Poor as a church mouse, nearly 40, a face that could be
described as full of character...I got with her because I refused
to be intimidated by beauty, power or wealth, and I am effing
interesting...this she dug but everything else is as described in
your news letter.

Hard work!  Maybe harder than need be because of a culture gap. 

I am English, from the north. A blunt man from a region famous for
straight talking.  She is American, east coast.

I found myself treading egg shells and minding what I said a lot
more than I would have to with a European woman.

Is this standard? Or the reserve of your rich and famous?

I would like to know more about American girls and why they seem to
be such hard work. Getting them to bed does not seem to be the
problem but a lot of post match analysis and magazine psychology.

But the payoff is your women have a femininity that is sadly absent
in modern Britain...

If you have time I would appreciate your opinion.


[Name Withheld By Request]



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Thanks for writing.

First of all, outstanding work, man. 

I've heard from other guys who have dated or who are dating a
former contestant on "The Bachelor", the local TV weathergirl in
their major-league city, and a former Olympic gymnast.
respectively.

That's to go along with three (count 'em) who have dated
cheerleaders from major sports teams.  (Falcons, Lions, Spurs) 
 
But I have to say you're the first who has reported dating an
A-list celebrity.
 
Now let's answer your question...
 
I really have found that many particularly beautiful women go
about life with an attitude as if they're A-list stars whether
that's true or not. 
 
This is because most guys fall all over themselves to treat them
like "royalty" based solely on their sex appeal, and it began at an
early age.  

So they've only done what's natural:  Sat back, relaxed and
thoroughly enjoyed it...all the while becoming more and more
spoiled in the process.
 
Obviously, this can cause any normal, red-blooded woman to get a
bit lazy as far as her personality, goal-orientation and even her
actual character are concerned. 

But the weird part (and an equally significant part of the problem)
is that even if a certain man comes along who truly resents those
aspects of her being, chances are he'll still kowtow to her every
whim.
 
Meanwhile, it follows logically that women who are truly gorgeous
and sexy as well as being total sweethearts and down-to-earth are
rare gems.
 
This may be particularly true in North America, the UK and perhaps
Down Under; but I've been to 105 countries so far and I'm not sure
any particular culture has figured out how to nix this phenomenon
altogether. 
 
And for what it's worth, I'm not at all sure that real, actual fame
as we define it has everything to do with enabling the personality
pattern we're discussing here.
 
I'll never forget this.  I saw video footage from a high-profile
birthday party for a friggin' BEATLE, and sure-enough there was a
pretty young girl in the background who was carrying herself as if
she were the "man of the hour", going so far as to clearly blow off
the birthday boy himself. 

It was nothing short of breathtaking to behold.  She seriously
believed she was the center of attention, as she'd grown
accustomed to being.
 
Contrast that woman's persona with that of, say, Princess Diana.

Every report about her supported the notion that she was the
absolute "real deal" with regard to being both fantastically
beautiful AND having a heart of pure gold despite her world-class
fame.

Now, I'm sure she had her moments.  Don't get me wrong.  

But that doesn't change the fact that she often visited children
with AIDS and land-mine victims in some of the remotest and poorest
parts of the world, all without any hint of pretense. 

In her mind, she was just another fellow human being who happened
to have the means and the reach to help many others.
 
Interesting, isn't it?
 
My strong suspicion is that every man does well to remain true to
his "big four" self whether the woman he's with is an "A-lister" or
The Girl Next Door.  
 
Being a leader, having a plan, and confidently asserting what's
right vis-a-vis what's in his woman's best interest will always
create attraction no matter how strong willed, similarly confident
or even self-important she is. 

From there, hey...it's up to us as pure "choosers" rather than
"chasers" to put mere sexual attraction on the back burner and
logically assess whether or not any woman we're with is up to our
holistic standards.

That goes for whether she's a household name gracing the covers of
magazines or she's simply gracing our household now and then.
 
So yes.  A beautiful, sexy woman who is high quality through and
through is hard to find, but the rewards for having the patience
and the wisdom to select wisely are manifold.  

Whether she's famous or not is really secondary at the end of the
day, so long as you have the intestinal fortitude to handle being
referred to as "Ms. A-Lister's Husband" now and then. [laughs]


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S.  Listen up, gentlemen, I fully realize that your mileage may
vary.

I also know that some of you guys are just getting started on the
road to success with women and hearing this guy's story can be
intimidating.

No worries...stay on the track to becoming a "big four" man and I can
straight-up promise you this:  You will be absolutely thrilled with
the women you start attracting...sooner than later.

Remember always, I'm certainly no "natural" and I'm not exactly
stopping female traffic as I walk down the street. 

Nevertheless, I wake up every day next to the woman of my dreams
and YOU CAN TOO.  There is no doubt in my mind that if I can, you
will also.




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