[X&Y] Frustrated With Your Dating Life? Here's Why...
Published: Mon, 04/24/17
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IN THIS EDITION: More and more, I'm convinced there is one
single factor that decides whether or not a man is going to experience
consternation in his dating life.
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2017 IS ALMOST 1/3 OVER
Time flies, doesn't it?
Remember when it was January 1st, and you were thinking about that
resolution to find a great woman this year?
Well, how's that going?
If you think you're behind the curve on that, you're not alone.
I mean, hey...we get busy and our focus tends to turn to other things
that are also pretty important.
But listen, man. Meeting the right woman really is mission
critical.
And I'll tell you what, spring is getting into full swing.
That can only mean one thing: Women are getting "frisky"
out there.
They're breaking out the sundresses and getting into that fun,
playful mood that comes with warmer weather.
And don't kid yourself...if they don't have a great man like you in
their life, they want that to happen by the time summertime hits.
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If you're still living in 1993 thinking only women who can't get a
date are placing "personal ads", all I can tell you is to take a
freakin' look for yourself.
Get ready to pick your jaw up off the floor when you run your first
search on Match.com or OKCupid. Seriously.
And know this: It WILL be the few and the proud among guys who'll
know the ropes and who will be scoring the dates with all of those
hotties.
Yes...those guys will be choosing which women they want.
That's whether YOU are still sitting at home on the couch wondering
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IF YOU ARE FRUSTRATED WITH YOUR DATING LIFE, HERE'S WHY
Every day we get phone calls and e-mails from both men and women.
I see that as a major plus because it's like having a crystal ball
that cuts through the haze and offers clear insight into how men and
women think about each other.
After over a decade of doing this, I've noticed there is one factor that
differentiates everyone who is having trouble with the other gender from
those who aren't. It's almost like a common thread of DNA.
None of them are IN CONTROL of their dating lives.
Instead, it's whomever they are interested in who tends to be in
full control.
You see, typically a guy will write me and say something like, "Hey
Scot, I got a phone number from a woman but I called her and she
was completely non-committal about hanging out sometime. How do I
get her to go out with me?"
Or, he may say, "Look Scot, I've got a problem here. I started
dating this woman and it was going well. But then she stopped
returning calls as quickly as she once did. And lately she has been
telling me she's 'super busy' and can't really get together as often.
I texted her four or five times yesterday, but she didn't answer."
The women's version tends to be shockingly similar, if for some
untold reason the stories themselves more dramatic and entertaining.
"Scot, I really like this guy who is 'legally separated'. But he
hasn't filed for divorce and changes the subject whenever I bug him
about it. We were supposed to go out Friday night but he never
called. So I finally called him around 10p and some chick
answered! She was really, really, REALLY mad. What do I do?"
Or...
"Gee Scot, I met this guy online and he lives a couple of hours
away. I don't understand why he can't just take a Saturday
afternoon and meet me half way or something to have lunch. But he
keeps putting it off. How can I get him to be more excited about
meeting me?"
Do you see the pattern there?
Each of the four scenarios above involves someone having put the
object of his or her potential affection in complete, utter control
over the outcome.
The most curious part of this is that the guys who are in such a
position are the same ones who are firmly convinced that "women are
the choosers and men are the chasers".
They are the ones who complain that women "can choose any guy
they want, and we as men have to do all the work".
Meanwhile, every woman in a similar position relates to me some
version of, "How come I have to be the only one who cares about
the relationship all the time? How come I call him and couldn't be
sweeter to him, but he hardly ever calls back? And when he does,
how come he only wants to see me like once a month?"
Yep...you got it. The one in control chooses...man or woman.
And that's precisely why everyone in that "out of control" position
ends up frustrated. They feel powerless and asking someone like us
what to do to is really just a band-aid.
The reality is there's nothing they CAN do to get inside another
person's mind and work the controls.
At least not directly.
Now, other people out there might start dating several MOTOS at
once and end up having a hard time sorting out their rambunctious
social lives.
And at that point they too may call and ask me how to deal with that.
But when you think about it, that's really just another version of not
being in control of one's dating life, isn't it?
Granted, that's a "high quality problem", but it's a twist on the same
basic issue nonetheless. Instead of one person being in control
over another, however, in this case you have one person being
controlled by the pressures of many on his or her time.
Poor babies, I know.
But it can be frustrating nonetheless. And that, as I mentioned,
is the premise of this entire discussion.
When you are OUT OF CONTROL of your dating life, you are frustrated.
And when you are IN CONTROL of your dating life, you aren't.
It really couldn't be more simple.
So here's what I challenge you to do.
If you are obsessing over one person--or worse, if you're obsessing
because there's NO person in your life--I want you to TAKE CONTROL
and make the first move towards having real options in your life.
Young people have a distinct advantage over older people who are
dating because they get to "clock in" every day at a "workplace"
where there are no limits on "fraternization" and where everyone is
the same age.
Best of all, except in rare instances, about half of those people
are MOTOS.
That place is SCHOOL, of course. And what's more, everyone at
school is usually unmarried, right?
It really is a dating bonanza, assuming you have the wherewithal at
a young age to make the most of it.
But youth is wasted on the young, oftentimes, isn't it? Most of us
didn't exactly have dating figured out back in high school.
And the hard truth is that once you graduate, you'll NEVER
experience an opportunity like that EVER again.
But here's the thing.
Within the last fifteen years, something has happened that offers you a
very real approximation of the way things were at school.
That "something" is online dating.
Where else can you log on, find literally hundreds of MOTOS who are
the right age, in your neighborhood and AVAILABLE?
The correct answer is "nowhere".
The very best way I know of to go from NO CONTROL to FULL
CONTROL over your dating options you have is to start filling your
life with more women to go out with.
And even if you work in a cave all day or at "Just Men, Inc.", you
have the power to get online and make something happen.
I couldn't be more convinced that online dating is the ultimate
solution for frustration.
But of course you have to know how to make online dating work for
you.
Get it wrong, and you'll just get more frustrated.
But get it RIGHT, and your dating life will be radically changed
for the better almost immediately.
The best news of all? Most guys never bother to find out how to
make online dating work for them.
This means that YOU have a very real opportunity to get all the
success where others fail.
Life isn't fair. But if it were, that would mean that every guy would
have an equal amount of success. What YOU can do is take
every advantage available to you and make it YOURS.
And that's exactly what I teach you how to do, step-by-step, in
Online Dating Domination.
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The way I see it, adding that in will make sure you're equipped to
stay in total control of your dating life even after your schedule
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And all of that together officially makes this the sweetest deal on
Online Dating Domination 2.0 I've ever put together.
Call it the "Frustration Avoidance Package". And it's all about
getting YOU what you really want out of life.
I'll talk to you again soon.
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