[X&Y] Are All Women Really This Angry At Men? (And How To Rise Above)

Published: Sun, 11/13/16

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YES, WOMEN STILL WANT A REAL MAN


As you'll read about below, recent events have made some women
angrier than ever, even as we are left all the more confused.

Navigating the political mess that male/female relationships has
become is about as frustrating as it gets.

Where are the real, feminine women who turn us on...and how can
we know for sure they want a real man to turn them on?

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ABOUT THOSE ANGRY WOMEN ON YOUTUBE (BY REQUEST)


Frustration is at an all time high.

More than ever before we as men are confronted with ever-increasing
confusion about what we're supposed to do and even who we're
supposed to be.

In recent months there has been an unmistakably sharp increase in
the negative tone, of course.  As if it wasn't already at a fever pitch
for the last several years, the message is louder than ever from angry
women warning us to KEEP AWAY.

As if feeling invisible to women isn't bad enough, it's as if we're
commanded to stay that way.

We're told in no uncertain terms that making eye contact with a
woman on the street is an aggressive act, let alone actually
approaching her and saying "hello".

One video even infamously labels any male acknowledgment of female
as "the gateway drug to rape". That same clip plays ominous music
as a guy merely glances in a woman's direction as he passes her on
the street.

These videos rack up millions of views and hundreds of thousands of
"likes"...even from men.

But then comes the part where we really want to tear our hair out.

Just yesterday I posted a graphical meme on Twitter that read, "A
woman wants you to hold her, tell her everything will be okay, and
believe you."

In the past women have swooned when I spoke those words.

Yesterday at least two women hurled insults at me.

Obviously, you arouse anger by sounding "rapey" or otherwise
verbalizing intent to sexually assault someone.

But now women also get furious when you talk about embracing
them and protecting them.

What's a man to do?

And yet, in the midst of it all...after everything we've all seen and
heard from the media this election cycle, 42% of U.S. women voters
pulled the lever for Donald Trump.

That's no political endorsement from me either way.  It's a simple,
objective fact.


Good grief...how on Earth can any man make sense of any of
this?

But then comes the part where our circuits get fried to a crisp...

We're also constantly bombarded with images and sound bites of
women openly mourning the demise of "real men" in this post-modern
world.

They wonder where their hero is, and when he'll come sweep them off
of their feet.

But...how are we supposed to be a real man--let alone a hero--to a
woman if we're made to feel like vicious criminals for even showing
interest in her?

How do we "sweep her off her feet" if we can't even LOOK at her, let
alone hold her and tell her everything is going to be okay?

We have been left rudderless in a raging sea...with no definitive
direction whatsoever.

What in the world do these women want? Do they even care if there's
a man in their lives, or not?

You want more examples of why we as men are more confused and
downright frustrated than ever?  Just take a look at these...

A woman's online profile was recently brought to my attention that
read as follows:


  "You must be a gentleman, but I'm fed up with nice guys."

 
I found a completely different one on my own recently that said
this:


  "I want a man who can rock my world in the bedroom, but whose
   mind isn't on sex."


 
And it's safe to say that nearly all of us have heard this one
before:


  "I want a passionate lover, but I believe in 'friends first'."

 
I'm sure you've been left slack-jawed and speechless by all of this.

Clearly, it's not as if women everywhere are in lockstep with what the
YouTube videos say.

I mean, are they really convinced men are depraved beings simply for
having the audacity to be sexually attracted?  ...Even when they're
heterosexual women?

Or do most women still have the same natural wants, needs and
fantasies as ever...but now live in a world where it's "politically
incorrect" to admit it?

The message drummed into our heads in the media is almost never
in alignment with what feminine, attractive women of sound mind
actually think and do in the real world.

This leads to the most shocking thought of all:

If we as men passively accept the message as delivered, more and
more women just might start believing that they're weird or even
wrong for not buying into it as well.


You know, it's the "women follow a man's lead" bit, as you've
heard from me before a hundred times.

All of the sudden, the truth has become frighteningly clear: Your
very identity as a man is in crisis.


As "gentlemen", are we really supposed to refrain from "bothering"
women with our presence...only to have the door slammed on us in
anger when we "fail to deploy"?

I mean, is she happier without a man and wants to be left alone...
or is she bitterly disappointed that we didn't kiss her passionately?

It just doesn't add up.

But it gets even worse than what was demonstrated by my little
Twitter incident yesterday.

Sometimes it's as if the more we try to do the right thing, the
more women self-righteously reject us, reserving the right to be
rude or even downright mean to us.

Then, we're forced to endure watching those same women smile and
giggle as they paw up some other random guy who seems like a total
loser. What is up with that?

Meanwhile, the greatest tragedy of all is that more good, decent
men than ever before have simply given up...thinking that meeting
real, live women just isn't worth the trouble OR the perceived risk.

Some men have even commented on my own blog and elsewhere
that they've actually trained themselves to stop noticing women
altogether...the perceived taboo associated with it is just too
painful to deal with nowadays.

Just look at this...almost six hundred comments, largely from
"Men Going Their Own Way":



http://edumckaytion.com/blog/men-notice-women-anymore/


But ironically, those same men turn to Internet porn in the absence
of real, live women in their lives...only adding to the shame and
despair. And it hurts.

Surely it's "game over" at that point...in the truest sense of the
phrase. Both men and women lose.

So are we all doomed to a life of solitary celebacy from now on?

Not so fast...

Don't be misled any longer. The status quo is not sustainable.

After all, the vast majority of us are not rapists. You're not a
monster, you're a man. You want only to treat a good woman right.

Meanwhile, it's still true (and always will be) that women will
follow the lead of a man who has their best interests in mind, and
they'll lovehim for it.

That can only mean that they're depending on us to sort all of this
out and find a way to sweep them off of their feet...and fast.

But the simple fact remains that we've got to actually meet them in
order to do that.

And somehow we've got to attract them sexually, lest we be banished
to the "Just Be Friends Zone".

You see, we as men are constantly told we're the problem, but we're
given no solution.

We're treated like mushrooms...kept in the dark and fed nothing but
manure.

Even high quality women themselves are left shaking their heads.

They have no idea what to do about any of this either...except
wait...and hope...that a great man will rise above the fray and
boldly turn her on.

For most men there is no real road map to success...only mass
confusion all around.

If you're like me, you also believe that the current state of
affairs is utterly unacceptable. We as men have to find the way to
our rightful place in red-blooded women's hearts, minds AND
yes...bedrooms.

Failure is not an option. And the truth is that women are cheering
us on.

So, what is it going to take to boldly meet and attract the women
WE want...all the while thrilling those very women at their
deepest, most feminine level?

The question is, are you up for The Big 4 Man Challenge?


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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