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IN THIS EDITION:  I've been getting e-mails asking for MORE ways
to maximize New Year's Eve, especially as far as success with women
is concerned.

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MORE NEW YEAR'S EVE TIPS


I really like New Year's Eve.  I've had some particularly
outrageous experiences over the years, and the memories are
generally good ones.

Trafalgar Square in London...realizing to my utter shock and
delight that everyone makes out with each other (aka "random
snogging") at the stroke of midnight.

Spontaneously becoming the lead singer of the cheesy band
in Moscow, successfully wowing a group of Spanish-speaking
"Swiss" college girls.  To this day I have no idea what they were
doing in the Soviet Union on NYE 1986.

Bottle rocket battles with the neighbors down in Brownsville.

Partying like it was 1999 on the last night of 1999...complete
with a vintage 1939 Cabernet.  It tasted like vinegar, even
though the rest of the night was particularly sweet.

More recently, "roll your own sushi" (and slam your own sake)
parties with friends at Casa McKay.

We plan on having even more fun Saturday night.

Apparently, a bunch of you guys are also interested in making
the most of this year's annual chance to ring in the new year
right, because I got LOTS of positive feedback from yesterday's
newsletter...along with some requests for MORE ideas.

So what I've done is I've gone back over the last eleven years'
worth of New Year's tips I've written about in this space, and
pulled together a "best of" edition.

Now, I'm sure you can understand that there's no way I can elaborate
on these to exhaustive conclusion in the context of a newsletter,
and we flat-out don't have time to extend this multi-part gig any
further. 

So cut me some slack about my not providing every little shred of
detail possible, please.  What follows should at the very least
give you more to work with than before you opened this message.  

Nevertheless, if you really want more insight on any item on the
list find me on Twitter @scotmckay or on the Facebook page...deal?

That said, fasten your seat belts...here we go (and don't drink and
drive, okay?)



1)  If you want to kiss a woman at midnight, you've GOT to go
where that's going to be at least theoretically an option.


I wasn't kidding above.  Seriously... it used to be that at midnight
on January 1st every reasonably good looking woman in London
would pack herself into Trafalgar Square (along with about half a
million other people). 

At the stroke of midnight they'd then proceed to make out with
every reasonably non-creepy dude within striking distance.

No kidding.  It was nutrageous.  It was hard to leave that party
without getting tongued down by at least two dozen hotties. 

To be honest, that memory alone is one major reason why PUA "in
field" videos highlighting a "kiss close" at the end have always
been such a letdown for me.

Now, I realize you may not be able to get to London this weekend.
But you darn skippy better find out where there will at least be a
good crowd of women who are in the mood to party.  

And that shouldn't be difficult.  For most of the female persuasion,
NYE is a lot like Halloween in that it makes a perfect excuse to
pretend it's Spring Break again--only in winter coats.



2)  Consider being the "designated driver".


Last time I gave you a solid case for remaining sober on NYE.
That in and of itself is its own reward.

But if you can't figure out why being the one with the keys to
his own car at midnight on NYE--and the ability to drive it--is
an even more devastating advantage, call me immediately for
emergency coaching.



3)  You can actually build a "female entourage" yourself.


There's actually no need to be already dating someone before
that can happen, even though I brought up this whole idea in
that context yesterday.

The truth is that for any given major social event that you think
everyone is in on, there are massive numbers of hotties far beyond
your estimation who are sitting at home...dateless.

That's right.  We as guys automatically assume women's "social
needs" are covered...by someone else.  But they're often NOT.

You only have to remember my newsletter to you a few days ago
about how so many women were online on Christmas Night.  You'll
find that JUST as many will be there on New Year's Eve.

So trade in that "stinking thinking" for this... 

Call all your female friends and simply say, "Hey look, some of us
are going to [insert venue] for NYE, and I wanted to make sure you
were covered.  I know plans can fall through at the last minute and
so forth."

There's no neediness and certainly nothing pushy there...just a clear
indication you have her back. 

If she's all set, so be it.  Don't try to talk her out of her existing plans. 

Just say, "OK...cool.  Have fun.  Catch you next year some time if we
don't see you all out on the town."   Give a good-natured laugh, and
hang up the phone.

But you'll be shocked by how many women will in fact respond
favorably, usually with something to the effect of, "Well...actually,
things are looking pretty flakey...", etc.

You might even get a call while you're actually out.  Keep your
ears on.

The net-net of it is you'll probably add a few attractive women to
your entourage for the evening.  Social Proof City, USA.



4)  If hanging out with the guys is looking like the best option, go
where there are going to be groups of women also.


In other words, such a place would NOT be a sports bar with some
obscure bowl game blaring on the tube. 

And obviously, it's not in the basement drinking Milwaukee's Best
and playing World Of Warcraft.

Go for it, gentlemen.  Get out there and join the party...somewhere.
Be the leader in your group of friends and don't let them decide to be
boring.



5)  Don't plan anything for the next morning...especially work.


I fully get that this may not be possible. 

But when you don't have any worry about where you have to be in the
morning hanging over your head, you really can be more focused on
having a good time...and a whole lot more flexible with how the
evening flows.

Exactly seventeen years ago one of my friends had the bright idea of
getting married on 1/1/2000...at 10 am.  Great.  I still barely remember
rolling out of bed on time.



6)  Make a conscious "New Year's resolution" to be fearless and
flirt...and put it into action at least four hours early.


If you view NYE as a major social opportunity, especially with
women, then your mindset needs to reflect it.  

Do something that you're good at tomorrow to build your confidence.

Dress in a way you know you'll look your very best (try wearing
blue), and be intentional about following through on what you've
resolved to do.



7)  Prepare yourself physically, not just mentally.


Take an afternoon nap if you can, hydrate well all day and eat a
sensible dinner before heading out. 

Then, when you're at your best well into the night it'll be that
much easier to feel like it's "game on".



8)  Go where you can wear a tux, if you can.


Don't let the words "black tie formal" psych you out.

Most women think men in tuxes are amazing, and you'll feel that way.

I really can't explain it, but there's just something about black tie
events that make people want to cut loose.  That's a good thing. 

And good things happen to guys who wear tuxes around women who
feel particularly sexy because they're wearing nice dresses, too.



9)  If you already have a date, get three or four other couples and
dominate a venue together.


OK, so you have a woman to hang out with.  Spending a "quiet night
at home" is certainly an option, and can rock...just like I
suggested yesterday.

But whatever the two of you do, if you ARE planning to go out get a
few other couples involved.

That way, instead of just being AT the party, you're group may very
well BE the party. 

This is an amazing strategy, and it's a lot of fun to be the center
of attention.  One NYE in recent memory about four other couples
joined us for a black-tie event as described above.  It was off the
charts.



10)  Consider throwing the party yourself.


Yes, it could get messy.  But if you're up to the challenge, being
the grandmaster of the party delivers the goods in a huge way
socially.

But you already know that.  Consider this a reminder.

And hey, why not get a few friends involved and throw the party
together?  There's probably still time to arrange all of this (see
#3 above), and at somewhere other than your living room, lest your
place be ransacked beyond recognition.



Between Trafalgar Square, that time in Moscow with all the female
Mexican exchange students, the infamous "bottle rocket fight", the
black-tie millennium party, the in-house "sushi-fest" and many, many
other great New Year's Eves past there have been some great memories
I've enjoyed making.  And like I said, there's more to come...

This year it's your turn, also.  By all means let me know how it goes,
okay?






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