[X&Y] Highway Game: Meet Women While Driving
Published: Tue, 11/18/08
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IN THIS EDITION: How many times have you been in your car and seen
a woman in the next lane over who you'd LOVE to meet?
If you're like me, that answer is about "a million".
And so...how many times have you ever actually MET a woman that way?
If you're like most guys, the answer is probably "a zero". Let's
change that...
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And now, let's hit the highway and meet some women...
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HIGHWAY GAME: MEET WOMEN WHILE DRIVING
Ever seen a hottie in another car while driving and wondered how to
actually meet her?
I think we all have. Amazingly, though, this is yet another topic
I've never seen discussed much at all...let alone in the Seduction
Community.
So let's do something about that.
Now, don't get me wrong. I fully get why hardly anyone has even
attempted to address how to meet women while driving. It's NOT EASY.
In fact, it's replete with challenges that go way, way beyond
normal approach and pickup.
After all, going up and talking to women who are standing ten feet
in front of you is hard enough, let alone when they're sequestered
in moving vehicles.
I mean "approaching" in this case could result in a fender-bender
if her car is actually MOVING, considering your attention is
likely...um...not on the road at that moment.
Besides, even if a woman's car is NOT MOVING at the moment, it's
not like you can carry a conversation with her with all that space,
metal and glass between you.
Or can you?
Well, here's the deal. I think you can.
But fair warning: Before you proceed any further, you're going to
have to check your natural instincts at the door, ignore the "dork
warning alarm" possibly going off in your head, and--most of
all--grow a pair.
Choose to follow those steps along the rest I'm about to share and
you could open up a brand new venue for meeting women that has
unlimited possibilities.
Or, you could keep doing what you're doing...and always be left
wondering what that chick in the next car was really like.
So let's cover the basics first.
Beyond a shadow of a doubt, the optimal place to notice a potential
hottie in traffic and get her attention is at a red light. That
is, when your cars have actually STOPPED MOVING.
This means you can indeed safely take your eyes off the road and
try to get her attention without causing a multi-car pile up.
Personally, I think there are more productive uses for killer auto
insurance than that.
So here's rule number one: THERE IS NO TIME FOR "INDIRECT GAME".
Forget subtlety. Either you take a measured risk and throw it all
out on the table, or that light is going to turn green while you're
still fumbling over an "opener".
All you really should "open" here is your WINDOW, preferably after
pulling up directly next to her.
By the way, pull up to her PASSENGER SIDE if you can. She'll be
able to see you better, hear you better, and match your lip
movements to the words for better understanding just in case...but
only if YOU are the one closer to your own respective window.
Granted, getting a better look at her might very well be on your
agenda, and that'll indeed take a potential hit here compared to if
you had pulled up to her driver's side instead.
But even if you haven't had a chance to notice her prior to the red
light, what I've recommended here is the better way to go.
Think about it.
Pulling up to her passenger side even has the slight advantage of
increasing her comfort level a bit.
Women are always considering their own personal safety, and rolling
up on her driver's side takes away the "buffer zone" of her
passenger seat and positions you just a bit too close for comfort.
In other words, were I a "car-jacker" (which I'm not), I'd probably
roll up on the driver's side. So would an actual "car-jacker".
The fact that YOU are then harder for HER to see from that
perspective plays into the "security factor" also, definitely.
So given the choice, let her see YOU more clearly.
If you think about it, either you OR her having a convertible on a
nice day here is a definite advantage, isn't it? I bet women in
convertibles get TONS more attention in traffic.
A caveat though: Please don't buy some "girl car" like a VW Beetle
convertible or a Mazda Miata expressly for this purpose. It could
backfire. Masculine convertibles are hard to come by. If you
must, think "Jeep" instead of "BMW" and you'll be on the right
track.
So with "positioning" in order, here are the steps.
First, grab your cell phone.
Next, roll the window down.
Get the "I'm going to kill somebody" scowl off your face, relax,
and instead find the "wry smile" you've been practicing in the
mirror.
If she doesn't look over at you naturally, give the WORLD'S
SLIGHTEST TAP on the horn. No leaning on the horn here, please,
gentlemen.
Repeat that last step if necessary. Resist the urge to blare the
horn louder and/or for a longish time if a second try is required.
Then, when she looks over, motion with her hand to "roll down the
window".
Forget that hardly any cars have roll-down windows anymore. That's
the universally understood signal for the desired result.
Just like I'm still telling my kid that trains are "choo-choos"
even though they've been diesels for sixty years, some things just
aren't going to change.
She'll likely look at you quizzically, or even laugh.
If she doesn't open the window at first, give her that "slow nod
with the slowly closing eyes" look that says, "it's okay, just do
it" while making the "rolling" motion a bit more slowly and
deliberately.
Maybe some day I'll make a YouTube vid demonstrating this concept,
but probably not so don't hold your breath. I think you know what
I'm talking about.
When she rolls down the window, which she likely will, consider
yourself to have FIFTEEN SECONDS...max.
Hold up your cell phone and say, "Wow...you and I should talk. Give
me your cell phone number."
Do this in as cordial and non-threatening a manner as you can while
still enunciating clearly and speaking loudly enough to be heard.
Also note you are NOT ASKING for her number. You are TAKING THE
LEAD and telling her to give it to you.
Not only is this more likely to get the desired result, it actually
saves time associated with her mulling the "options" of saying yes
or no.
I have no idea why that is true, but it is. Let's just chalk it up
to how women are hard-wired to follow a man's lead.
Remember to keep the positive demeanor up if and when she says,
"What?" The probability of that happening is surprisingly likely
even if you state your request rather than asking.
Rolling your eyes or sighing in frustration here is a mood-killer,
so don't do it.
Simply repeat your request. She knows what you said.
It's just that she's just in a mild state of shock. Bold guys like
you don't come along often, even though she wishes they did.
When she responds with her number, listen VERY closely to the
digits, and REMEMBER THEM. Importantly, do not attempt to enter
them into your phone while she tells them to you.
The human brain can actually commit a string of up to seven digits
to short-term memory easily. Try this sometime...it's much easier to
remember seven than even eight numbers.
Once you have her number, your MAIN GOAL is to repeat the number to
yourself until you have it securely entered into your phone.
I believe it's even arguable that you should say ANYTHING to her
after getting the number...even "thanks" or "I'll call you". Any
human being who can fog a mirror should know what comes next...a
phone call.
If you can manage a quick wink or nod, fine. But don't let that
distract you from remembering that phone number. Don't even worry
about rolling the window back up yet.
At that point, I'm 99.9% positive that the light will have turned
green, and that you're more than likely first in line. I get all
that.
So what? Make the cars behind you wait an extra ten seconds and
ENTER THE NUMBER.
This is a "movie moment" happening her, so let the cigar-chewing
taxi drivers and/or soccer moms back there honk at you. They'll
get over it.
Blowing her phone number would be worse than a few "honks" blowing
their horn at you.
She'll likely be ahead of you in traffic at that point.
Take down her license plate and run a background check on her.
Only kidding.
Actually, you should CALL HER. DO IT RIGHT THEN.
DO NOT wait the "customary three days". Ridiculously obvious? Of
course it is, but then again I'm also very aware of some of the
wack teaching I'm up against out there.
She'd better answer. After all, it's not like she shouldn't be
expecting a call.
If you get voice mail, though, answer with "Hello, this is the
[insert her car manufacturer here] Motor Company with an important
recall notice. It seems your particular model is particularly
susceptible to being rolled up beside at red lights by
devastatingly handsome guys with particularly good taste."
Then proceed with, "...Actually, this is [name]. My number is
[number]. Call me back."
Rest assured, she knows you're the one who she just met at the red
light.
If the call does indeed go to voice mail, assume for now that she's
either shy or overwhelmed and needed some time to pull herself
together after all that excitement a couple of minutes ago. That's
a safe bet, actually.
And if she answers? Simple. Introduce yourself and tell her your
name. Proceed as you would any other time you are talking to a
woman whose number you got anywhere else.
If you're at a loss there, call me or e-mail me. We've talked
about that all before, and space is too limited here to cover it
all again.
So that's how you master meeting women at red lights.
I know what you're asking. What about on the highway...like when
there are no stop lights?
Look, I fully get that no matter what I tell you about "traffic
safety", you're going to see women on the Interstate and try to
talk to them anyway.
Still, the ultimate strategy here is to attempt "moving pickup"
from your moving pickup only when you have a WINGMAN.
(Yeah, that last play on words was bad. But this is Texas and I
couldn't resist.)
Having one of your buds with you allows you to focus on the road,
moving into the left lane and pulling up beside the hottie. This
simultaneously positions your wingman window-to-window with the
woman.
This concept actually got me to think for a split second how cool
it would be to have a right-hand drive car in a left-hand drive
country (or vice-versa). At least until it was time to pass a
slow-moving dump truck on a single-lane road.
Now some may argue that both cars should still roll down their
windows and start yelling at each other at 70 mph.
Nah. There's a better way.
Get a big legal pad and a thick black magic marker. Be prepared
ahead of time, and keep it in the car where you can reach it.
BTW, forget about this: www.autoflirt.net
Not that it's a bad idea, I just have this thing against talking
like Prince.
Besides, I'm not sure that having made an actual, financial
investment in such an item is going to look as "spontaneous" as the
legal pad will. I somehow see looking like a well-equipped
frequent practitioner of this craft as a potential negative to a
woman.
Even if that quickly becomes the case for you having read this, why
advertise it?
So, have your wing write "WHAT IS YOUR PHONE NUMBER?" on the pad
and plaster it to the window.
Deal with objections by flipping the page and writing. "IT'S
OKAY", or similar.
She might have trouble communicating her number to you, especially
if she's solo.
If you notice this, then you write your number on the pad. Include
the area code.
Should she turn out not to have a cell phone on her, which is all
but unthinkable these days, you can try to motion for her to pull
over or pull off at the next exit. But don't bet on it.
You can try moving ahead of her in lane by about 200 feet and
taking the next exit with PLENTY of blinker ahead of time. If she
follows, it's game on. If not, "next".
So you can see the value of having a wing with you when meeting
women while driving.
Actually, having another guy in the car with you is good for
another key reason: social proof.
This shows you actually HAVE friends, and therefore the question of
whether you're some sort of evil loner who stalks pretty women on
the highway sort of evaporates.
And in case you haven't guessed, if there's more than one woman in
a car you have your sights set on, that's better too.
Every bit of what we're talking about here goes better when it's a
social event between two or more guys in one car and two or more
women in the other. 'Nuff said.
By the way, if she's got a GUY in the car with her you probably
ought to carefully evaluate the situation before proceeding.
If the guy is her significant other--or her dad--then this probably
won't go well for you.
And you can save your e-mails about running "boyfriend destroyer
game" at a fifteen second redlight. Please.
What about your actual car itself? Does it matter?
Well, obviously being eye-level with other traffic is a plus. But
I think that having a clean car in a good state of repair is more
important than having an expensive car.
That said, if you drive a mini-van or a station wagon, she may get
the first impression that she's getting hit up on by some married
guy.
So flirt at your own risk, there...that could be a legitimate
challenge. Then again, you'll probably get pointed questions
about your car on first dates, too.
One last thing to remember. Unless you are driving something
larger than a delivery truck and she's in a convertible, you aren't
going to have much to go on from the neck down when you meet women
in these situations.
Plan "first meetings" as if you met her online...unless you were
slick enough to actually get her to pull over after calling her.
Mad props if you pull that one off.
The best strategy for that after meeting her at a red light, by the
way, is as follows.
Ask if she's in a hurry. If she isn't, suggest to her exactly
where to pull off to the side ahead so you can properly meet her.
Make sure it's a very public place, and well-lit if after dark.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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