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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Are you riding it like you're afraid of it?

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RIDING IT LIKE YOU'RE AFRAID OF IT


I got my motorcycle license back in 1990.  I didn't have a lot of
money back then, so I scraped together $400 and bought the best
bike I could, which turned out to be a 1974 Honda CB450.

It was pretty beat up and let's just say that it had the tendency
to break in ways that led to dire consequences.  As such, I ended
up not riding it much.  And when I did, I was always expecting it
to blow up at any second.

Fast forward to a couple years later.  I moved to Arizona, got a
decent job and finally bought the bike I really wanted.  It was a
Yamaha FZR-600 sportbike.

Let's face it, that's a LOT of bike for a guy with such little
riding experience.  Nevertheless, I got the thing.  But as I rode
it, I found I still suffered from the conditioning that my
motorcycle might start spewing oil and wreck me.

Since the bike was brand new--and not cheap--I also found myself
practically paranoid that I'd either drop it or crash it.

But even worse, I was haunted by the raw statistics related to how
many first-time sportbike owners bite the big one within three
months.

Add it all up and I didn't just ride that Yamaha like a grandma, I
rode it as if it WAS my grandma.

Soon I started hanging out with a bunch of like-minded sportbike
enthusiasts.  The most "alpha" guy of the bunch, a long-haired
ex-marine on a jet black GSX-R 1100, was also the most skilled
rider.  Among other things, he could ride wheelies through all six
gears.

The very first time I met him my new friends and I were parked at a
popular hang-out spot.  He rolled up, offered a firm handshake and
said, "I already know you.  You're the guy who rides that thing
like he's afraid of it."

He revved his motor slightly and before riding away explained,
"You've got to take charge of these little screamers or they'll
chew you up and spit you out."

He then proceeded to show all of us who were parked there exactly
what he meant as he and his 160 hp motorcycle made a dramatic exit,
as was considered the cool thing to do.

Lo and behold, as it turns out his advice was spot on.
Interestingly enough, my confidence increased right there on the
spot and within a year I was actually roadracing.

So why am I telling you all of this?

Well, to be perfectly honest I think a LOT of guys approach
situations with women who they're attracted to a lot like I
approached owning a sportbike for the first time.

Yep...they "ride it like they're afraid of it".

Now obviously, if you take my metaphor half-literally you're
already picturing a scenario that might happen in the bedroom.

And yes, that's would be a disaster in its own right.

But frankly, most guys are riding it like they're afraid of it long
before that.

I can't tell you how many men I've talked to who have women in
their social circle who they're attracted to, but they have NO IDEA
what the woman's relationship status even is, let alone whether
she's attracted to him in return or not.

That's because they're NOT asking any questions, so they're not
finding out any answers.  They're riding it like they're afraid of
it.

Other guys go out on a date with a woman, but they're so
uber-concerned about offending a woman with their potential sexual
interest that they neuter themselves and stick to conversation
about the weather, chocolate chip cookie recipes and--God forbid--the
Dallas Cowboys.

They invariably land in the "Just Be Friends Zone" as a result.
Why?  It's all because they rode it like they were afraid of it.

Back when I was in about ninth grade our class went on a field
trip.  It was one of those cultural events that kids from all the
surrounding schools came to.  Many of them were particularly cute
girls.

There was one particularly amazing one with long, black hair.  She
was wearing a red dress and black stockings.

I remember walking right up to her, introducing myself to her and
telling her exactly what I thought of her.

This was long before e-mail, cell phones and social media, of
course.  And as it turned out, she actually lived in another area
code so there was no way my parents were going to let me rack up
long distance charges talking to her.

So I did what I could.  I got her address and mailed her a letter.

Sure enough, she wrote back.  "I've never met a boy as bold as you.
I don't really know what to do with you, but I kinda like it."

Now, if you think that's poignant, here's the crazy part.  I
wouldn't have DARED be so forthright with ANY girl back at my own
school.  So I wasn't.

I mean, what...are you kidding me?  In my mind, were I to have bared
my soul like that with a girl I still had to see in the hallways or
even in English class afterwards, any number of BAD things might
have happened.

My biggest fear was that it could have resulted in four solid years
of embarrassment.

So then, because I feared the social ramifications and personal
embarrassment of potential "rejection", I went around high school
riding it like I was afraid of it.

But while on that field trip I was virtually free of any potential
for social fallout.  Unfettered, I rode it like I STOLE it instead.
 And it worked.

About now you may be thinking that the point of all this is going
to be that you should boldly make your intentions known to women
instead of shying away from them because you fear loss.

And hey, that's an important point.

But something tells me that my exhortation to stop "riding it like
you're afraid of it" will really hit home for you even more if I
tell you WHY it's such a killer.

The bottom line is that bold leadership is a MASCULINE trait.
Meanwhile, passivity is a FEMININE trait.

Perhaps you've heard before that men are designed to PENETRATE and
that women like to BE PENETRATED.  Obviously that applies to
physical sexuality, but it also applies in the figurative sense,
with regard to how men and women relate to each other.

When you're BOLD about your intentions with a woman, you are doing
something inherently MALE.  That means her femininity gets ignited,
and voila...you turn her on.

But when you "ride it like you're afraid of it" you're inherently
being passive, and that's a TURN OFF.

Do you see the very real "double whammy" at play there?  Not only
do you SEIZE opportunity rather than MISSING it when you're bold,
you're actually doing the "heavy lifting" of attraction in the very
process.

So what's it going to be from now on?

If you "ride it like you're afraid of it" women will "chew you up
and spit you out".

Your passivity robs you not only of the very chance to be with a
woman, but also the masculinity that would intrigue her.  Before
you know it, you're suffering from some nasty "road rash".

Choose boldness instead, resting in the knowledge that your very
choice itself is already making you a more attractive man.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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