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IN THIS EDITION:  Is the "paint by numbers" approach enough to get
you somewhere with women?  Possibly, at least in the short term.
But why not turn your skills with women into a true work of art
instead?

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LET'S CLEAR UP THE CONFUSION...


Okay, yesterday I told you all about David DeAngelo's Holiday
Gift offer:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/dyd



Since then, I heard from quite a number of you who didn't quite
get the "gravitas" of what's going on here.

Others of you were on the other end of the spectrum.

You fully got what was going on, you just found it too unbelievable
a deal.

Were you understanding this whole thing correctly?

Well, no matter which side you're on, here are the facts:


1)  Yes.  It's true.  David D. is handing over a full, complete copy
of what has always been known as his "Mastery Series".


This is indeed that whole, epic program featuring the legendary on-
stage content that made everyone involved famous.  It's David D.'s
"flagship" program.

Guys paid $1000 to attend that event when it happened, and the
DVD set has gone for nearly $500 a pop since.

Every guy who is serious about mastering women and dating needs
to own this...especially at under a hundred bucks.

Period, end of story.


2)  Yes, you get Sexual Power too.


That's a completely separate program that contains hours of
content on sexual mastery. Again...David D. charged nearly
$200 for this when he was sending it out on disc.


3)  You not only get the five Dating Gurus interviews that David D.
talks about in the video, but two others as well.


...You also get the one I did in February 2007, which guys LOVED,
and which is made of unobtanium nowadays.  I've been dying
to let you guys have a copy of that for YEARS.

AND...you also get a seventh one with a guy who has already
joined the X & Y Communications team for 2016 and beyond.  I
still have to keep his identity a secret because there's a still a
lot of preparation necessary.

These are UNANNOUNCED on the video.  That's because they're
special added bonuses that I arranged myself, just for guys who
get David D.'s bundle from a link in my newsletter.

Pretty cool, right?


4)  I'm just as confused as you are as to why David D. made
the Dating Gurus interviews the main focus of this thing.


That's right, I have no idea either.  I mean, those go for $20 each. 

Why not drive home the point that the whole freaking Mastery
Series is now $97...and you don't even have to wait by the
mailbox anymore for it?

THEN explain how the deal is sweetened by Sexual Power
and the seven free Dating Gurus interviews, right?


5)  Don't pay attention to the weird graphics.


They're there to show you what format everything comes in,
not how much content is involved.  The programs are HUGE,
don't worry.


6)  Actually watch David D.'s video.


He explains everything, and is reasonably succinct about it.
It's not one of those incredibly long videos that never actually
says anything.

The button only leads to the order page.  Hit that only when
you're ready to jump on the deal.


Okay?  Okay...that should clear everything up.

All that's left is to give yourself the most RIDICULOUS
Christmas present imaginable, while you still have the
chance:



http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/dyd



Seriously...I've known David D. for nine years now, and
this is the first and ONLY time I've ever seen anything even
close to a deal like this from him.

It's for real.  Snap this one up.



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THE "EASY BUTTON"


I fully understand that we all want quick and dirty answers in life.

We tend to respond eagerly to marketing messages that tell us how
our pain "isn't our fault" and that the cure is as easy as falling
out of bed in the morning.

We all want the "Easy Button", right?

There's only one problem with all of that.

The proposed solutions rarely work, especially over the long term.

Sure, if you're starting from Square One when it comes to your
skills with women, some very objective basics can work wonders. 

If you've never done a cold approach before, the right opener can
indeed change that for you.

If you need a better grasp of when a woman is ready to be kissed,
knowing the signs to watch out for (e.g. her playfulness, touching
and/or getting closer to you) can work wonders.

But let's face it.  If, for example, you've got 50 pounds to lose
it's not going to "melt off overnight". 

If you want to get rich, it's not going to happen within the next
two weeks as you drink pina-coladas while relaxing on the beach.

And if you really want to attract high-quality women and manage
relationships with them in masterful fashion, you just can't recite
a bunch of lines.

Yet, even as some guys aspire to be "artists" (pickup or
otherwise), what they sometimes really settle for is painting by
numbers.

And painting by numbers isn't exactly "art", now is it?

I see this sort of thing all the time.  Guys are following very
objective steps "by the book" according to what they've seen or
read somewhere--anywhere--and not understanding why the desired
results aren't happening.

It can take several forms.  Perhaps there's the "cocky" without the
"funny", resulting in a guy wondering why women aren't responding
to raw insults with "instant, uncontrollable attraction".

Or maybe "Mr. Nice Guy" reads about how "women love jerks" and
swings his pendulum to the opposite extreme, only to be left more
bitter toward women than ever.

All of this is the result of reading or hearing random bits and
pieces on "how to pickup women" and attempting to apply them in a
linear fashion to every single situation with every woman.

It ends even more poorly when guys attempt to apply a half-baked
understanding of those strategies--even if the teaching is perfectly
solid.  Ouch.

You know what?  I don't think most guys who are underperforming
with women are bad guys.  I don't even believe they're necessarily
as bad with women as they think they are.

The truth is that guys like that are probably only doing what
they THINK they read was the right thing to do.  But their
understanding itself might very well be flawed.

With practice, they might learn what isn't working (the hard way)
and get more effective with women.  And hey, at least they're
actually practicing instead of just sitting around reading. 

I give any guy in such a situation all the credit in the world for
that.

But where paint-by-numbers will turn into true artistry for him
(and indeed for any other guy) is when he realizes that objective
strategies ultimately won't cut it with women.

After all, women are human beings like we as men are.  That means
applying some of the more subjective truths about social skill,
character and masculine presence in general has got to take
precedence over any step-by-step tactics.

You can begin to "see the light" here by putting the proverbial
shoe on the other foot. 

For starters, if WE wouldn't respond positively to what we're
saying to women, there's solid reason to believe THEY won't either.

Similarly, if WE would feel pushed and/or swindled if treated a
certain way, we shouldn't exactly expect women to get the "warm
fuzzies" if we feed them the same.

This all isn't necessarily hard to grasp, it simply means that we
have to be a bit more flexible in our ability (and even our
willingness) to meet the challenge of interacting with every woman
we meet (and indeed, EVERYONE we meet) on an individual basis.

We've also got to actually LIKE women in order to expect them to
LIKE us back.  They follow our lead, remember?

But you can't recite from of a manual.  And you can't force that
leadership on them.

So how about it?  Can you put aside the "paint by numbers
approach", even if it potentially means leaving your
comfort/familiarity zone with women?

Can you trust your genuine, authentic "big four" self to come
through for you on the fly every time you're with a new and
uniquely individual woman?

Once again, this comes down to making a woman feel comfortable
in your presence.

It's also about igniting her femininity with your masculinity even
as you respect her basic inalienable rights as a fellow human
being--without pushing, without cajoling.

You've got to believe your personality WORKS, whether you are in
the presence of a woman you are attracted to or not.

If your mindset is such, you are well on your way to leaving the
"paint by numbers" approach behind and achieving true artistry.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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