[X&Y] The Secret To Being "Mysterious"
Published: Sun, 11/13/11
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WHAT'S INSIDE: You've been told you need to be "mysterious" in
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HOW TO BE A MAN OF MYSTERY
I'm reasonably sure there's not anyone left on Earth giving dating
and seduction advice to men who DOESN'T harp on the importance of
being "mysterious".
The history there is a rock solid one. David D.'s online dating
username was famously, "ManOfMystery".
And of course, the best known pickup artist on Earth actually calls
himself "Mystery".
So yeah...we can all agree that women LOVE men who are "mysterious".
But here's an angle on the topic that I HAVEN'T heard a whole lot
of discussion about: Can you really just throw a blanket over the
idea of simply "being mysterious" and say it's ALL good?
A-ha...now THAT'S a good question.
And here's an answer to it that in the paraphrased words of Kenny
Powers from "Eastbound And Down" might "mess your head up with some
truth".
Check it out, party people. There's a RIGHT way to be "mysterious"
that will draw women to you like tailgates attract bratwursts
(except more often).
BUT...there's a certain brand of "mysterious" that will most likely
leave you DATELESS and LONELY for the rest of your friggin' life.
By now you're probably sensing the raw importance of reading on.
And since it's not like me to leave you hanging on matters of such
critical importance, on with it... Here's the key differentiation
between the two.
When women find themselves positively attracted to a "mysterious"
man, it's because he CREATED INTRIGUE.
It's NOT because he was "impossible to figure out" and/or because
he "disappeared suddenly without warning".
Can you see the difference between the respective dynamics at play
there, and how women might be affected by them for better or worse?
Covert operations and raw inconsistency may succeed at making you
appear "mysterious", but indulging is such activity will make women
doubt your ability to be a leader, a provider and/or a protector.
Can you see that?
Doing inexplicable things does NOT foment a sense of security.
Similarly, being "unpredictable" when it comes to what defines your
character throws a wrench in your "big four" machine--and is NOT to
be confused with "spontaneity" during the course of life's more
trivial undertakings.
Be the WRONG kind of "mysterious" and women will pretty much pull
their hair out at the thought of you.
So even if you DO manage to get a woman to stick around in that
case, who wants a hairless woman? And a hairless woman with zero
self-respect, at that.
But on the other hand, the whole point of being the GOOD kind of
"mysterious" is to cause a woman to CRAVE KNOWING MORE ABOUT YOU.
To successfully be this type of guy, you refrain from blathering on
and on about your accomplishments, your stuff and any other
objective indication of how cool you are.
You RELAX in the quiet notion that she WILL be "impressed" by you
on her own...all without any direct verbal input on the matter from
you whatsoever.
That's right...if you're a "big four" man, she'll be attracted
naturally--without you having to "push the issue".
That means she'll want to know more. That feeling is like a DRUG.
So don't dare spoil the fun for her.
When guys mess this up it's like giving a woman a Wikipedia entry
for a movie instead of letting her actually watch the whole flick
and enjoy the entertainment value of it as intended.
And rest assured, you'll be spoiling the fun for YOURSELF also if
you give her any "shortcuts" to discovering who you are on her own.
To drive home the concepts I've described here, consider the
ultimate "man of mystery" himself, James Bond.
A large part of what makes his character PURE GENIUS is that he's
all about covert operations and leaving people in the dark insofar
as his JOB is concerned, but is ALSO the kind of guy who creates
INTRIGUE in women.
He's got ALL angles of being "mysterious" covered...but only plays
the right card at the right time.
That's not to say he does card tricks trying to impress women at
bars. You know what I mean.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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