[X&Y] Six Ways To Tell If She's Psycho
Published: Tue, 05/06/08
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IN THIS EDITION: I'm getting lots of emails from guys who are
wondering if decidedly erratic or downright crazy behavior on the
part of women in their lives is "normal". Once and for all, here
are a half dozen ways to tell if she is up to something that there
is no real way to "rationalize".
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ARE YOU RATIONALIZING A WOMAN'S IRRATIONAL BEHAVIOR?
If you know me, you know by now that I generally write POSITIVE
emails. I talk a lot about how to become a better man who gets
better women. In my mind, that's what it's all about.
Today, I'm going to write to you about women I'm POSITIVE you
should be avoiding.
But first, a caveat. I've been driven to the point of having to
write this, really.
You see, I've seen this disturbing trend going on with the e-mails
and phone calls I've been getting lately. Guys are weighing in
with stories of flat-out PREPOSTEROUS behavior from women and
asking me if it's "normal".
No, dude. When you tell a woman on the phone that you need some
extra time to think about an exclusive relationship at 10pm the
night before, you're NOT supposed to wake up at 5am the morning
after to her standing on your bed, straddling you with a butcher's
knife in her hands.
And that goes double if you've never given her a key to your apartment.
And it goes TRIPLE if you've never told her where you live.
No. That's not "normal" behavior. And yes, that was an actual
story from an actual guy wondering if he should actually excuse her
for such a "minor infraction".
And let me tell you...that's just one of MANY, MANY examples I've
been hearing lately.
Yet, shockingly, the recurring theme is that guys are attempting to
RATIONALIZE behavior like that...wondering if they should just pass
it off as either a fluke or something that they should simply
expect from women in general.
I don't care how good she looks, gentlemen. All women are NOT
stark raving nuts.
And there's no coming to terms with women who are.
Rationalizing equals SETTLING. And in this case, the particular
brand of settling you are dealing in could have particularly
devastating ramifications if left unchecked.
So here it is guys, but only because it appears to be necessary:
"Six Ways To Tell She's Psycho", or "A Half-Dozen Types Of Behavior
That Are Irrational".
1) If She'd Already Be In Jail Were She A Man
The vignette I shared above is a shining example of what I'm
talking about here. If you are attempting to rationalize behavior
on a woman's part that you are sure would have landed you in the
slammer for a night (or longer), then you're not thinking clearly
yourself.
Whether it's assault, shoplifting, public drunkenness or WHATEVER,
the root cause of your rationalization is probably a deep-seated
feeling that male behavior is BAD behavior, and that women are born
with a halo that protects them from legal consequences.
Well, last I checked there was only one code of law. I've never
known there to be distinctions between male and female infractions.
Ask yourself, if a guy ever did what happened here to a woman, how
would I feel about it? What should his consequences be? Then,
realize the yardstick measures equally regardless of gender.
2) If You're Personal Safety Is Jeopardized
If you go to bed at night thinking she might kill you in your
sleep, and if you're considering hiring a "royal taster" to make
sure she isn't poisoning your tea, I'd say there's a very real
issue...obviously.
This also holds true if she has plate-throwing fits of rage like a
scene from "The Godfather".
Dude, so maybe you messed up and gave her reasonable grounds to get
upset. That doesn't mean she gets to be utterly violent about it
and/or vindictive over the long term.
For the record, I'd probably lump "terrifying driving habits" into
this category also.
3) Extreme Double Standards
She has a couple hundred "really, really good guy friends" with
whom she's decidedly got the "touchy/feelies" for.
When you casually bring up that you felt disrespected at that last
house party, she levels a stream of invective upon you that would
make the most raging alcoholic jealous. (Oh yeah, "raging alcoholism"
counts as "psycho" also)
Meanwhile, you can't even remember the "waitress that was flirting
with you" five weeks ago while at lunch as some Mexican restaurant
you no longer recall the name of. But today she decided your live
should be miserable because of her...whoever she was.
4) Compulsive Behavior
Something out-of-line happened and now she has called you 147 times
between midnight and 6am. She's sorry. She's wondering if you
still love her.
And you're wondering if this is "normal".
Look man, if EVERY woman called us 147 times in a six hour period
NOTHING would ever have been accomplished by now over the entire
history of mankind. Hell, we'd still be playing with sticks and
rocks.
Never mind that last point is obviated by the fact we wouldn't have
invented the telephone. You get my point.
It's not like "147" is the "magic number", either. The first call
could be all the evidence you need.
One guy called me this very morning to ask me if a woman calling at
3am "just to see if he was home" was "normal".
By the way, he called me at a reasonable hour in case you can't help
but wonder.
But anyway, If something like this ever happens to you, say this:
"OK, I've got a deal for you. YOU promise NEVER to call me at 3am
like that again, and I'LL promise not to answer the phone."
Sounds like a fair deal to me.
5) Massive Swings
No, not the ones they have on the beach at Spring Break. What
we're talking about here is "Jekyll And Hyde Syndrome".
Maybe she hasn't been formally diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder just
yet, but that doesn't change the fact that you have NO IDEA which
chick is going to show up at any given time.
One minute she's a sweetheart. The next, she's livid and screaming
at you. You're afraid to look because there might be snakes sticking
out of her head.
Whoa...I promise this is NOT what EVERY woman is like.
And it's not a "given" that you should put up with it, either. In
fact, quite the opposite.
6) Utterly Unreasonable Accusations Or Assumptions
You've been out for a whopping total of ten minutes filling the
tank in your pickup truck to get ready for your road trip this
weekend. You walk back into the house and she accuses you of
having been to see your "girlfriend" and have sex with her.
Or...she freaks out and tells you to remove the satellites,
"invisible" radio towers and/or hidden microphones from her
apartment that you are obviously using to spy on her and broadcast
movies of her naked in the shower to a global audience.
Nope...I'm not making those up either. True stories from a guy who
rationalized them--namely me, many years ago!
Guys, if you are with a woman who demonstrates clear signs of
living in an alternate reality you must realize that you are a
witness to clear signs of a very serious mental illness.
DO NOT under any circumstances allow yourself to become entangled in
a serious relationship with such a woman, regardless of how much of
a hottie she is. In fact, I'd highly recommend alerting her family
to her erratic behavior and helping her get some professional
help...seriously.
I genuinely hope that you've never had to face any situations
remotely like the ones I've just described. But then again, I know
better based on the volume of stories I hear.
Here's the bottom line, as always: Men and women are more ALIKE
than DIFFERENT. What would be irrational on your part is equally
irrational on hers.
Neither invite nor excuse this sort of instability when it comes to
the women in your life. Deserve what you want.
If you feel like you are being literally blown and tossed by the
wind when it comes to the women in your life, I'd HIGHLY recommend
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Take me up on that live phone session that comes as a part of the
package too, will you? It's always good to hear from you.
I'll be talking to you again soon.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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