[X&Y] So, Are They All Just Teasing Us, Or What?
Published: Sun, 07/13/08
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IN THIS EDITION: A common thread in many guys' minds is, "If
women aren't really interested in sex, then why do they dress they
way they do?" Today we're going to decode that whole concept once
and for all...and the truth might surprise you.
But first, a MAJOR announcement:
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THE X & Y COMMUNICATIONS TEAM IS EXPANDING
To better serve you, I've selected a team of contributing
consultants who will be joining the official X & Y Communications
team of instructors.
After a process of identifying those who are both talented at relating
to women and passionate about imparting their knowledge to others,
I will be announcing their names and formally introducing them to you
on our blog this coming week.
You can expect each new instructor to bring an original voice and a
unique perspective that is very much in line with ourcharacter-based
overall approach. This will begin with regular content on the blog, then
branching out in other ways sooner than later.
I look forward to greatly enriching your experience as a reader
and/or listener in the process. More later...
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SO, ARE THEY ALL JUST TEASING US, OR WHAT?
I think it's human nature to consider what's happening in our
lives, and either assume or simply hope that our experience is
common to everyone.
Take for example the concept of whether or not women really enjoy
sex.
For guys who would like to be physical with a woman, but are as yet
unsuccessful at doing so, the easiest assumption to make is that
women must not enjoy sex at all.
Certainly, this is the conventional wisdom among "average
frustrated chumps" (or AFCs) everywhere, right?
I mean, you walk down the street and women LOOK amazing but seem to
be ACTING asexually, if you get right down to it.
You don't see them giving us any clear signs that we should
approach them, let alone making any "bold moves" that would suggest
they're up for anything sexual at all.
In fact, the only place you ARE likely to see women advertising
sexuality in a remotely "public" way is on some porn website or at
the local strip club.
All this, of course, fuels the market for books and programs
specifically designed to teach guys how to pick up strippers.
After all, if they're the only ones DEMONSTRATING sexual openness
in one's neighborhood, then they must be the only ones who ARE
sexually open, right?
And surely, then, they represent a guy's best chance at "getting
some", right?
The multitude of other women out there? Well they must all be part
of the supposed majority who just play "keep away" from men,
manipulating them with empty sexual promises just to get what they
want their whole lives...at our expense as guys. Right?
And worse, some of them even have the audacity to PRESENT
THEMSELVES in a way that causes us to become completely wadded up
in frustration. The bikinis and sundresses this time of year
especially are flat-out tantalizing.
So it's easy for a guy who isn't experiencing the success he wants
with women to automatically assume that women are just "teasing"
us.
And the darkest result that can come from that thought progression
is we begin to truly become BITTER and RESENT women.
But guess what? In most cases, it's NOT their problem.
The truth, which can be either GOOD news or BAD news if you let it,
is that the vast majority of women out there ARE indeed VERY, VERY
sexual beings.
And that's not all.
There's also even BETTER or WORSE news, depending on how you look
at it: It's up to US AS GUYS to ignite that feminine sexuality.
Like TNT, the fuse isn't going to light itself.
Imagine stepping out on the tarmac at LAX, London Gatwick, Atlanta
Hartsfield or whichever airport is close to you and finding a
Boeing 737-800.
It's clean, freshly fueled up and even retrofitted with those cool
new "winglets". Although silent and stationary at the moment, it
WANTS to fly.
But if I sit behind the controls of the thing, it probably isn't
going to go anywhere. It's not that I'm a worthless, powerless
human being. Mostly it's because I don't have a pilot's license,
let alone a class one instrument rating.
To spell it out in plain English (or is that "plane English?") it's
not the plane's FAULT I can't fly it.
And if I want it to stop TEASING me badly enough, then I ought to
do what it takes to get a pilot's license.
Now every one of us on Earth, man or woman, has our own
idiosyncrasies. But generally speaking, most women are a lot like
that 737.
And unfortunately, most of them are--at best--parked on the tarmac
wanting to FLY.
But nothing is going to happen until someone worthy of making that
happen steps up.
Unfortunately for everyone involved, most guys don't ever learn
what it takes to ignite a woman's femininity.
Instead, they either approach her as if walking up to the nosewheel
of that 737 and commanding it to "fly", or they just give up and
don't even bother.
Either way, the truth doesn't change. The 737 is designed and
equipped to fly, and very well I might add.
So how do you get to the point where you have the "credentials" to
be the man who brings out a woman's natural feminine sexuality?
The good news is you have the power within you RIGHT NOW, simply by
virtue of having been born a man.
But you DO need to wake up your understanding of what it means to
be a masculine, confident man of character who can in turn INSPIRE
a woman's confidence in you...especially at the SEXUAL level.
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