[X&Y] Does Your Leadership REALLY Matter In A Woman's Eyes? (Crazy Story)

Published: Sun, 02/07/16

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IN THIS EDITION: Women are hard-wired to follow your lead. It's

time to consider the full-on ramifications of that...and they're
HUGE. Read on...

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HOW MUCH DOES YOUR LEADERSHIP REALLY MATTER IN A
WOMAN'S EYES?

There's one first meeting with a woman that I'll never forget...all for
the weirdest reason ever.

She was giggly and fun; very feminine with an almost "innocent"
quality. That's all pretty amazing and intriguing to see in a single
mom, no doubt.

After about ten or fifteen minutes though, her countenance changed
as she began to talk about her ex.

Granted, it's usually a bad idea to bring up past relationships during
first meetings, but in this case she felt like I needed to know her
situation sooner than later.

Long story short, she was not actually divorced...only "separated".

That's a deal-breaker for me and there was not to be a second date,
but I heard her out in the moment nonetheless.

You see, she really couldn't get a divorce because they couldn't
find her husband. They couldn't even figure out if he was alive or
dead, frankly.

Sometime after his face got posted on the wall at the post office
by the FBI for being an interstate fugitive, he sort of vanished
into thin air.

"Probably to Mexico", she offered.

For her part, she was simply glad the law never caught up with her
as well.

After all, though she had been a "church girl" growing up, her
husband had somehow gotten her to work directly with him
trafficking his illicit whatever-it-was back and forth from South
Texas to New York City and Los Angeles.

I mean hey, that's a long drive to make by one's lonesome, right?

So as his loving wife, she obliged his request to help him. She
loved him--and probably still did the day she met me--so responding
to his leadership was the natural thing to do.

Protecting and providing for her and the kids (!) was HIS job,
after all. However he proposed to get that done wasn't HER problem.

That's how she saw things, at least.

Truth be told, that train of thought is typical among women,
although I'll be quick to point out that lots and lots of high
quality women would draw the line before jumping into the "Bonnie
and Clyde" lifestyle.

Still, the whole scenario I just described serves as a poignant and
jarring reminder that women really, truly are hard wired to follow
a man's lead...especially a man they love.

Simply stated, this puts a ton of responsibility squarely into your
hands once you start attracting women like the "big four" champion
you should be.

I could probably stop here and the message of the day would be loud
and clear: Make sure you're leading women into a place that's in
everyone's best interest...especially hers.

But far be it from me not to give you a few practical examples of
how all this tends to play out in more "normal" situations.

Consider the following, which I'm coming up with at random here.

If and when you have a woman in your life, do you often get
frustrated with her and call her an "ugly [b-word]" in anger?

Don't be surprised when in six months or a year she really is both
physically hideous and a raging virago.

Think you can manipulate her into sticking around by poking at her
self-esteem, telling her she's "nothing" and so forth?

If so, you're likely to have a woman in your life who is completely
devoid of what self-respect she once had sooner than later. That
certainly won't make you happier with her.

Are you the jealous type who constantly accuses her of having

flirted with or even "been with" other guys, even when she's simply
returning from the supermarket?

Don't come complaining to me when she cheats on you.

Do you find yourself with a woman who is more beautiful than you
ever expected to deserve, so you consider getting her pregnant as
quickly as possible so she'll "need you" and stay forever?

You'd better realize you're encouraging her to become a needy leech
rather than having any sense of independence whatsoever. Is that
what you really want?

Meanwhile, however, I've also known guys who have built up and
encouraged the women in their lives to think more highly of
themselves, take better care of themselves physically and even try
new and adventurous things.

Astoundingly, such women went from the "almost but perhaps not
quite" level in the minds of those guys to their true "100 out of
100".

It's a heavy thought, but you've just got to ask yourself, "Where
am I leading the woman in my life?"

This is not only about your responsibility to a woman you allegedly
care about. Your own happiness and personal satisfaction lie in
the balance too, don't they?

Deserving what you want really is a transferable skill...and one
you can lead women to believe in as well.

Be Good

Scot McKay

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