[X&Y] Keep THIS In Mind If She's Not Returning Your Calls
Published: Sun, 04/10/16
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IN THIS EDITION: Sometimes it's really, really important to
remember that tons of women know the same things YOU do about how
to keep MOTOS interested. And yes, it all works...
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STAY TUNED FOR A HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT TOMORROW
Watch this space tomorrow (April 11th, 2016), as I'll be announcing
something new that's sure to make waves in the world of men's
dating advice.
This has actually been in the works since last August, and the fact
that it has successfully been kept under wraps all this time is nothing
short of a miracle.
Honestly, It's been the "worst kept secret" among all of my dating
coach contemporaries, as word of this sort of thing spreads VERY
quickly in such a small world.
But yes...all the preparations have finally been made, the contracts
have been signed and the "heavy lifting" has been completed.
All that's left is to make the big splash tomorrow and let YOU start
enjoying the killer benefits from it (of which there will be many).
Check your mailbox at 5p tomorrow Eastern Daylight Time for the
big news!
(Hint: Once you hear what it is, you'll know immediately it's a perfect
fit and the absolute right way to go.)
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KEEP THIS IN MIND IF SHE'S NOT RETURNING YOUR CALLS
If you know the basics when it comes to attracting women, you
already know that it's a KILLER to be too available to a woman.
Were you to call her too often "just to say hello" and/or text her
multiple times a day for no apparent reason, it would inevitably
trigger a psychological impulse in her head that you're pouring a
LOT of energy into her.
And for some crazy reason, it's overwhelmingly likely that that
she'd start thinking--even if subconsciously--that she just might
be able to do better than you.
That would be because you're just too, well..."easy to get".
You probably already realize that being less available WORKS, which
is why you DON'T call her and/or text her 50 times a day.
And if you've achieved even a small amount of success with women,
you've seen something even MORE amazing happen. When you stop
pursuing her so fervently and give her the chance to miss you some,
it's AMAZING how much she starts thinking about you.
That's right...she becomes MORE intrigued by you and MORE attracted
to you.
So here's the part I don't understand. How, then, can it be that
even guys who know perfectly well why they themselves should lay
back and play it cool with women get FREAKED OUT when the woman is
less available herself?
Seriously. I get e-mails from guys who are completely up in arms
over the fact that the woman they've been out on a couple of dates
with lately hasn't returned the voice mail they left last night (or
even earlier that morning).
Guys, guys, guys...get a hold of yourselves. Know this: Women are
being taught the EXACT SAME STUFF you are.
In fact, I'd argue that women are taught the lesson on how to "play
hard to get" even MORE often than men. That's like "Section
1, Line A" in the dating advice handbook for women, isn't it?
I'd go so far as to say a good number of them instinctively
know better than to throw themselves at you without anyone even
having to TELL them so.
So yes. When you find yourself interacting with a desirable woman
and hanging out with her some, it's altogether probable that SHE
knows the ropes as well as you do.
So RELAX, man. Give her a day or two to get back to you.
Whatever you do, don't give in to the temptation to lose your cool
and call her a second time hammering her for not returning your
message.
If she's still interested in you, she WILL call you back in due
time.
And if you DON'T hear from her within, say, 72 hours you can assume
one of three things: 1) You threw a wrench in the attraction
process somewhere, 2) you're not her highest priority or 3)
she's into "playing games" with guys.
Here's the thing. If you DO hear back from her eventually and
everything's still cool with her, you can rule out the first
option.
From there, it's up to you to discern whether you need to ramp up
your charm factor as a "big four" man or move on to the next option
you have. My gut instinct says that if you don't see any other
signs of "game playing" on her part, then you should assume the
former option is in order.
So there you have it. Once you put the proverbial shoe on the
other foot, how best to proceed becomes obvious, doesn't it?
Before I wrap this up however, now would be a great time to reflect
on something very important.
The strategy of being less "available" flat-out WORKS, doesn't it?
It's not just another useless theory. When a woman plays "hard to
get" she really does get inside your head, huh?
Well, let this be a subtle reminder of what makes us as human
beings more alike than different, regardless of gender. We're not
talking here about understanding women per se as much as
understanding people in general.
So from now on go ahead and give a woman the equal right NOT to be
needy and clingy, especially during that all-important "get to know
you" stage.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Did you catch the latest episode of The Chick Whisperer yet?
The topic is "reconnecting with women from the past" and it's good
stuff. Find it on iTunes here:
The TCW Podcast On iTunes
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