[X&Y] The Women's Version Of The "Seduction Community"

Published: Sat, 07/16/16



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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Have you noticed we've entered somewhat of a
brave new world in men's dating advice lately?  More and more guys
are demanding more authentic ways to meet women and find the
right one for them.

There's no doubt nowadays that the "Seduction Community" as we've
known it has pretty much fallen off the map.

So take a deep breath and enjoy one of my "classics"...and consider
this the official denouement to my discussion of "Seduction Community"
stuff.

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WHAT IF WOMEN HAD SOMETHING LIKE THE "SEDUCTION
COMMUNITY"?


  [Ed. Note:  Before we get rolling here, this is definitely one of
  those newsletters that's going to require a bit of a "disclaimer".  

  I know there are some ladies out there who read this newsletter.
  You're not going to get what I'm about to write, and that's
  perfectly natural.  

  Rest assured, however, that there is absolutely, positively
  method to my madness, so save your angry e-mails until after
  at least reading to the end (and perhaps after looking up
  "Seduction Community" on Wikipedia).

  Deal?  Deal.]



Imagine this...

It's happening in Chicago, Toronto, New York, Singapore and
countless other cities worldwide.  

In fact, thanks to a certain best-selling book that's currently
rocketing up the New York Times bestseller list, more women are
attending underground "cathouse" meetings than ever.

(Never mind that the author of said book gets divorced at the end.
Nobody ever reads that far.)

This is the secret society of "lock-down artists", or "LDAs"
for short.

As a "fly on the wall" in the Cleveland, Ohio get together, you'd
find FlowerKitten leading the meeting.  

Her real name is Kim or something, but it's probably best if nobody
she knows can find out about any of this "LDA" stuff on Google,
especially that CG ("cute guy") who took her to The Palm last
night for surf 'n turf.

FlyGrrl LDA, Siren and GlamourPuss take turns elaborating upon
their recent postings on alt.marriage.fast.

Then they share "romance reports".  As it turns out, one LDA who
goes by "Giggler" managed to get a SNS recently.  That's short
for "same night steakhouse", of course (or is that "same night
shopping"?).

This is much to the envy of other AFCs ("average frumpy chicks") in
attendance who are relatively new at learning the lines and
techniques necessary to get a man to spend lots of money, marry
them and make babies...all as soon as possible.

But hey, this "Reproduction Community" is all about sisterhood, so
the mLDAs ("mistress lock-down artists") are more than ready to go
over all the key strategies again and again with the "newbies".

Most suffer from "Approached Anxiety".  That is, they have no
earthly idea what to say back to a guy who introduces himself to
them with a simple "hello".   

Getting over the problem involves turning away from staring at him
blankly as if annoyed and moving toward enacting the "three second
rule"--the allotted time any LDA's got to flash a playful smile and
tell a guy her name.

This is mission-critical stuff.  

After all, FlowerKitten tells it like it is:  "If you can't 'woman
up' and keep him talking to you, he's going to give his credit card
to some other chick.  Remember...men have ALL the power since they
can choose whoever they want to get married to and make babies with.

And your 'biological clock' is ticking, girl!"

So after a lengthy debate on various LD gurus' tactics for getting
over "AA", they draw up on the whiteboard how to successfully
execute the "exclusivity close" without getting any "last minute
resistance" from a CG.  

The questions invariably arise.

"But, how do I actually 'escalate' from casual to husband as
quickly as possible?"

Another asks about DSP..."demonstrating sexual potential" when guys
seem to be DTP ("down to procreate").  And how do you read his IOIs
("indicators of income")?

Still another wants to know specifically how to "game" lawyers,
doctors and investment bankers.

Meanwhile, a certain LDA called "Smile" keeps getting "AFOGed"
(Alpha Female Other Girl) when trying to talk to "sets" of CGs.  
She thinks it's because she's not "listening" and empathizing
enough.  So they talk about that.

Then, they turn their attention to comparing notes about
"peahenning", so as to get noticed by guys--even in a crowd.   

They debate whether guys are more likely to take them out to
dinner and a movie if they wear black open-toe heels versus
those cute red ones from Nine West.

Finally, when the meeting is over it's time to go out "marging",
or meeting guys at sports bars....

Okay, okay...enough already.  It'd be all too easy to go on and
on, but you get the idea.

Think about it, though.  

What if women really did have an "underground" movement afoot
that was essentially the female version of the "Seduction
Community"?

What would you think of it?  Would being an "mLDA" make a woman
more or less attractive to you?  

Would you fall for her tactics?  Would you freely give her what
she wanted?

And here's the most poignant question of all:  What would it all
say about the the women who perpetrate this kind of thought?

Whether what went on in the fictional "Reproduction Community" is
right or wrong is actually sort of beside the point.  

The bottom line is this.  My edumckayted guess is that we as guys
would still see the women who were feminine and charming as the
most desirable ones...no matter whether they'd heard of the "RC" or
not.  

And it would be the ones who represent what WE want as guys who'd
get the higher quality man than any woman who was simply out to get
what she wanted as quickly as possible without any regard for the
guy she's in a "relationship" with.

As is often the case around here, that sort of dynamic is not
gender-specific.  So why work so hard conjuring up tricks and
tactics designed to get women to give you what you want?  

Why not be the masculine "big four" man that they naturally desire
and deserve what you want instead?  

I'm telling you, since women are hard-wired to follow a man's
lead the results are almost magical when you do exactly that.

And believe it or not, it's a whole lot less work to actually
become that guy than to memorize and practice a series of tricks
and openers.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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