[X&Y] "Bad Boy", "Mr. Nice Guy" Or Some Other Option?
Published: Mon, 03/19/12
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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IN THIS EDITION: We're usually told that we should be a "Bad Boy"
instead of "Mr. Nice Guy". But for most of us, that's not in our
nature. Isn't there a better option?
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BECAUSE "AVERAGE" DOESN'T CUT IT
When it comes to women, some guys would be more than content to
achieve "average" results...especially if they've been on a long "dry
spell" lately.
But here's the problem: Even the "average" guy is NOT attracting
the women he really, truly wants. You can look around as you walk
around town and plainly see that.
In order to rise above merely being "average", you're going to need
to know what other guys DON'T know.
That way, you can get the women that other guys CAN'T.
Knowing how true this all really is, I've compiled over 100 of the
most closely-guarded secrets previously known only by the few and
the proud--the guys who are consistently attracting the most
desirable women on Earth:
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
I'm officially "retired" from meeting women these days having found
the woman of my dreams. So hey, I'm all about making it as easy as
possible for you to get your hands on these priceless secrets.
That's why for the next 24 hours the doors are still open on that
50% off promo for The Difference that I told you about yesterday.
Simply use the coupon code "secret50" when you get to the order
page, hit "recalculate" and elevate yourself to WAY above
average...all for less than the cost of just one bad date:
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
Remember, this coupon expires tomorrow at 5p EDT (GMT -4) and won't
be coming back for a while.
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"BAD BOY", "MR. NICE GUY", OR SOME OTHER OPTION?
By now, most of you all who are reading this (unless perhaps you
just now are showing up, in which case welcome) fully realize that
needy, wimpy "Nice Guys" get nowhere with women by supplicating,
capitulating and otherwise fulfilling upon various other big words
with small meanings.
Women dread the insincerity and manipulative tactics involved like
Emily's ldog Cosmo The Hairless Terrier dreads sunburn.
And much like Cosmo, guys who regularly do such silly stuff have no
game whatsoever. I mean, they may as well spin around in place
three or four times "turbo barking" like he does.
Even when Gracie (terrier hottie) is in "heat", she's unimpressed.
Actually, she can hardly bear to look.
On the flip side you have the "Bad Boys", the garden variety of
which are collectively known as "Idiot/Jerks" (or "I/J"s) around
these parts.
Yeppers, pardner. Some guys appear to be successful at attracting
certain women by with low self-esteem by ignoring and/or
mistreating them.
But as we have also learned, the particularly sharp women won't put
up with that for long either. Besides, misogynistic guys attract
man-haters like...well...like lunchtime attracts Cosmo. And that,
friends and neighbors, is the quintessential "lose/lose" for
"losers/losers".
But despite all these shenanigans of both the human and canine
varieties, we keep on living in this black/white universe where a
guy usually believes he has to be one or the other...and amazingly
the women buy into the false logic with an equal share.
Where it gets particularly troublesome is when--inevitably (we would
think)--some guys get kissed upside the head with the proverbial 2x4
and snap to it, saying, "Duh...hey...wait...uhh...THIS IS NOT WORKING!"
And then the breathtaking part: They try to fix things by (you
guessed it) trying "that other strategy".
So here we go... "Mr. Nice Guy" decides he's got to be "The Bad Boy"
to get the girl.
Have you ever seen a "recovering Mr. Nice Guy" kicking tires on a
Harley? It ain't pretty.
And it's even uglier when he BUYS the thing. Pigs and lipstick all
over again.
If you are manipulative and needy when you are "nice" about it,
nothing changes when you're "not nice" about it. Somewhere, one of
the particularly first-class women reading this newsletter is
agreeing with me: This picture is even more pathetic than the
"nice guy" was to begin with.
Simply put, if there was ever a shred of hope with the woman this
guy is so desperate to earn the attention of it just sprouted
wings. Majorly.
And elsewhere, there are at times "I/J" types who realize in a
moment of sweet epiphany that they've pushed too hard. The woman
has had enough, and has been driven to the edge of both sanity and
dignity.
She has experienced the great awakening of Deserving What She Wants
and will not tolerate the mistreatment any longer. Good for her.
And what does the "I/J" guy do? He decides it's time to make an
SOS call to the flower shop desperately hoping that two dozen rose
(in red, with "baby's breath", etc.) is enough. Time to "kiss up"
and "make nice".
Yeah, whatever.
Here's a hint: Flowers bought in an attempt to buy out a screw up
are wasted money. Women feel patronized and are likely to launch
that "special delivery" directly into the dumpster.
Sorry, guys. Once again, albeit in an alternate universe, you've
just sealed your certain doom as securely as "Harley Mounted
Milquetoast Boy" did.
Out of the frying pan and into the fire. As if the first
infraction wasn't heinous enough, Dude...you just had to yank the
whole charade into full-on DEFCON 1 didn't you?
Counter failure of one extreme by swinging the pendulum clear
across to the other. Call it "Double-Barreled Disaster". If you
manage to walk away from this one, it'll be bowlegged.
For some of you, what you are reading registers as first-hand
experience. Others of you may be contemplating (or even
attempting) such "reform" in your life.
How did we get here? Who decided that guys have to be caricatures
of one extreme or the other--"Bad Boys" or "Nice Guys"?
In the end, I don't really care how we got here any more than Cosmo
cares what brand of cheap beer I pour in his doggy dish.
All I care about is getting OUT. So to that end, here's an
original idea: How about being a GREAT MAN?
Maybe you've met him.
Unashamedly masculine. Confident. Respects himself and
appreciates women. Strong character. Fearless but not foolish.
Irresistibly sexual without forcing the issue.
He makes decisions and does what he says he's going to do, even if
he's not from Texas. There's never any need to swing to either
extreme. And importantly--write this down--the chicks dig him. They
just can't seem to find him around anymore. Let's hope they don't
forget how to recognize him.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
=====
WARNING: If you're frustrated by your lack of online dating
success, DO NOT QUIT. The secrets to meeting exactly the women
you want are here:
http://www.onlinedatingdomination.com/subscribers
Get ready to dominate your metro area on the online dating site
of your choice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly (and promptly) remove you from our mailing list.
"No games" doesn't only apply to dating around here.
=====
IN THIS EDITION: We're usually told that we should be a "Bad Boy"
instead of "Mr. Nice Guy". But for most of us, that's not in our
nature. Isn't there a better option?
=====
BECAUSE "AVERAGE" DOESN'T CUT IT
When it comes to women, some guys would be more than content to
achieve "average" results...especially if they've been on a long "dry
spell" lately.
But here's the problem: Even the "average" guy is NOT attracting
the women he really, truly wants. You can look around as you walk
around town and plainly see that.
In order to rise above merely being "average", you're going to need
to know what other guys DON'T know.
That way, you can get the women that other guys CAN'T.
Knowing how true this all really is, I've compiled over 100 of the
most closely-guarded secrets previously known only by the few and
the proud--the guys who are consistently attracting the most
desirable women on Earth:
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
I'm officially "retired" from meeting women these days having found
the woman of my dreams. So hey, I'm all about making it as easy as
possible for you to get your hands on these priceless secrets.
That's why for the next 24 hours the doors are still open on that
50% off promo for The Difference that I told you about yesterday.
Simply use the coupon code "secret50" when you get to the order
page, hit "recalculate" and elevate yourself to WAY above
average...all for less than the cost of just one bad date:
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
Remember, this coupon expires tomorrow at 5p EDT (GMT -4) and won't
be coming back for a while.
=====
"BAD BOY", "MR. NICE GUY", OR SOME OTHER OPTION?
By now, most of you all who are reading this (unless perhaps you
just now are showing up, in which case welcome) fully realize that
needy, wimpy "Nice Guys" get nowhere with women by supplicating,
capitulating and otherwise fulfilling upon various other big words
with small meanings.
Women dread the insincerity and manipulative tactics involved like
Emily's ldog Cosmo The Hairless Terrier dreads sunburn.
And much like Cosmo, guys who regularly do such silly stuff have no
game whatsoever. I mean, they may as well spin around in place
three or four times "turbo barking" like he does.
Even when Gracie (terrier hottie) is in "heat", she's unimpressed.
Actually, she can hardly bear to look.
On the flip side you have the "Bad Boys", the garden variety of
which are collectively known as "Idiot/Jerks" (or "I/J"s) around
these parts.
Yeppers, pardner. Some guys appear to be successful at attracting
certain women by with low self-esteem by ignoring and/or
mistreating them.
But as we have also learned, the particularly sharp women won't put
up with that for long either. Besides, misogynistic guys attract
man-haters like...well...like lunchtime attracts Cosmo. And that,
friends and neighbors, is the quintessential "lose/lose" for
"losers/losers".
But despite all these shenanigans of both the human and canine
varieties, we keep on living in this black/white universe where a
guy usually believes he has to be one or the other...and amazingly
the women buy into the false logic with an equal share.
Where it gets particularly troublesome is when--inevitably (we would
think)--some guys get kissed upside the head with the proverbial 2x4
and snap to it, saying, "Duh...hey...wait...uhh...THIS IS NOT WORKING!"
And then the breathtaking part: They try to fix things by (you
guessed it) trying "that other strategy".
So here we go... "Mr. Nice Guy" decides he's got to be "The Bad Boy"
to get the girl.
Have you ever seen a "recovering Mr. Nice Guy" kicking tires on a
Harley? It ain't pretty.
And it's even uglier when he BUYS the thing. Pigs and lipstick all
over again.
If you are manipulative and needy when you are "nice" about it,
nothing changes when you're "not nice" about it. Somewhere, one of
the particularly first-class women reading this newsletter is
agreeing with me: This picture is even more pathetic than the
"nice guy" was to begin with.
Simply put, if there was ever a shred of hope with the woman this
guy is so desperate to earn the attention of it just sprouted
wings. Majorly.
And elsewhere, there are at times "I/J" types who realize in a
moment of sweet epiphany that they've pushed too hard. The woman
has had enough, and has been driven to the edge of both sanity and
dignity.
She has experienced the great awakening of Deserving What She Wants
and will not tolerate the mistreatment any longer. Good for her.
And what does the "I/J" guy do? He decides it's time to make an
SOS call to the flower shop desperately hoping that two dozen rose
(in red, with "baby's breath", etc.) is enough. Time to "kiss up"
and "make nice".
Yeah, whatever.
Here's a hint: Flowers bought in an attempt to buy out a screw up
are wasted money. Women feel patronized and are likely to launch
that "special delivery" directly into the dumpster.
Sorry, guys. Once again, albeit in an alternate universe, you've
just sealed your certain doom as securely as "Harley Mounted
Milquetoast Boy" did.
Out of the frying pan and into the fire. As if the first
infraction wasn't heinous enough, Dude...you just had to yank the
whole charade into full-on DEFCON 1 didn't you?
Counter failure of one extreme by swinging the pendulum clear
across to the other. Call it "Double-Barreled Disaster". If you
manage to walk away from this one, it'll be bowlegged.
For some of you, what you are reading registers as first-hand
experience. Others of you may be contemplating (or even
attempting) such "reform" in your life.
How did we get here? Who decided that guys have to be caricatures
of one extreme or the other--"Bad Boys" or "Nice Guys"?
In the end, I don't really care how we got here any more than Cosmo
cares what brand of cheap beer I pour in his doggy dish.
All I care about is getting OUT. So to that end, here's an
original idea: How about being a GREAT MAN?
Maybe you've met him.
Unashamedly masculine. Confident. Respects himself and
appreciates women. Strong character. Fearless but not foolish.
Irresistibly sexual without forcing the issue.
He makes decisions and does what he says he's going to do, even if
he's not from Texas. There's never any need to swing to either
extreme. And importantly--write this down--the chicks dig him. They
just can't seem to find him around anymore. Let's hope they don't
forget how to recognize him.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
=====
WARNING: If you're frustrated by your lack of online dating
success, DO NOT QUIT. The secrets to meeting exactly the women
you want are here:
http://www.onlinedatingdomination.com/subscribers
Get ready to dominate your metro area on the online dating site
of your choice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly (and promptly) remove you from our mailing list.
"No games" doesn't only apply to dating around here.