I remember
it well.
Every time a girl's boyfriend was a jerk and made her cry, she'd sob about how all she really wanted next time was a "nice guy".
And hey...there I was. I mean, she was sobbing on my shoulder as I gave her encouragement, right?
Wasn't that nice of me?
So then, how come whenever I hinted to her that I was the "nice guy" she was talking about,
all I'd get in return was, "Oh, I know...you're like a brother to me, so I'd never want to risk that by being any more than friends."
I'd keep patting her on the shoulder with a smile.
But secretly I wanted to punch the wall and throw stuff.
Those were the days...the BAD days.
And for the life of me, I couldn't figure out what on Earth was wrong. Meanwhile, the girls I was so "nice" to
would end up crying again over the next idiot/jerk (I/J) they'd go out with.
Can you relate (even one percent) to my sad, messed-up story? Most of us as guys can. And if so, the brand new episode of The Chick Whisperer Podcast is for you:
No iTunes? That's what the TCW show notes page is for:
Listen... I have to tell you, what my guest co-host for this episode had to say was SHOCKING to me.
For years I've been talking about "Mr. Nice Guy" and the dreaded "Just Be Friends Zone" in a certain way. But this guy came along and revolutionized the discussion with some challenging new information that I'd never
thought of.
It's sort of genius. And on many levels it explains how I just might have put the "Mr. Nice Guy" syndrome in the rear view mirror by total accident. Hmmm....
Oh, and you can look forward to one of my most epic rants of all-time near the end of the show (nice).
Enjoy this one, guys. Pure, fluff-free, hit-the-ground-running content
today.
