[X&Y] Meeting And Attracting Younger Women
Published: Mon, 09/29/08
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IN THIS EDITION: After a very busy month, I'm taking a couple of
days to recharge. While I'm doing that, I've asked my friend Dean
Cortez from M.A.C.K. Tactics to sit in for me on this newsletter.
If you've thought about dating younger women, you're in for
something good.
If, on the other hand, you're still a young guy and wondering why
women your own age keep going after older men, you're about to be
handed a GOLDEN SECRET. If you can bottle this up and take a sip,
you'll be in a truly RARE position to succeed with women.
Enjoy...
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MEETING AND ATTRACTING YOUNGER WOMEN
By Dean Cortez
Let's be honest. What guy over age thirty or so doesn't at least at
some point fantasize about dating sexy, fun, younger women?
The problem is, most guys reach a certain age and start to think
that younger hotties are no longer an option.
In fact, many guys in their 30s have already convinced themselves
that women who are even 5 or 10 years younger are "out of reach".
When men mature into their 40s and 50s this mentality becomes more
common.
Of course they still dream of dating younger women. But they limit
their dating options to women closer to their own age--who often
have more "baggage" than Paris Hilton coming home after an all-day
shopping spree.
Granted, age is only a number. And there are some great women of
all ages.
But it's for that very same reason, ironically enough, that if
you're in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, it's time to destroy the myth
that you can only get women very close to your own age.
There are ways for you to use your maturity, sophistication,
knowledge, and life experience as a huge tactical ADVANTAGE. There
are super-effective strategies for you to use the "age gap" as a
massively ATTRACTIVE quality!
You may not realize it, but you possess tools right now that
younger women find extremely appealing...and that younger guys DON'T
have going for them.
But 95% of men go through life NEVER understanding how to tap into
these tools and use them.
They think that only rich guys and celebrities can enjoy the
company of younger women...the kinds of girls that get stared at by
other men everywhere they go.
Well, this simply is not true. In fact, it really isn't money or
fame that causes younger women to be drawn to older guys. It's
maturity, groundedness, and a level of wisdom that most younger
guys can't yet touch.
When you get right down to it, it's our own limiting beliefs and
perceptions about "what women want" looping over and over in our
head that keep us as older guys from succeeding with younger women.
So here are a few tips you can start using right now...
Don't try to conceal your age. If she's obviously younger than you,
ASK HER how old she is.
When she replies, turn this into a recurring THEME throughout the
conversation: that you're ___ years old, and she's ___ years old,
and you've normally dated girls who are "older and more experienced"
than she is.
Yes, you should actually say it: "You're cute and I can tell
there's more to you than meets the eye, but I don't know if this
could work out. I've normally dated women who are older and more
sophisticated."
See what you're doing there? Make her measure up to YOUR
standards! Instead of trying to IMPRESS this younger chick, make
her feel she needs to IMPRESS YOU if she's going to get to be with
a guy of your age and life experience.
For example, when you meet a younger woman you might mention a
classic movie or a song you heard on the radio today by one of your
favorite classic rock bands.
Or it could be an artist who had an exhibition you checked out...a
well-known restaurant...a bottle of wine...a trip you recently took to
Europe...this could be ANYTHING that establishes that you are a
smart, sophisticated guy.
You are establishing that a guy your age KNOWS about cool,
interesting things that guys her own age are not even AWARE of.
Chances are, she won't be familiar with what you're talking about.
Then, you flip it to your advantage and make your age and
experience feel like a reason she NEEDS a guy like you:
"Melissa (assuming for now that's her name), I can't believe you've
never experienced a great Malbec before. I can tell there are a
lot of things I'm going to need to introduce you to..."
You're laying the foundation for an ongoing relationship. There are
all kinds of things, and places, that you're going to SHOW this
woman.
A cool result of this is that now you can come up with all sorts of
creative date ideas.
Why revert to the unimaginative (or even awkward) "dinner and a
movie" date? You can take her to see some live music, or to an art
gallery, or show her a DVD of a classic movie at YOUR place...
More importantly, the "subtext" of telling her what I just shared
is that you are a man who can add VALUE to her life.
She is going to learn about cool, exciting things and places by
spending time with a guy like YOU. Best of all, it'll be in a way
that most--if not all--younger guys CAN'T TOUCH.
Women, as you probably know, mature faster than men. What you may
NOT have considered is that this goes way deeper than physical
maturity. The average 25-year-old woman is ready for a LOT MORE
than what a 25-year-old guy can provide.
That's just one tip out of the hundreds in the new Dating Younger
Women program I've compiled for you together with Ron Louis.
Once you've broken the ice, the many experts who contributed to this
program (including my friend Scot McKay) explain how to manage
conversations so that younger women will always try to impress YOU
and measure up to YOUR standards.
It's actually easy to "turn the tables" and be in control of every
conversation you have with younger women. You'll actually have
girls COMPETING for your attention and trying to get YOU more
interested in them.
Here's to dating, and feeling, younger!
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
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Thanks to my man Dean Cortez for sitting in for me today. By the
way, it was a blast to be a part of his new Dating Younger Women
program.
Those of you who have been reading this newsletter for a while
likely know where I weigh in on the subject, so let's just say that
I contributed an hour's worth of pretty original content to the mix.
And with a dozen or so other guys on board representing just about
every viewpoint in the world of men's dating and seduction advice,
you can bet that just about every angle is covered in there also.
Having read Dean's words today about setting the tone for
relationships with younger women, if you are over 30 or so you're
probably ready for more specifics about how to make younger women
feel powerfully attracted to you.
If so, this program is designed to put all of the pieces of that
puzzle together for you.
So check it out...the Dating Younger Women program is a unique one:
http://macktactics.com/ezGaffurl.php?offer=xandycom&pid=6
It includes a full 240-page book that gives you a step-by-step
blueprint for becoming massively attractive to younger women and
elevating your lifestyle in every sense.
Since Dating Younger Women is brand new, Dean and Ron are giving
away a bunch of excellent bonus products for free...and my
understanding is this isn't forever.
If all that sounds like EXACTLY what you're looking for, then you
probably know it already. If so, here's the link:
http://macktactics.com/ezGaffurl.php?offer=xandycom&pid=6
I'll be back next time, completely refreshed and ready to tackle
one of the BEST QUESTIONS ever, which I recently received from one
of you...
Be Good,
Scot
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