[X&Y] When Everything Female Loves You
Published: Wed, 01/30/08
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IN THIS EDITION: Why is it that some guys just naturally attract
women while other guys feel the need to memorize routines, openers
and any other trick they can find? You want practical answers, and
far be it from me to disappoint.
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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS
MORE "HIGH QUALITY PROBLEMS"
Scot, how's it going? So this weekend I went on a hike with a
friend and a bunch of her friends (whom I didn't know).
I hit it off amazingly with a girl. Halfway though the hike, one of
the guys refers to her as 'babe' and only then did I realize they
were a couple... I mean, this girl was flirting with me the whole
time up until then.
I even pulled a "Superman" with her by catching her when she'd lost
her balance and was going to take a nasty 50 foot drop. It was, as
you put it, "movie quality" stuff.
So after I realize they're together I give her room and start
hanging out with some of the other people on the trip. But for the
last 1/4 of the hike, she was back--and she'd been the one to come
to me.
Over the last two years I've become the kind of guy with "quality
problems'" such as this one (much of the credit for that goes to
you). I have options, I'm not desperate, and I don't want to break
them up--that's out of the question. I would, however, like to keep
my foot in the door, per se. Any suggestions?
P.S. You've helped me a bunch over the last year or so. I think
you've answered about 3 or 4 of my emails extensively. I'm in
college, and I don't have a lot of pocket change, but I'd love to
actually buy some of your advanced material. What program would
you suggest I look into?
Emilio (Gallup, NM)
Emilio:
Ah yes...a "high quality problem" indeed. Perhaps yours could
arguably be considered the "highest quality problem" possible,
which I'll elaborate upon.
But first things first: You are absolutely correct in not wanting
to break them up.
To do that would openly demonstrate a distinct lack of character.
Ultimately, lacking character is one of the most POISONOUS ways to
kill your ability to deserve great women. It has a way of catching
up with you...like eating a dozen Krispy Kremes a day for a few weeks
in a row.
Nonetheless, and perhaps ironically, you're going to find that as
you become more and more of the kind of man who represents to women
what they really want you'll see situations like this more and more.
I've been kicking around a certain concept for a while, and it's
one so unique that it's a challenge to make it relatable to most
guys. Nonetheless, I'm going to share it with you because I think
you'll "get it".
Here we go...
When you become a masculine man who ignites femininity, something
bizarre and at times even flat-out creepy happens. For lack of a
more subtle description, EVERYTHING FEMALE starts loving you.
And this doesn't necessarily have to be an overtly sexual thing.
Girl's moms love you. Grandmas love you. Your two-year old twin
nieces love you. Hell, in my life Emily's DOG (who's female) even
loves me. She's horribly jealous of Emily.
There's just something about A MAN IN HER PRESENCE that FEMININE
WOMEN cannot resist.
This, among other things, is why little girls need dads. When my
daughter was very young, she'd greet me when I came home from work
by racing to the door and literally leaping upward into my arms.
With every fiber of her being she trusted that I would catch her...
which I did, every single time.
Given even minimal thought, all of this makes perfect sense. A
REAL MAN brings an aura of safety and protection. He conveys a
sense of order and purpose.
He knows what he believes. And since his character is built on
that solid foundation he is consistent, trustworthy and reliable to
"deploy" with impeccable precision.
Simply put, when a MAN is around women feel real comfort. They
know that things will be "handled".
Fear evaporates. Bitterness and frustration are forgotten.
As such, they feel secure and able to convey the warmth and joy
that they so want the freedom to both enjoy and give away...probably
TO YOU.
And yes...the combination of all those things is also what drives
intense sexual attraction when appropriate...accompanied by the
freedom to express it and newfound passion in doing so. Nice.
This female friend of yours really couldn't help being drawn to
you. After all, you consistently demonstrated a textbook example
of what I've described above...even LITERALLY when saving her from a
disastrous misstep.
The "problem" is hers and her boyfriend's, frankly. You are who
you are, and make no apologies. What...were you going to let her
FALL 50'?
Of course not.
And where was her boyfriend when she most needed him, anyway?
Order. Safety. CHARACTER.
You mentioned "Superman", and that's a valid analogy. Women want a
HERO.
You've provided a clear demonstration, and I've now elaborated the
concept in words that any man can understand.
So as for keeping the door open, don't even worry about it. You
need not act in any "shady" or underhanded way trying to "steal
her" from her boyfriend or something...either directly OR indirectly.
When she breaks up with this guy (which may be sooner than later
now that she can put a finger on what's lacking there) she'll come
find you. There's no need to push the issue.
In the mean time, it sounds to me like you are in complete control
and hold all the options.
Considering where you are, in answer to your request I'd recommend
reading How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life. You'll
enjoy it because you'll relate to it and love how it reads like a
launching pad to unimagined levels of success with women.
You can grab a copy of that by visiting the link to our store at
the top of this newsletter.
Be Good,
Scot
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Reading Emilio's story and my response to it, my guess is that you
couldn't help but imagine what it would be like to be in a position
like his.
I mean, come on--with all of the focus on "pickup" an "openers"
elsewhere in the Seduction Community, stories like this serve to
completely flip much of the material you've been reading out there
right over on its side...probably scattering loose papers everywhere,
right?
Seriously. If you are like most guys nowadays, the concept of having
a woman seek out your company first pretty much fries your circuits.
But see, Emilio was able to attract a woman who (unbeknownst to
him) even had her BOYFRIEND with her because he was HER HERO. By
understanding what REAL MASCULINITY is about, the woman was IGNITED.
As I said, she really couldn't help it. Emilio isn't about getting
his jollies by "AMOGging" some guy's girlfriend. But when she
dumps the chump who "failed to deploy" (and rightly so), she'll
know where to find him.
The truth is that the world is SORELY LACKING in men who "get it"
these days. Yet, the great women are STARVING for guys who do.
Can you be that guy?
Can you "unwire" the programming that comes from either "Mr. Nice
Guy" brainwashing OR "dark side" tactics that dehumanize women?
After all, what does a great man want with waffle irons...err
women...who will succumb to such manipulation?
It's time to start getting exactly the HIGH QUALITY women you WANT
MOST in your life. The kind who are feminine, emotionally stable
and happy to offer you unsolicited approval...not to mention sexy
enough to stop traffic.
You do this by DESERVING WHAT IT IS YOU WANT. And then, you build
upon that by gaining FULL UNDERSTANDING of how to attain and manage
a WILDLY SUCCESSFUL dating life where YOU have the power...and the
OPTIONS.
What would be GREAT is if there was a CLEAR ROADMAP to getting
there...free of unnecessary "detours".
As always, I've got your back.
Right now, I've set everything up for you to get ALL THREE OF MY
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Forget flowers, candy and "kissing up".
It's time to learn the secrets to ramping up a woman's attraction
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And right now, I'm even rolling in SEVEN BONUSES...including some
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You can even get your hands on that latest Power Session on REAL
CONFIDENCE (we're talking practical steps here) as part of the
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I've made it easy for you. Now all you have to do is take the
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Until I talk to you next time, be sure to visit the blog (the
link's at the top of this e-mail). I've got a brand new video up,
and will be posting an OUTRAGEOUS online dating success strategy in
a day or two that involves utilizing a feature found on most mobile
phones (no, it's not the camera). You'll also discover a foolproof
way to write a narrative that JUMPS off the page.
Oh...and there was a brand-new X & Y On The Fly unleashed last night
also...it's on iTunes. Enjoy!
Be Good,
Scot
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