[X&Y] The "Dark Little Secret" Almost Every Woman Shares [Special Guest]
Published: Sun, 12/20/15
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IN THIS EDITION: What are women REALLY after in a man? It's
not what you think...and maybe not even what THEY think, wildly
enough.
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Gentlemen:
After getting feedback from that video I sent you yesterday that
ranged from shock to quiet reverence to "righteous indignance"
(i.e. anger, really) I felt like I owed you a bit more of an
explanation of what's going on.
Yes...what The Social Man has come up with is cutting edge,
to say the least. And when ground is broken like that, it ruffles
people's feathers.
So I wanted to bring in my long-time friend (and lately fellow
world adventurer) Christian Hudson to personally drop some
knowledge on you about this whole idea of becoming the kind
of man who women fantasize about when reading romance
novels.
Yes...it's pretty crazy.
But all I know is this (and I'm not making it up)...not long ago
I went to a big supermarket nearby to grab a few things and
there were copies of 50 Shades Of Grey right next to the
register.
That's where they put "impulse items" that customers are most
likely to buy. Candy and gum at the eye-level of small children,
and tabloids further up where Mom would be looking.
Christian is on to something here.
Most of you know him already, and whenever I collaborate with the
guys at The Social Man you guys always give it high marks.
Christian's never thought of himself as a PUA or "player" since he
usually prefers to have a steady girlfriend, but he's the only guy
I know who's dated famous gorgeous women consistently (two of
his girlfriends were in the Sasha Baron Cohen movie "The Dictator"
together).
Enjoy...
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THE "DARK LITTLE SECRET"
Hey guys, Christian here.
Like a lot of guys, I used to think that if I wanted a great girl
in my life, I needed certain things like...
- a nice car
- good looks
- chiseled abs
... and so on.
It made me really anxious and nervous to go talk to girls, because
I didn't have any of those things for the first 24 years of my life.
So I bought into the lie, and worked to get them. And by 24, I was
running a business, had a lot of money and a pretty chiseled body.
But women still didn't like me.
I could usually get a girl out on one date, but that was about it.
There were a series of embarrassing dates with this one girl, and
she broke my heart so badly that I decided I needed to "get this
fixed".
So I studied the "pickup artist" stuff after that, but it always
felt fake and weird to me. So by the age of 26, I felt like my
beliefs about "what women want" had been beaten to a bloody
pulp.
Women said they wanted one thing. PUAs said something else.
But all I knew was that I was struggling to get girls to like me
enough to be my girlfriend.
That was, at least, until I discovered something called
"literotica".
It's basically the female version of, er... naked photos and
videos. You know. The "P" word.
Turns out that as many women buy literotica books every year as
there are men who subscribe to adult websites.
* Hundreds of millions *
Think about that...it's staggering. It's the #1 product category in
Amazon's e-book store.
Just about EVERY woman who CAN get their hands on it does.
When I learned this, I knew that it must hold a key to female
psychology that I'd never understood before.
So what did I learn from literotica?
Well, there's basically an "obsession story" that is in every book.
Every time a woman falls in love with a man, it basically follows
the same story line.
And this pattern was in EVERY BOOK.
I did some research into evolutionary biology and learned that
women are basically "programmed" to fall for this story. It
fulfills biological needs that go much deeper than her modern
social programming.
That's why these books are so popular... they tap directly into a
woman's primitive "reptile brain" and deliver big doses of the good
stuff that makes her brain go "mmmmm".
In fact, when women say they want money, looks and abs...well,
frankly, they're lying to themselves.
And to you.
Don't blame them. Those are the things that society tells them are
attractive. Society wants to sell you gym memberships, Rolex
watches, and BMWs.
But as someone who had all of those things and still couldn't land
a great girl, let me be the "voice of experience": those things
don't actually fulfill a woman's deepest needs.
We're just scratching the tip of the iceberg here. I'd love to
tell you more about what I discovered, how this "obsession story"
really works, and show you just how deep the rabbit hole goes:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/gfas
Rock and roll,
Christian Hudson - The Social Man
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Guys, Christian is dead-on accurate here. Women have totally
tricked themselves.
They may SAY they want a certain type of guy, but there are always
deeper and darker desires going on in their brains that they don't
even like to admit to themselves.
Christian has done a phenomenal job of harnessing this knowledge
and converting it to POWER for you. If you didn't catch this video
yesterday, make sure you do before it has to come down:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/gfas
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I'll be rolling out a brand new episode of The Chick Whisperer
this afternoon. In it, you'll get a shining example of how I talk to
women LIVE in-field. I've been asked for that quite a bit, and it
occurred to me that this show hits the nail on the head.
If you're subscribed on iTunes, you probably already have the show
before everyone else. Rock on!
Oh, and weirdly...the subject of this newsletter comes up yet
AGAIN in the podcast, as a complete coincidence.
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Like a lot of guys, I used to think that if I wanted a great girl
in my life, I needed certain things like...
- a nice car
- good looks
- chiseled abs
... and so on.
It made me really anxious and nervous to go talk to girls, because
I didn't have any of those things for the first 24 years of my life.
So I bought into the lie, and worked to get them. And by 24, I was
running a business, had a lot of money and a pretty chiseled body.
But women still didn't like me.
I could usually get a girl out on one date, but that was about it.
There were a series of embarrassing dates with this one girl, and
she broke my heart so badly that I decided I needed to "get this
fixed".
So I studied the "pickup artist" stuff after that, but it always
felt fake and weird to me. So by the age of 26, I felt like my
beliefs about "what women want" had been beaten to a bloody
pulp.
Women said they wanted one thing. PUAs said something else.
But all I knew was that I was struggling to get girls to like me
enough to be my girlfriend.
That was, at least, until I discovered something called
"literotica".
It's basically the female version of, er... naked photos and
videos. You know. The "P" word.
Turns out that as many women buy literotica books every year as
there are men who subscribe to adult websites.
* Hundreds of millions *
Think about that...it's staggering. It's the #1 product category in
Amazon's e-book store.
Just about EVERY woman who CAN get their hands on it does.
When I learned this, I knew that it must hold a key to female
psychology that I'd never understood before.
So what did I learn from literotica?
Well, there's basically an "obsession story" that is in every book.
Every time a woman falls in love with a man, it basically follows
the same story line.
And this pattern was in EVERY BOOK.
I did some research into evolutionary biology and learned that
women are basically "programmed" to fall for this story. It
fulfills biological needs that go much deeper than her modern
social programming.
That's why these books are so popular... they tap directly into a
woman's primitive "reptile brain" and deliver big doses of the good
stuff that makes her brain go "mmmmm".
In fact, when women say they want money, looks and abs...well,
frankly, they're lying to themselves.
And to you.
Don't blame them. Those are the things that society tells them are
attractive. Society wants to sell you gym memberships, Rolex
watches, and BMWs.
But as someone who had all of those things and still couldn't land
a great girl, let me be the "voice of experience": those things
don't actually fulfill a woman's deepest needs.
We're just scratching the tip of the iceberg here. I'd love to
tell you more about what I discovered, how this "obsession story"
really works, and show you just how deep the rabbit hole goes:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/gfas
Rock and roll,
Christian Hudson - The Social Man
=====
Guys, Christian is dead-on accurate here. Women have totally
tricked themselves.
They may SAY they want a certain type of guy, but there are always
deeper and darker desires going on in their brains that they don't
even like to admit to themselves.
Christian has done a phenomenal job of harnessing this knowledge
and converting it to POWER for you. If you didn't catch this video
yesterday, make sure you do before it has to come down:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/gfas
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I'll be rolling out a brand new episode of The Chick Whisperer
this afternoon. In it, you'll get a shining example of how I talk to
women LIVE in-field. I've been asked for that quite a bit, and it
occurred to me that this show hits the nail on the head.
If you're subscribed on iTunes, you probably already have the show
before everyone else. Rock on!
Oh, and weirdly...the subject of this newsletter comes up yet
AGAIN in the podcast, as a complete coincidence.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2015. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.