WHAT'S INSIDE:  This newsletter will give new meaning to the
phrase, "Just Say No".  You'll see what I mean...

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EVERY MOVE YOU MAKE IS EITHER ATTRACTING WOMEN OR
REPELLING THEM


...Even before you even TALK to them.  Sometimes before you even
notice they're there.

As I told you last time, the newest X & Y Communications team members,
Rob Brinded and James Knight, are world-class experts in human movement.

So what's the big deal?  Why are their ideas so groundbreaking?

They'll show you how to tweak how you MOVE so that you'll be INSTANTLY
more attractive to women:



http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/walk



It's in how you walk. 

It's in how you carry yourself. 

Whenever you are in motion, you're either attracting women...or
you're not.

Think that sounds crazy?  Well, how about this.  The next time a woman
catches your eye, consider how much HER movement has to do with it.

Women who walk like a man are LESS attractive. 

In fact, you might not even notice them at all.

But women with that smooth, fluid, almost feline hip motion stop us in
our tracks and make us WANT THEM, don't they?

In my own experience I can even remember one time feeling my
level of sexual intrigue toward a woman increase...simply by watching
how she moved her fingers when she talked.  Wow.

Amazingly, it's hard to explain exactly WHY a woman's movement can
turn us on.  But it sure does.

That's where Rob and James come in. 

Their breakthrough?  Women respond to how WE move even more
POWERFULLY than how we respond to how THEY move.

Not only can they explain why a woman's movement is so powerful to
us, they'll show YOU how to radically transform your movement so
that YOU'RE an order of magnitude more attractive to women.

You already know that first impressions are all-important.  A woman
will notice how you move and make an instant, unconscious judgment
call based on THAT ALONE.

It all adds up to one conclusive truth:  You've GOT to get this
handled:



http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/walk



Let's just say that puts Rob and James head and shoulders above
anyone who teaches about simple "body language".



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A COUPLE OF CHOICE FOUR-LETTER WORDS FOR YOU (PART TWO)


Last time I gave you the first part of a "2-for-1" on four-letter
words we should all probably rethink our usage of.

Given that I rarely if ever curse like a sailor in these newsletters,
most of you weren't thinking even for a second that I was going to
insult your intelligence by suggesting you stop using profanity, or
anything that obvious.

And right you were.

In fact, in Part One I made what many of you agreed was a solid
case for eliminating the word "hate" from your vocabulary. 

I mean, it just makes sense to do so.

But now I've got that much-anticipated second word for you. 

This one might be more of a "head scratcher" than a "no brainer",
so be sure to hang in there with me for a couple of minutes here.

The word is "just".

In the interest of clarity, there are no issues whatsoever with
using the word as an adjective to mean "fair" or "guided by truth",
as dictionary.com would put it.  You know, in the same sense as
"justice".

The problems start when we use the word "just" as an adverb to mean
"no more than", "merely" or "only"...particularly when whatever
thought we are expressing would make perfect sense WITHOUT the
word "just" in it.

Let me give some examples.



"This will just take a minute of your time."


"I just want to thank you."


"Will you just go out with me ONCE...PLEASE?  I BEG you....I'll just
DIE if you don't.   Come on...just one little kiss? 



Oops.  If you're even mildly of the intuitive sort, I bet you're
already on to what I'm getting at.

When you insert the word "just" into a request or statement of
desire it instantly adds a tangible measure of neediness or
flat-out desperation to the mix.

What could have been a perfectly dignified statement or question is
ruthlessly relegated to the realm of supplication or flat-out
begging:



Example A:  "This will take a minute."


Example B:  "This will just take a minute."



The vibe is different, isn't it?  Example A is an assertive
statement of fact, whereas example B conveys a clear hope that the
speaker isn't imposing upon the listener in any way.

Desperate, needy guys who beg women in a way that they hope isn't
an imposition are NOT attractive, or course.

Now, let me be perfectly up front with you here.  Like most of us I
spent much of my life happily using the word "just" in a
disadvantageous way.

I only figured out what I'm telling you today after going to a
prayer meeting.  That's right...a prayer meeting.

I couldn't help but notice that when people said prayers out loud,
almost every sentence contained the "j" word.  Every request to God
was punctuated by it.

This stands to reason.  After all, it makes sense that those who
pray would humble themselves before The Almighty when addressing
Him.

Let's face it.  You're not going to AMOG God, huh?

But even so, it probably still doesn't make much sense to use the
word "just" so much even in prayer.

After all, if you "just" want God to answer a certain prayer, what
business do you have continuing to pile on more requests?

Either you "just" want that one thing done for you or for starving
children in Africa, or you've in fact got more on the plate to ask
about. 

It's one or the other, right?

Therein lies the insidious subtlety of why the word "just" is so
blasted dangerous.

The reason WHY it makes our statements and requests appear so WEAK
is because it implies that we ONLY need ONE small thing in order to
make everything okay for us.
 
And yet, we also openly display that we're expecting whatever is on
our mind to be an imposition upon the other person.

Double wow.

So now, armed with the perspective I just gave you, can you imagine
the EPIC FAIL that is likely to happen when you get a woman's phone
number and then leave a voice mail message as follows?



"Uh, hello.  It's just me, [INSERT NAME HERE].  I'm just calling to
leave you a message because I enjoyed meeting you the other night.
If you could just call me back, we could go out sometime.  You
know, just to get some coffee or something."



Compare that with this version:



"Hey, it's [INSERT NAME HERE].   I'm calling because I enjoyed
meeting you the other night. So call me back and we can go out and
get coffee sometime."



Granted, the second version is still pretty "vanilla" and not
exactly a "stone-cold lock" by any stretch.   Indeed, you can ultimately
do far better than that, but let's stay on point here for the purpose
of this newsletter.

Note the clear difference in tone between the two messages, which
actually are meant to convey the exact same meaning...at least
objectively.

I have to warn you.  Breaking yourself of the "just" habit is going
to take some work.  It might shock you how much you use the word in
its more perilous context.  

But once you start catching yourself, you can start being
intentional about NOT saying it.

Just say no.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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