[X&Y] What To Do On New Year's Eve
Published: Wed, 12/30/15

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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are some outrageous New Year's Eve
strategies you can really use. It doesn't matter whether you
have a girlfriend already or not.
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THE TRUE ORIGINAL NEVER FAILS, DOES IT?
Have you ever watched old Marx Brothers movies
from the '30's?
I know, weird question...especially if the answer
is "no".
But I'll never forget the first time I ever watched
A Day At The Races. I was shocked by how funny
it was. I laughed out loud every ten seconds.
It only took a couple of minutes to realize the
obvious: Since motion pictures were so new, these
guys got to come up with all the good jokes and sight
gags before anyone else thought of them.
Eighty-five years later it's still funny, of course.
Humor is humor, and what they did was flat-out
hilarious.
I've come to realize that the art and science involved
with women and dating is exactly like that.
Sure, I talk to guys who think that everything has
completely changed since before they were married
and divorced, or since the Internet became so
ubiquitous.
But ultimately, men are still men and women are
still women. They're attracted the same way they've
always been. Masculinity and femininity still do
the heavy lifting.
That's why I think that holiday offer that David
DeAngelo has going on is so completely killer.
You see, David D. was really the first true "900
lb. gorilla" in the men's dating advice space.
Mystery was doing bootcamps here and there, but
it was David D. who did such an amazing job at
forming his thoughts into e-books and blazed the
trail for so many of us.
Basically, like the Marx Brothers did in the early
days of funny movies, David D. got to come up
with many of the most basic, practical and brilliant
observations before anyone else did.
Now, once you watch David D.s video explaining
the STACKED bundle he's put together, you'll
quickly realize that he and Groucho Marx couldn't
be more different.
But yes...this is the legendary and dead-on
accurate collection of brilliance that has made
his work so influential over the years:
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/dyd
Importantly, you're down to the last 24 hours
to snap up this treasure chest of powerful
results waiting to happen.
So if you've been kicking the tires on this
all week, now is the time to go for it.
You get his epic Mastery Series, with guys
on stage who've since become legends.
It's just brilliant to behold. You'll get five
or ten amazing new insights every minute.
Then you get Power Sexuality, which is
just as insanely effective and action-packed
a program its own right.
You see, David D. used to send out big,
expensive boxes of dozens of CDs and
DVDs when guys ordered these programs.
But now he's finally joined the MP3 age
and gone into "immediate gratification"
mode.
And you won't believe how low he's letting
those programs go for.
But he didn't stop there.
You ALSO get five amazing interviews with
dating gurus. I used to wait impatiently by
the mailbox for those to arrive every month.
And THEN you'll even get two more unannounced
dating gurus interviews---mine from Feb 2007
(which was a huge thrill) AND a "secret" one
from a guy I'll soon introduce as a member of
the X & Y Communications team going forward.
David D. was a huge influence on me personally,
of course.
I still remember that first time I "flew without a
net" on a first date, trusting the preposterous
advice he gave.
And I watched in awe as it worked EXACTLY
like he promised it would.
Now it's your turn to experience that same
thrill:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/dyd
After all...the more things change, the more
everything really does remain the same.
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WHAT TO DO ON NEW YEAR'S EVE
As always, I'm getting numerous e-mails asking about New
Year's Eve. I've given out my most ridiculously effective tips
in past years, so this year I decided to go the "lightning round"
recap route.
Don't have a girl yet? Okay, here are eight quick but actionable
ideas:
1) If you want to kiss a woman at midnight, you've GOT to
go where that's going to be at least theoretically an option.
If you want to meet women, you've got to at least be among a
good crowd of women who are in the mood to party. I can't
believe how many guys go where the girls aren't.
In other words, don't land at a sports bar with the Cotton Bowl
blaring on the tube (yes, I know...decisions, decisions).
2) Consider being the "designated driver".
If you can't figure out why being the one with the keys to
his own car at midnight on NYE--and retaining the wherewithal to
drive it--is a devastating advantage in a room full of drunks, call
me immediately for emergency coaching.
3) You can actually build a "female entourage" yourself.
The truth is that for any given major social event that you think
everyone is in on, there are massive numbers of hotties far beyond
your estimation who are sitting at home...dateless.
Call all your female friends and simply say, "Hey look, some of us
are going to [insert venue] for NYE, and I wanted to make sure you
are covered. I know plans can fall through at the last minute and
so forth."
4) Don't plan anything for the next morning...especially work.
Exactly sixteen years ago one of my friends had the bright idea of
getting married on 1/1/2000...at 10 am. Great. I still barely
remember rolling out of bed on time.
5) Make a conscious "New Year's resolution" to be fearless and
flirt...and put it into action at least four hours early.
If you view NYE as a major social opportunity, especially with
women, then your mindset needs to reflect it.
6) Prepare yourself physically, not just mentally.
Take an afternoon nap if you can, hydrate well all day and eat a
sensible dinner before heading out.
7) Go where you can wear a tux, if you can.
Most women think men in tuxes are amazing, and you'll feel
that way. Plus, amazing things tend to happen at formals
when everyone loosens up their bow ties later on...
8) Consider throwing the party yourself.
Yes, it could get expensive...and messy. But if you're up to the
challenge, the social rewards are potentially massive.
Meanwhile, some of you are asking how to how to make it a great
night if you already have at least one woman in your life.
So let's get on with it. Here are my two best tips for guys who are
dating someone, whether it's casually or exclusively.
1) Take Two, They're Small
Oh man, I love this.
Simply call your female friend of choice and ask her if she has any
particularly sharp friends who she thinks might not have anything
planned for New Year's Eve.
Tell her she should invite one or two of them along...you know, just
to make sure they don't sit at home lonely.
Sure, your female friend might give you a response that indicates a
bit of jealousy. If so, drop it...no big deal.
But in my direct experience it's far more likely that she'll LOVE your
idea.
If you think about it, by making such a suggestion you present
yourself as a guy who's probably not focused simply on getting her
alone later. .
Plan on lots of positive attention from multiple women--and that only
starts with the women you brought with you.
2) The "Easy Road" Can Indeed Be The Road To Success
Stop pressuring yourself to go out with her on New Year's Eve and
stay in instead.
Invite her over at about six or seven and cook an amazing dinner
for her...or with her.
At dinnertime, take it slow and enjoy savoring every course.
Afterward, tell her you've got a great dessert but since you're
both still full from dinner it's best to save it for later.
Then, assuming you're in a neighborhood that lends itself to
walking around after dark (not necessarily a given, I realize), go do
exactly that.
Offer her your arm as you walk together--with you on the outside of
the sidewalk--and enjoy the Christmas lights around you.
So when you return, naturally she's going to be COLD.
That's when--genius that you are--you wrap her up in a blanket,
stream a great movie from Netflix and go make some tea or coffee
on the fly while the titles start.
And yes...we're talking the caffeinated version here. You'll need to
stay up pretty late, so 20/20 foresight is GOLDEN here.
Somewhere in the mix here is champagne and a kiss, but that'll
be an afterthought at that point.
Happy New Year to you guys in advance. Whatever plans you decide
upon, enjoy.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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