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IN THIS EDITION:  Are you the type of guy who ends up being friends
with a lot of women?  If so, read on...

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DON'T BE THE "BORING GUY"


There's one specific problem that's SO common I've lost count of
how many times guys have written in asking about it.

That's this:  They START talking to a woman, and maybe even go on a
first date with her.

And then...THAT'S IT.  She either puts him in the "Just Be Friends
Zone", gets angry for no apparent reason and storms away or--worst
of all--simply disappears.

How frustrating is that?  If you can relate, then I'm convinced
that this might be the answer you've been looking for:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/zach



The basic problem is that most of us as guys are flat-out BORING.
And what women really crave is the exact OPPOSITE:  They want more
EXCITEMENT.

While most men simply shrug their shoulders and lament that they're
"not that type of guy", I know better.  I understand how
ridiculously easy it is to turn the "boring" ship around and get it
right from now on.

And believe me...the reward for doing that is PRICELESS.  Women are
all about fun, and when you bring it they flock to you....giggling and twirling
their hair like schoolgirls.

Once you see this, you'll know exactly what I mean:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/zach



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"MOST OF MY FRIENDS ARE FEMALE"


It's no secret that there's a lot for both genders to fear when it
comes into getting into relationships with MOTOS (members of the
other sex).

For us as guys, we dread the idea of getting "taken to the
cleaners" in a future divorce almost as much as we're terrified
that the woman we marry will gain 100 pounds within six months
after the wedding.

But really, my sneaking suspicion is that the #1 fear we have is
that she's going to turn into a raging psycho on us.

Maybe I'm projecting my own personal experience there, but
man...a LOT of you have written to me with that exact concern.

This prompted me to remind Emily just this morning how much I
appreciate that she's the most mentally stable woman I've ever met.

"You just don't know how rare that is, do you?"

She laughed and admitted that a lot of the guys she'd dated had
said that very thing to her.  It really does appear that a lot of
the women ANY of us date go pretty bonkers on us, which really is a
shame.

"But you know, you're just as rare of a guy", she said.  "You
actually like women.  Do you know how many guys really only care
about sex, without any regard for what else women can do for them?"

"Yes...um...I've written about that before, remember?  Several times,
actually."

"Well, we women ADORE that.  You already know that even my friends
see it, and sure enough...they all adore you.  From what I can
gather, you had a LOT of female friends back in school, didn't you?
Well, that's why."

Her matter-of-fact statement hit me like a ton of bricks.  Suddenly
I got a revelation.

For all the fretting about getting banished to the "Just Be Friends
Zone" I deal with from guys all over the world, there's a simple
and POWERFUL truth at play there.

All "cordial" political gestures aside (which is all an invitation
to "JBF" really is, typically), if we as guys REALLY, ACTUALLY find
that women honestly WANT to be friends with us quite often, then
that's a feather in our cap.

Why?  Because if we know HOW to be friends with women and actually
WANT to, then that means we APPRECIATE women at the holistic level.

AND...(I trust you're sitting down for this) that apparently means
that we're actually MORE ATTRACTIVE to them as a direct result.

How's THAT for irony?  But I believe it's the truth.

Basically, if you can friend women VOLUNTARILY as opposed to being
involuntarily shoved into the "JBF Zone", you're going to find that
TONS of them are sexually attracted to your appreciation for them.

Now careful, though.  I'm NOT saying that you should go into
"friends first" mode with women you're really hot for.

And I'm DEFINITELY not implying that getting "JBFed" is a good
thing.  It's still as much of a plain indicator of sexual
DISinterest as ever.

All I'm suggesting is that if you know how to make women genuinely
LIKE you at the relational level, then you should find it easier
than most guys do to attract more of them sexually.

I know, I know.  It's not exactly rocket science when you think
about it rationally, right?  But how many of us as guys really GET
that?

Dale Carnegie noticed nearly a century ago that when we genuinely
CARE about who someone else is as a person, it's ATTRACTIVE.

Considering how often beautiful women get objectified by guys, can
you imagine how POWERFUL it is when a high quality "big four" man
is willing to take a deeper interest?

And get this:  It follows logically (and naturally), that the
HOTTER a woman is, the MORE of a factor that is.

Just in case you're still scratching your head, consider this.  How
much more attractive to you is a woman who LIKES guys instead of
being a "man hater"?

Don't you prefer to be given the benefit of the doubt that you're
not a creep, perv or some sort of criminal simply because you're
male?  Of course you do.

And isn't it flat-out amazing when she LOVES the fact that you're
male and she's female?  You bet it is.

Well, take that feeling and increase it by an EXPONENTIAL factor.
You'll then have an idea of how smitten a truly beautiful, sexy
woman can get with a guy who shows some depth.

Weirdly, such guys really are pretty rare indeed...but they've always
got the "inside track" on success with women.  Are you up to the
challenge?


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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