[X&Y] Get A Great Woman In 2012...And Enjoy All The "Surprise" Benefits
Published: Sat, 12/31/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEW YEAR'S EVE EDITION
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IN THIS EDITION: What you can REALLY expect from having a great
woman in your life, and a little incentive to make it happen for
2012...
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GET A GREAT WOMAN IN 2012...AND ENJOY ALL THE
"SURPRISE" BENEFITS
First off, today is New Year's Eve. I trust you're well-prepared having
read the two GOLDEN newsletters I sent you about a week ago.
Let tonight represent the ultimate start to what promises to be a great
2012.
Now last time, if you'll recall, I wrote to you about how lots of guys
really seem to discount their own ability to achieve greatness with women.
Some from guys found that message to be a tremendous boost, and some
from guys--you guessed it--think I'm full of it.
So I figured I'd share some of this feedback with you:
First, here's a note from Craig in the UK:
"I emailed you a while ago thanking you for giving me the courage
through your work not to settle but to break up with my girlfriend
of 2 years, who although she was a great girl, wasn't my 10.
Well, after breaking up (which was difficult!) I met a beautiful
girl at the end of August and immediately we both knew this was
IT!! We got engaged on Christmas Eve and I have never been
so captivated by anyone.
She has beauty, character, intelligence, humour and believes (like
me) that the guy should take the lead in the relationship. I did
this right from the start - planning dates, picking her up, being a
MAN - and she LOVED it!!!
What you teach works. Character and being a masculine man who
leads is what every girl wants deep down.
Anyways, hope you and Emily and the kids had a great Christmas and
that you have a great New Year.
Thanks and God Bless."
Obviously, I'm thrilled for Craig. But it's odd how just behind
Craig's message in my inbox was this anonymous "unsubscribe" message:
"I accepted failure as a human being and gave up trying to have
relationships. I shall spend my days alone and childless. Sux 2 B
me."
Now I have to tell you, there's nothing I'd rather do than reach
out through the Internets and do whatever I could to convince this
guy otherwise.
After all, based on what I've seen out there thus far, I find
myself believing that were you to take a look at Craig and Mr.
Anonymous side-by-side you'd see two perfectly normal guys.
The difference?
One actually TOOK ACTION in his life and MADE
SOMETHING HAPPEN.
The other implied "trying", but "trying" and "doing" are two
different things.
Think about it. Whenever someone says, "I'll try", what usually
happens? You got it: NOTHING.
Granted, I could be way off base here about both guys being regular
guys. But I bet I'm not. After all, I've personally seen even guys with
TREMENDOUS personal challenges do amazingly well with women.
The bottom line? Whoever you are, I can give you solid information
and coach you to greatness with women. But I can't actually DEPLOY
for you.
Were I a skydiving instructor, I could show you how to "arch, look, reach
and pull"--but ONLY YOU can jump out of the plane.
So again...I believe 1000% that you can achieve greatness with women.
And I trust you do also, and that you are ready to get on with
it...if not already on that road trip.
As promised, today I'm going to tell you a great secret: What
happens AFTER you've invited a great woman into your life.
Now look at what I JUST received from Richard in Germany, even as
I'm writing this:
"...if you haven't already, I would really love for you to cover the topic
in the future of having a life besides women or a life purpose that is
independent of women...or at least hear your perspective on this."
Well Richard, you've come to the right place, and your timing is
perfect.
That's because the "great secret" I'm sharing with you today is called
"The Leapfrog Effect".
And here it is: Once you have a great woman in your life, your
focus and execution when it comes to what represents your MAJOR
LIFE PURPOSE is about to EXPONENTIALLY INCREASE.
So actually, your life purpose doesn't really happen independently
from having a woman in your life, but in fact is AMPLIFIED by her
presence.
How's that for a mind blower?
Here's what I mean. After my divorce in late 2002, I turned my
attention to getting better with women.
But the REST of my life was a MESS.
I won't lie to you. My physical fitness suffered, my relationships
with friends suffered, even my career suffered.
But I accomplished the goal of getting a great woman in my life--
dating lots of women and continuously "raising the bar"...right up
until when I met Emily.
But once I selected my "100 out of 100" (and those of you who have
read How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life know what
I'm talking about), THAT'S when I entered the latest (and current)
stage of my life.
Today I wake up in the morning changing more lives for the better
than I ever have. My work is more fulfilling, and my sense of
meaning clearer than ever also.
You see, when you recognize that it's time to get your level of
success with women where it needs to be, it's REALLY easy to think
that the be all/end all is having a great woman--especially having
read some of the dating-advice sales pitches out there.
I mean, some of them would have you think that getting ANY woman
would be the "be all/end all".
But here's the reality: Once she's THERE, you then move on to
GREATER accomplishments with her as your cheerleader.
So WHAM...It's as if you've barely had time to bask in the glory
of getting a great woman in your life, when you realize that
the true gift goes WAY, WAY beyond that.
YES...she most certainly fulfills upon what only a great woman
uniquely can. In the bedroom, outside of the bedroom,
EVERYWHERE.
She is the jewel in your crown as King Of All You Survey.
No "greener grass" elsewhere. Ever. That box is checked
off...permanently.
And having a great woman in your life means PARTNERSHIP. Like I
said, she's your cheerleader. A great woman supports a great man
in his dreams, and believes in his leadership.
This propels you to GREATNESS. You are empowered by that
woman's utter belief in you, even as you dare not breach the trust
inspired by your leadership as a man of character.
Her inspiration is the fuel that feeds the engine of your ambition.
And, of course, the greater the woman, the higher-octane the fuel.
End up "settling" for a woman who thinks "all men are dogs", and
you might as well fill your tank with tap water.
If she's the "jealous type", afraid of success or out to make your
lives miserable in some other way; pour a pound of sugar in the
tank with the tap water.
If you don't happen to be a "car guy", let's just say "don't try
that at home".
So yes...getting a great woman in your life is an amazing feat of
accomplishment. Make no mistake about it.
But in doing so, you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of where you'd be in just
about any aspect of life without her.
And you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of other guys who don't yet have that
partnership.
It happens at work, on the basketball court, and even in LIFE
EXPECTANCY. Statistics prove that happily married guys LIVE
LONGER.
Now listen up. I'm not telling you any of this to bum you out if
you haven't found a great woman just yet.
Quite the opposite, in fact. I want to ENCOURAGE you that the goal
you're looking at isn't only REACHABLE, but that the STAKES ARE
BIGGER than you perhaps have ever imagined.
In short, this is SO WORTH GETTING RIGHT because "The Leapfrog
Effect" is SO PROFOUND as to affect every single corner of your life.
So here it is. 2012 will be here in under 24 hours. Let's make
this year THE year.
In 2006 I made the same pact with myself. I was enjoying dating,
but it was time to move on to a life with the greatest woman I'd
ever met.
So you can do this. And I've got your back all the way.
I want to see YOU meet the greatest woman ever THIS YEAR,
and put "The Leapfrog Effect" into action for yourself.
The only question remaining is, do YOU want this bad enough to make
it happen?
If so, there's no stopping until the goal is reached. Period.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. You know, more dating experts and even PUA gurus than you
might think are married. Some are even PARENTS.
Yet, for some unknown reason they hide all that from their readers
...presumably because they think it'd "blow their cover". In their
minds all guys (including you) are interested ONLY in "getting
laid" and living a sort of Hugh Hefner-esque lifestyle forever.
Guys, don't kid yourself--what you are feeling in your soul to be
the right path (i.e. having a great woman in your life, having her
adore you, and leaving a legacy that really matters) is ABSOLUTELY
where it's at.
Be the "one percenter" who deserves what he wants and you will be a
happy man also. Don't think for a second that PUA training is any
substitute for that.
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