[X&Y] Women Want You To Be In Control (If You Do This)

Published: Thu, 12/10/15

 

=====
 
WHAT'S INSIDE:  Are you in control of your relationships, or do
women walk all over you?  Worse...do they simply walk away?

=====


 
TONIGHT'S FREE WEBINAR:  WIN AT ONLINE DATING


Remember, tonight (12/10) is the night that Susan Bratton is
hosting a free, live webinar with me on how to get the women
you want...all with your computer or smartphone.

Most guys feel the pain of frustration, knowing that they're
writing messages into a "black hole"...never to find out if the
women on their computer screen were (and are) as hot as they
seemed.

Worse...they know some other guy is meeting those women
instead of them.

Well, tonight is the night everything changes.  But you've got
to reserve one of the last available webinar spots here:



http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/win



Discover powerful (but ironic) ways to turn your profile into
the attractive, magnetic force it should be.

Get my best secrets to writing first e-mails that get responded
to.

Set your clock for 8p EST (GMT -6).  We're going to get
started on time and there will be no fluff.

Like you, I've been on webinar calls that are nothing but
"small talk" for the first 20 minutes. 

Forget that noise.

I've got everything to share with you and nothing to hide...
and only an hour or so to get it all done in:



http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/win
 


You already know I've been on a tear lately giving you
real, actionable ways to get more (and better) women into
your life.  

Expect nothing less from tonight's webinar.




=====


 
 
WOMEN WANT YOU TO BE IN CONTROL (IF YOU DO THIS)


Women love a man who's in control.

But what does that mean, exactly?  It really seems as if it's hard
to find the exact mix of attitudes and actions that will result in
turning women on rather than either causing them to roll their eyes
or worse...run away.

Being in control requires masculine strength, almost by definition.

Yet, we've all heard about certain guys who can only be described
as "controlling jerks".  It's their way or the highway, regardless
of what the woman desires or even what's good for her.

Almost invariably, guys who attempt to hamfist relationships like
this are actually demonstrating more weakness than strength.

They put the woman they're with on lockdown, largely because
they're so insecure in their jealousy.

They assert their selfish, narcissistic will in a feeble attempt to
feel powerful, probably because they lack power in virtually every
other area of life.

But make no mistake, there are also guys who are so weak that
even when they try to be controlling, they come off as begging.

Perhaps you've known a guy who was so insecure about losing a
woman that he resorted to threats and/or ultimatums to try to keep
her around.

Such behavior only comes off as desperation.  Leveraging fear of
loss is quite simply an ill-conceived attempt to hold a
relationship together that's not healthy for either partner.

Meanwhile, there are even guys out there who habitually deny a
woman almost anything that's within their sphere of influence to
affect, even if they're required to fight pure, obvious logic in
the name of being contrary.

Again...it's all rooted in security.

Granted, most of us aren't so extreme.  But that doesn't mean there
still isn't room for improvement.

Unfortunately, some of what many of us do in the name of being a
man who's "in control" is learned from reading questionable dating
advice.

Well, either that or we misinterpret perfectly reasonable dating
advice.

Perhaps you've been taught never to give a woman what she wants,
lest she thinks she "owns" you.

I've personally read advice clearly advocating that the only
straight answer you should ever give a beautiful woman is "no".

And then there are the countless twists on trying to get what we
want while camouflaging neediness or selfishness.

The "three day rule", "kino escalation" and "building compliance"
all come to mind.

So then, what is the right way to present yourself as a man who's
worthy to be in control?

The answer is disarmingly simple, yet it almost never occurs to
many in this "me first" culture of ours.

What you do is make bold decisions based on what her best interests
are.

You'll soon find out that nearly every well-adjusted woman with a
good heart is going to respond magically to that.

No, you don't necessarily give in to whatever she asks...nor should
you.

But when it's cold outside you give her your jacket instead of
shrugging and telling her it's too bad.

Yes, YOU are the one leading.  But your leadership invariably shows
positive concern for her.

Sooner than later you'll not have to worry about when to call a
woman.  If you sense she needs a call from you, you'll pick up the
phone.  You won't play games.

You'll quickly discover that when you actually give a rip about a
woman you're attracted to, she's more likely to want to have sex
with you than if you were pushy about it.

And most of all, you'll find yourself with a willing woman rather
than merely a compliant one.

So go ahead...take control.  Do it the right way and you'll have
distanced yourself from all the other creepy jerks and milquetoasts
out there who just don't get it, and probably never will.

Give a woman you really like the freedom to accept your leadership
and willingly offer you the control you deserve as a man.
 
 
 
 

=====




(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2015.  All Rights Reserved.


If you find this newsletter as powerful and life-changing as over
54,000 other people do, why not forward it to a friend who could
benefit from it as well?  Help us build this worldwide movement
of men reclaiming masculinity, standing as a positive role model
and deserving the high quality women we want.


      
 


This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it.  If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please use the
link below to remove yourself from our mailing list.

Remember, if you've found the woman of your dreams, you can get
only the newsletters on relationships and masculinity (no "meet women"
stuff) by sending a blank e-mail to scotandemily@aweber.com.