[X&Y] What To Do If You Think She's Got All The Power
Published: Wed, 04/20/16

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WHAT'S INSIDE: No matter what, some guys have a firmly-held belief
that women call all the shots in dating and relationships. Have
you ever noticed that those guys are invariably NOT the ones who
succeed at attracting them?
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WHAT TO DO IF YOU THINK SHE'S GOT ALL THE POWER
A couple of weeks ago you'll recall that I wrote to you encouraging
you to take back your power as a man when relating to women.
I received some strong reactions to that particular newsletter.
Frankly, some guys (and there are at least dozens out there,
apparently) are flat-out convinced that women have all the power
and that's just the way it is.
They think I'm stark raving nuts to even suggest otherwise.
I couldn't help but turn my thoughts toward wondering how in the
world a man could become SO convinced that he could NEVER have any
power when it comes to women.
The only answer I could come up with is that he has been CHASING
women for so blasted long (read: all his life) that it's all he
knows.
He's doing what he's always done, and he keeps getting what he's
always gotten.
Therefore, the notion of women having all the power has become an
ABSOLUTE in his mind.
But the irony is that what he's experiencing is really all due
to...wait for it...his own leadership.
Remember, women are hard-wired to follow a man's lead, so for as
long as he continues to LEAD in the way he always has women will
continue to be repulsed by it.
Here's why.
The bottom line is that women WILL NOT respect a man who cannot be
a provider or a protector.
By now you know that doesn't necessarily mean he has to be a
millionaire built like an NFL linebacker.
A man who gets the job done here provides by having an answer and a
plan for whatever comes up. He protects by facing challenges with
courage and executing rather than running away.
In other words, he wields the POWER of his masculinity.
So here it is: If you automatically cede ALL POWER to women by
default, then you've basically led from the start with a loud,
clear message that you're the exact OPPOSITE of a "big four" man.
I mean, since you're assuming she has all the power does that mean
SHE'S supposed to provide for YOU and protect YOU?
Let's just say that's about as likely a scenario in the female mind
as her making you pregnant and having babies for her.
It's just bass-ackwards at every level.
Seriously, it should be nothing short of plainly obvious that no
man who believes women have all the power will EVER, EVER attract
any of them.
In order for a woman to get hot and bothered in a sexually
polarized way for any man, he's got to be MASCULINE.
That means he's got to at least have enough personal power to make
her feel safe and comfortable in his presence.
At LEAST.
Okay, here endeth my rant on this subject.
If you're already a man who's a chooser rather than a chaser, I
trust you'll take this as a "pep talk" and leave here with an even
stronger understanding of why women tend to love you.
If, on the other hand, you still think I've got rocks in my head
I'll just leave you with one final thought.
Invariably, every guy who thinks women have all the power is NOT
succeeding with them. Have you ever noticed that?
If that happens to describe you, do you really think that
continuing to believe that way is ever going to START working in
your favor?
Truly, any man who wants to succeed with women (as in EVER) has got
to take his power back. It's the very nature of what drives sexual
attraction.
There's really no other option when you think about it.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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