[X&Y] How To Build Trust And Be Adored

Published: Fri, 04/21/17



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IN THIS EDITION:  I've asked my friend Michael Lee to "sit in"
for this newsletter, as Emily and I are in Austin this weekend for
the BMX World Championship Qualifiers

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Okay, so here's what's going on.  By the time you're reading this we
probably already know if Emily and/or Sarah (age 5) have qualified to
represent Team USA at the BMX racing World Championships this
summer.

It's pretty heavy duty stuff to even be there qualifying though, right?

Knowing ahead of time I'd be too keyed up to be focused on anything
else today, I asked my long-time friend Mike Lee to sit in for me this
time.

If you've been following this newsletter for a while, you've figured
out that I don't weave "mind game" trickery stuff into the equation
much, at least not intentionally.  

Unfortunately, the dark side of those practices often leads to
manipulation for purely selfish gain, so I've historically avoided
talking about them.

That said, I do find the art and science of persuasion amazing.  
So much so, of course, that my Female Persuasion program is
devoted to the subject of making women WANT to do anything for
you.

As such, it's no coincidence that I happened upon Michael Lee's
website...almost seven years ago now.  

Michael presents a framework for the secrets of persuasion in such
a compelling (or is that persuasive?) manner that I was drawn in
immediately.

He talks about human interaction at the unconscious level in a
decidedly refreshing and dare I say character-based manner.

He boldly discusses all sorts of ideas--including both NLP and
hypnosis--in a way that's actionable and focuses on building pure,
natural social skill while learning to protect oneself from
manipulation.

I couldn't help but make the analogy of a "white hat" hacker hired
by law enforcement or an anti-virus software company to "reverse
engineer" harmful stuff and rid the world of it.

And once I realized that dating, attraction and relationships are
MAJOR interests of his, it was "game on".

Before you know it, I was trading e-mails with Michael and had his
20 Day Persuasion course on my hard drive.

This guy's program is SO on-point and jam-packed with real-world
practicality that I wanted you to benefit from knowing him also.

Here's a no-nonsense newsletter from him with loads of info that
you can put to work for you starting RIGHT NOW:
 


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IT'S ALL IN THE EYES:  BUILD TRUST AND BE LIKED

-- by Michael Lee


Of all the nonverbal communication signals, eye body language is
probably the most fascinating. They say the eyes are "the windows
to the soul."  

I agree, since your eyes pretty much reveal your inner thoughts and
feelings.

Even more amazing is the fact that you can use eye body language to
build trust and make people like you. Here's how:



MAKING EYE CONTACT IS THE KEY


You must make eye contact around 70% of the time if you want to
convey your sincerity and respect. Avoiding eye contact
unconsciously gives the impression of dishonesty, shyness, anxiety,
or even humiliation.

If you continuously avoid making eye contact, you might be
perceived as someone who is insecure, unreliable or even deceitful.
Although that may not be the case, that's the normal impression
that people have of someone who can't look at them straight in the
eye.

If you're too timid or are afraid to make eye contact now, start by
just look at the bridge of the nose or the portion between their
eyes, and they'll think that you're looking at them.



BE AWARE OF YOUR EYE BODY LANGUAGE


Some people unconsciously send body language signals that offend
other people, so be sensitive to your eye movements. Don't roll
your eyes, as this indicates irritation.

Your eyes glow if you're in a pleasant or joyous state, and they
look dull when you're lonely or depressed. So if you're having
problems or are in a bad mood, your eyes will unconsciously send
signals of your mood or state of mind.



REVEAL YOUR EYES


Avoid wearing sunglasses, because covering up the eyes might give
the impression that you're hiding something. Since eyes are very
expressive, not allowing people to see your eyes' implies that you
don't want them to know how you feel or think.

It also makes the other party feel uneasy because they don't know if
you're looking at them or not.



KNOW WHAT PEOPLE'S EYE BODY LANGUAGE MEANS


How do you know if people are paying attention to you? You'll know
it when they establish eye contact while either nodding their
heads, smiling, and/or leaning closer.

If they raise their eyebrows, they might want to say or clarify
something, end the conversation, or have disagreed with something
you've said.

People who deliberately evade your eyes and show no intention of
giving you a glance are probably not interested in talking to you,
so it may be a good idea to look elsewhere for interest.



DON'T LOOK IF THEY DON'T LIKE TO BE LOOKED AT


Be aware of people who might get offended simply by looking at
them. Some people avoid eye contact because of extreme shyness; so
don't add to their discomfort by staring at them.

Some cultures may consider eye contact a negative or disrespectful
act, so be sensitive when you're meeting people of different
cultures and adjust accordingly to their beliefs.

Aside from reading eye body language, check other nonverbal signals
so you'll have a more accurate assessment of what they're thinking
or feeling.



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Big thanks to Michael for being our guest.  

I really love discovering new voices in the world of dating and
seduction advice, especially when they bring something completely
different to the table.

If you go to Michael's website, you'll find tons of ingenious ways
to improve your interactions with people immediately.  

I'm telling you, some of the secrets he shares are so simple yet so
right-on that you'll wonder how you've lived as many years on Earth
as you have without them.  And they're all being GIVEN AWAY:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/mikelee



Now, fair warning:  Once you start reading about Michael's 20 Day
Persuasion program you might become as intrigued as I was.

If you decide to get his program, let's just say you will NOT be
disappointed.  

I'm going to avoid all the mushy kudos and give you something
purely objective to sink your teeth into:  Having seen how
valuable and well-produced 20 Day Persuasion is, I was personally
inspired to build some improvements into my own programs and their
member's areas.  

Basically, I have yet to see more bang for the buck than Michael
offers...anywhere.

In addition to his absolutely golden persuasion training (included
are both e-book AND audiobook versions), he also includes such a
rich array of bonuses that you might soon believe this is the only
setup you'll ever need in order to get social dynamics down to a
science.  

And you could be right.   

He's got seven more entire e-books on leadership, concentration,
motivation, and more...even the entire e-book version of "Think And
Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill (which I have no idea how he pulled
off).   

And not to let the cat out of the proverbial bag, but Michael even
gives you more UNANNOUNCED BONUSES after you get the keys to the
expertly-crafted Member's Area, which to me is just pure class.
And you'll be stoked about ALL OF THEM.

So here's where all of this has been hiding out:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/mikelee



Whether you set yourself up with Michael's 20 Day Persuasion
bonanza or just take all the no-cost social skill tips you can
carry, this will make your day.


 
 
 
 

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