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WHAT'S INSIDE:  How can you make your intentions known to a woman
without looking like a needy wimp OR coming off as a controlling
jerk?

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THE FIRST STEP TO MAKING A BOLD STAND FOR WHAT
YOU WANT


Today I'm going to reveal a golden secret to getting the woman
you really want into your life.

But it's really just ONE piece of the whole puzzle of being the
"big four" man women naturally crave.

Life is truly about as good as it gets when you can be that guy
every minute of every day.

If you want to avoid the stress, embarrassment and worst of all the
rejection that most men live with for their entire lives, you've
got to take a bold step...and it's a move you've got to make LONG
before you're actually in the position to be bold with a woman.

You've got to make the firm decision that TODAY is the day you say
"enough is enough".

And from this very moment forward you start living your life as a
man who enjoys the company of exactly the women he wants,
whenever he wants.

No matter what the media would have us believe, the truth is that
the vast majority of us as men want only to treat a good woman
right.

We're all about being her hero.

But tragically, more good, decent men just like you than ever before
have simply given up...thinking that meeting real, live women just
isn't worth the trouble OR the perceived risk of "bothering" them.

Some guys have even commented on my own blog and elsewhere
that they've actually trained themselves to stop noticing women
altogether.

But meanwhile, the truth has been hiding in plain sight.

Despite all of the negative media, it's still true (and always will be)
that women WILL follow the lead of a man who has their best
interests in mind, and they'll LOVE him for it.

Even high quality women themselves are left shaking their heads.

They have NO IDEA what to do...except wait...and hope...that a
great man like you will rise above the fray and boldly turn her on.

That can ONLY mean that they're depending on YOU to sort all
of this out...and FAST:

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HOW TO BOLDLY GO FOR THE WOMAN YOU WANT


You've heard the saying time and again, especially relative to
men's dating advice:  "Women love men who boldly go for they want."

On paper that really sounds good.  But the problem is that the vast
majority of men I've talked to aren't exactly sure what it means.

You certainly don't want to be a wuss who stays on the sidelines,
trembling and afraid.  That much is clear as a bell.

But on the other hand, let's face it.  If you literally "go for
what you want" you might get arrested, hit with a sexual assault
charge and do hard time in the slammer.

What gives?

Well, you've got questions...so I've got answers.

There's more to solving this whole puzzle than simply recalling
that other oft-repeated adage associated with attraction:  "It's
not sexual harassment if she's attracted to you".

Yes, you should be as attractive as you can possibly be.  You
should do the best with what you've got.

Get that part right and chances are you'll have her attention.

But even then, you can't go around grunting "Gazongas!" and cop a
feel from every chick you see like you're Brendan Frazier in
Encino Man.

We all know that.

But even at the socially interactive level, haven't we been warned
by every dating expert on Earth about the dangers of "making our
feelings known" too soon?

I mean, doesn't that sort of thing make us look needy and
desperate?  No matter how "bold" you, it's really easy to sound
like you're begging.

But groveling only seems to be effective if you're a Motown singer
from the '60s, and even then that's debatable.

Here's what I think.  You can put aside any and all images of both
groping AND groveling.  Neither applies to the intended gist of
"boldly going for what you want".

Similarly, it's not about "not taking no for an answer", which
every man fears could only lead to rape charges (and rightly so).

Women don't respond positively to being forced into anything,
that's for sure.

And likewise, gushing your feelings without restraint indeed isn't
very attractive either.

The key word is CONFIDENCE.

Boldness in that context implies that you're not afraid of her.
You're willing to stand up and make your opinions and desires
known, and you're brash enough to assert them expecting good
results.

If you can do that while respecting a woman's free will all the
while, then you will have most definitely applied the correct
formula.

Women will indeed respect you in turn at the very least   But
what's more, they'll probably also have no choice but to be a
little turned on by it all.

To "boldly go after what you want", at its very essence, means to
be authoritative without using brute force.

You make it known that you have chosen her, not that you'd really
love to chase her around and "hope" she shows some favor toward you
in return.

You leave room for her to have a dissenting opinion, but you don't
really expect her to.  If she does, it'll be her loss and you know
it.

So why does this careful balance of confident selection while
respecting her adult decision making capabilities work so well?

As so often is the case, it once again comes down to inspiring a
sense of safety and comfort in her, in combination with confident,
masculine leadership.

You see, being forceful in a way that you appear to be taking
without permission VIOLATES a woman's feeling of security.

That's every bit as unattractive as groveling in a way that
demonstrates clear overall weakness.

But on the other hand, when you're confidently authoritative enough
to spell out to a woman that she should be with you, all the while
giving her space to willingly join you, then you've actually
reinforced her comfort.

She knows that you can stand up to her in a moment of truth, and
because you seek willingness rather than "compliance" you occur to
her as a man who has her best interests at heart.

To be honest, if she's even remotely into you BEFORE you present
your intentions in this way, her attraction level is going to peg
the meter afterwards.

Deserve what you want, and boldly go for what you want.


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S.  I've got yet another new episode of The Chick Whisperer
coming up soon.  This will be completely different, to say the least.




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