[X&Y] Part Two: 8 Signs She Doesn't Respect You Enough

Published: Thu, 12/15/16



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IN THIS EDITION:  As promised, here is the rest of that list of
signs that your girlfriend is losing respect for you...and probably
taking you for granted as well.
        
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8 SIGNS SHE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU ENOUGH (PART TWO)


Last time I gave you the first four of eight ways you can tell when
a woman's losing respect for you.

Some of you wrote me telling me how painful they were to read.
Well, I completely understand.  

Remember...the reason why I'm somewhat good at writing these
newsletters is because I've been there myself.

That means that I can also feel your pain as I share this list with
you, believe me.  I've definitely been banished to the "No Respect
Zone" in the past.

Take a deep breath, because we're about to descend to the very
depths of how bad this can potentially get.  But thankfully, I'm
also going to show you the secret to getting OUT of the "NRZ".

Here we go...

 

5) Her "Guy Friends" Are Getting Friskier With Her


Other guys are starting to flirt with your girlfriend more. Some
are even brazenly asking her out...perhaps while you're standing
there.

But here's the craziest part of the whole phenomenon we're talking
about here.

You're pretty much pretending it isn't going on, just like an
ostrich with its head in the sand.

It's not that you're blind to the whole thing and/or in denial
about it because you're a guy. It's all because you're HER guy.

Every other dude who's ready to jump her bones as soon as you're
out of the picture already senses she's losing respect for you.

And they know that means she might easily be lured away.

Weirdly, if you were one of them, you'd see it too.

So they're flirting with her more. Even under your nose.

And she's letting it happen. And she's enjoying it.

And YOU'RE letting it happen, too.

That's because should you have the gall to show any displeasure
over the whole thing, she'll tell you you're overreacting and that
"it's nothing".

She'll tell you they're "just friends".

And if anything, it'll all just get worse. That's because she
doesn't respect you and takes you for granted.

 

6) She Assumes You'll Keep Doing For Her Whatever It Is
You've Been Doing For Her


Yes, you'll pick up her kids from school. You'll go get her car
washed. You'll go to the corner store and get her a pack of
cigarettes...and pay for them.

And even if you complain, you'll keep doing whatever she asks you
to do.

That's because you care about her more than she cares about you.

She knows it, and she's taking advantage of it...at least until her
real "Prince Charming" comes along and sweeps her off of her feet,
and out of your life.

 

7) She Doesn't Return Your Calls

 
I've said it before, but it bears repeating in this context. If a
woman is really excited about talking to you, she will.

If she's really not, she won't.

Simply put, if she's got a whole lot less nowadays that she's
excited to talk to you about than she used to, you're going to hear
from her less.

And by the way, when you call her (again, for the fourth time
today), she's going to end the conversation before you do 90% of
the time.

 

8) She Keeps You Waiting


Having you sit around her apartment at night was just the
beginning.

Now, she's feeling absolutely free to show up an hour late--or even
not at all--when the two of you have plans.

If you're planning to go out together, she'll take an extra hour to
get ready.

She might even call you and tell you she's got a "couple of
errands" to run before she gets around to seeing you.

But then again, she knows you'll be fine with that...right?  After
all, it's not like you'll ever stand up for yourself.

 

What a brutal, brutal list, right?

If any or all of what I just shared with you resonates just a bit
too closely with your reality, you're probably left wondering how
the heck you can change that reality.

I mean, you've probably been wondering about that LONG before you
ever even discovered this blog post.

Well, guess what? The solution really comes down to ONE pretty
simple thing.

You've got to become less available.

That's it. That's really all there is to it.

It may be rooted in neediness or a scarcity mindset, no doubt. It
may just be a lack of personal discipline on your part.

But either way, you were desperate to be with her from the very
start...whenever you could, for as long as you could.

You just wanted to be where she was, and you didn't want to leave.

And she let you stick around, so you did.

You were too available and still are. It's now become a bad habit.

So inevitably, what felt good in the moment has started to wear on
your relationship.

Yes, even the fact that she growls gnarly things to you instead of
whispering "sweet nothings" into your ear likely has everything to
do with being too available...unless you really have been an
"Idiot/Jerk" (aka "I/J"), which is another issue altogether.

"Familiarity breeds contempt", as they say. You've become so
"dependable" that it's disgusting...literally.

Now here's the crazy part.

It's altogether possible that despite the tedious, boring and even
flat-out irritating nature of your relationship nowadays, the two
of you might actually NEVER break up.

That's right. I'm not necessarily telling you that she's about to
leave you.

Sure, she might continue to completely take you for granted. And
yes, her contempt for you might actually grow over time.

She'll disrespect you more over time, not less. And if the nagging
hasn't started already, you can bet it will soon.

And yes, it's actually probable that she's going to cheat on you
with one or more of those other "friends" of hers.

But all the while, the truth is that since you've led into
complacency, she just might continue to follow...forever.

If you want to get out from under this heavy burden, you've got two
choices.

If it's too far gone, you can break up with her and not make the
same mistakes next time.

Or, you can try to repair the current situation by making some
drastic changes.

Fair warning: These changes will be disruptive. But that's by
definition.

You'll need to make the decision NOT to see her every night. No
more crashing out at her place. Find something to do other than her.

Inject some "radical honesty" into the mix. Tell her that it's no
longer okay to be late and/or to make you wait forever. Leave
without her to a couple of functions if the point needs to be
driven home.

If she hangs on the phone with other people during the time that's
supposed to be shared between the two of you, get up and leave.

Stop being her "little bitch" when she orders you around.

And above all, if she'd rather flirt with other guys tell her
that's a decision she can make without you.  Tell her in no
uncertain terms that if you felt like you'd rather flirt with a
bunch of other women, you'd be doing so.

There can be no "double-standard".

I have to tell you, it's not a 100% certainty that you'll ever gain
a woman's respect again if she's lost it for you.

But it is absolutely certain that you will not if you continue with
the status quo.
 
 
 
 

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