[X&Y] In A Big City, But Still Not Meeting Good Women? Try This...
Published: Mon, 09/05/16
WHAT'S INSIDE: Why are most of us so petrified to approach
women, even if we live in a massive metropolis with millionsof people around us?
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CAN YOU "FLIP THE SWITCH" TO ACTIVATE A WOMAN'S
ATTRACTION SENSORS?
ATTRACTION SENSORS?
It's not often I encounter something completely original and
potentially game-changing in the world of "dating science".
But there's something that you should know about, if you haven't
heard about it already.
heard about it already.
Imagine this: What if you had a full-on plan for activating
the SAME part of a woman's mind that gets so turned on by those
romance novels they read all the time? (e.g. 50 Shades Of Gray)
What if she started thinking of YOU as the kind of guy who's
the central character in those books? What if she fantasized
about YOU the same way?
It makes perfect sense, doesn't it? If you could flip that
switch in a woman's mind, you'd suddenly trigger EVERYTHING
that would make her go stark raving WILD for you, right?
By now I'm sure you fully understand the ramifications of this.
It's HUGE.
And yes, you really can do this. In fact it's relatively
simple, and you can thank the guys over at The Social Man for
coming up with a genius plan for making it happen:
Today I'm about to write to you about living in the "big city".
If I were single and living in New York, I'd definitely have
a lifestyle like the guys behind this video:
Christian and Nick are the REAL DEAL, and it's something else
to see them do their thing in person.
Maybe that's why the crazy story at the beginning of the video
is so shocking and bizarre...but you'll just have to see for
yourself. (And YES, they really do reveal the secrets they
promise to.)
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ARE YOU FEELING ALONE IN A BIG CITY? TRY THIS...
Emily and I really enjoy hanging out in New York City whenever
we get the chance. It's truly "the city that never sleeps", with
something interesting or even amazing happening everywhere all
the time.
That's why it's so amazing to me that people who move to NYC from
elsewhere tend to report how LONELY they are...even with MILLIONS
of people around them.
What's up with that?
Despite the apparent irony there, it really is HARD to meet new
people...and I'm not just talking about beautiful women.
That's true whether you're in New York or anywhere else, really.
A big reason for that is one of the simple truths of modern society
that I talk about at length in The Man's Approach.
That's this: Everything you ever needed to know in order to be
permanently influenced AGAINST approaching women you learned in
kindergarten.
That's right. Most of our parents taught us (and vehemently so)
that we should "never talk to strangers".
Now, while this was surely effective at keeping us as kids away
from the clutches of evildoers who lured us with candy or
something, there's one major problem.
Nobody ever helped us UNLEARN the concept once we were actually
grown up enough to fend for ourselves.
Stop and think about this for a second. The evidence of how true
this is can be found everywhere.
You get in a crowded elevator and nobody talks to each other. In
the checkout line at the grocery store...same thing.
In fact, try this if you're not already in the habit of doing so.
Simply COMMENT ABOUT SOMETHING to a total stranger.
It doesn't even need to be an attractive woman you're talking to,
necessarily. It can be ANYONE.
I can all but guarantee that the look on the person's face will
range from somewhere between mild surprise to utter shock.
BUT...after that initial moment of awkwardness is gone, the other
person WILL respond. And probably in a friendly manner befitting
your initial comment to them.
You will have started a conversation successfully, even if it did
indeed take a complete departure from "social norms".
Pretty crazy, isn't it?
But here's the most amazing part, at least to me.
Since most of us never talk to strangers in general, that means
that when we DO finally feel compelled to change that habit it's
usually in the context of meeting women, isn't it?
OK, so let's assume then that we indeed get up the nerve to do
what's strange to us, and we finally approach a woman.
It could be in that crowded elevator, in line at the supermarket
or...yes...even on 5th Avenue in Manhattan.
And when we start that conversation, she looks at us with a
tentative or even startled expression on her face.
What happens next?
Often times, we assume we've already blown it. We confuse that
surprise with disinterest or even disgust.
But usually it's only that she went to the same kindergarten class
we did.
She survived childhood by not taking candy from strangers. And
nobody unwired HER thinking either.
Seriously. That's very often all there is to it. Put this one to
the test in the real world and let me know how it goes.
You've just been given a MAJOR game-changer when it comes to
getting over the fear of approaching women.
When you expect a woman to be taken aback initially when you
approach her--because it's totally normal in today's culture--then
you begin to realize that all it takes is to continue with the next
line of conversation.
If you'd like, you can even tell her with a smile that she's all
grown up now. It's okay for her to talk to strangers.
That way, she might not remain a stranger for long.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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