[X&Y] "I Was Just A Womanizing Casanova In The Ukraine"

Published: Sun, 02/19/17



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IN THIS EDITION:  Here is a somewhat necessary follow-up to
that bit on psycho girlfriends I sent you a while back.
   
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"I WAS JUST A WOMANIZING CASANOVA IN THE UKRAINE"


I got an unprecedented amount of feedback from that newsletter I
sent you a few weeks ago on how to spot psycho women.  So much
so, actually, that I recognized the clear need for a "mailbag" edition.

Fair enough.  But that said, I'm going to take a bit of a break
from the typical Q&A style reader question newsletter. 

Instead, I'm going to make some general comments in an effort to
throw a proverbial blanket over the lion's share of the messages I
received.

First off, while it's true that I've been at this long enough that
almost nothing surprises me anymore, I couldn't believe how many of
you sent me messages vehemently defending your psycho girlfriends
and your twisted, dysfunctional relationships with them.

The recurring theme was, "It's not her fault or mine...and even women
like her need love too."

You know what?   I'm not going to argue with any of that. 

The thing is, though, I'm of the opinion that bona fide crazy women
can and should freely allow someone OTHER than me to love them.

Call me selfish, but I'm not willing to let my own life be ruined as
collateral damage.

Apparently, however, a lot of you consider yourself up to that
challenge.  That's your own (potentially disastrous) decision.

However, if you count yourself among that crowd, consider this.

There was also a dogpile of guys who chimed in about red flag #1:
"She'd Already Be In Jail Were She A Man".

Specifically, many questioned my statement that there's one code of
law that applies to both male and female.

Lots of you have actually seen law enforcement treat crazy women a
lot more favorably than they would any man. 

In fact, some of you have been hauled away because of a psycho
woman's accusations.

Let me be perfectly clear.  I've actually been there myself. 

One time my ex went ballistic, causing the neighbors to call the
police.  And yes, it was ME who had a lot of splainin' to do.  I
won out on that day, but it was a close call.

As such, the point of what I wrote the other day was to plant a
seed in YOUR head, not throw a pity party for misdirected and/or
gender-biased law enforcement.

The law really is the law, regardless of how the police on the
street and/or the judges on the bench interpret it.

Therefore, regardless of what anyone else thinks, the first person
whose opinion needs to be swayed when it comes to the idea of
equal-opportunity legal rights and consequences is YOURS.  

Yes, YOU.

The point is that we as men should not be rationalizing a psycho
woman's behavior simply because she's female and we're male...
period.

Otherwise you're in for a rough, rough life.  And that's a promise.

One side note there is that it's dangerous to underestimate the
manipulative power of any mentally ill woman OR man.  That much is
decidedly NOT gender specific. 

It's not uncommon for some to have such a firmly held belief in the
legitimacy or even righteousness of their behavior that they can
confidently mesmerize others into agreeing that someone else is to
blame--even if their claims are flat-out preposterous. 

I've personally seen outrageous statements made with such utter
personal charisma that it was dumbfounding. 

If you're wondering how this can possibly be so, bear in mind that
these folks really, truly believe their own B.S.

Importantly, some people whose reality tends to differ from that of
everyone else around them have even been known to pass polygraph
tests.

Hopefully, the potential ramifications of everything I just
described are as scary to you as they are to me.  And as such, I
sincerely trust you'll make it a point to AVOID psychotic women.

I did get one e-mail in particular that I'm particularly compelled
to reprint for you here verbatim.  Steve in Alaska wrote in with a
couple of horror stories from his recent past:



  Hey bro,

  How is everything?  I hope well.  I'm finally back in the US after
  about a year and a half.  I'm in Alaska freezing my butt off now!
 
  Anyway, having read this newsletter below, I sure can relate to
  some psychos! 

  One girl I was dating in the Ukraine really pissed me off, and I am
  thinking of breaking everything off with her because of that, and I
  told her that, too.  She went to my V Kontakte page (Russia's
  Facebook) and saw all my friends there (only 16) are girls. 

  She actually contacted one of them and started asking this other
  girl questions about me! 

  Well, the other girl told some lies about me to the one I was
  dating and made it sound like I was just a womanizing Casanova in
  the Ukraine. 

  Well, whatever transpired between them is not the point, but the
  point is invading my privacy and then also believing the words of
  someone who she doesn't know from Adam! 

  I told the girl I was seeing, 'How would you like it if I went to
  your Facebook or Kontakte page and started asking your friends
  about you?!  You would never want to see me again or even talk to
  me because you would think I invaded your privacy, and also that
  I'm very insecure!  And on top of that, you believe what a total
  stranger told you!  Did it ever occur to you that maybe this other
  girl likes me and she told you those things about me to keep you
  away from me?!'

  Anyway, after telling her all that, she's 'Real sorry!' and I was
  right in what I told her. 

  But the thing is, so many girls in that part of the world have a
  double standard; they can do what they want to, and a man better
  not dare say anything about it. 

  But let me do that, and I'm in real trouble with her! 

  My first girlfriend in the Ukraine many years ago actually let her
  guy friend come to her house to visit her once in a while.

  But when a female friend would come visit me, or even call me?  I
  was in trouble with her!  Sure pisses me off!

  Just two examples of psychos I had to deal with in my life...


  Later man,

  Steve



Are the women Steve mentions legitimately crazy?  That's up for
discussion, as there seems to be some immaturity and or raw
character issues at play there, actually.

But be that as it may, there are two secondary ideas that jumped
out of his message and whacked me in the head.

The first is an object lesson in the pitfalls of managing a
Facebook account when multiple women from your past AND the
women you're currently dating are all "friends".  Note the mayhem
that can ensue when and if they decide to contact each other.

My take is that any mature human being you're dating would know
better than to open a can of worms by contacting anyone else who is
female on your "friends" list.  But one just cannot assume
maturity, right?

But that said, also look at how naïve some people can be in terms
of blindly accepting the words of a stranger with regard to someone
they know well.  Fascinating, isn't it?

This bears witness to the simple truth that people tend to actively
seek support for whatever beliefs they have.

In other words, if a woman is looking to find out you're a cheater,
she'll tend to latch on to whatever she digs up that supports what
she's hoping is true.

This is how good reputations are ruined mercilessly, and
tragically--it's also how good people are led astray by master
manipulators.

The other lesson to be learned from Steve's message might be a
poignant one for those of you who've been led to believe that all
women from your country (e.g. The United States or the UK) are
"bad" and that women from other countries are "good".

One of the countries that most often comes up in that context is
Ukraine, where Steve has spent some time.

The bottom line is that there are golden-hearted women and
black-hearted women in EVERY country, and Steve is doing his
level best to offer you clear evidence of that.

If you make excuses trying to put "all women" in your particular
country in some sort of box, you may have to look no further than
in the mirror to find where the solution to that dilemma is likely
to come from.

That can be hard to face up to, can't it?


 
 
 
 

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