[X&Y] Can You Approach And Meet Women Without Being A "Pickup Artist"?
Published: Tue, 10/21/08
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IN THIS EDITION: So here's the big question: Can you "do pickup"
without being a "pickup artist"? Well, I have a friend who knows
EXACTLY how to answer that question...
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APPROACH AND MEET WOMEN...LEAVE THE SLEAZY PICKUP LINES AT HOME
Okay, let's have a show of hands.
Who among us wants to be able to approach any woman he wants, start
a conversation, generate massive attraction, and get her phone number
...all without becoming "roadkill" before you've even finished
crossing the room to go meet her?
If this poll includes the 14-year-old, 20-year-old, 27-year-old and
35-year-old versions of me, we're all raising both hands.
By now you know I spend a lot of time talking about understanding
women, going from "good to great" with them and being a solid
relationship manager.
But let's face it, all of that STARTS with walking up to a woman
for the first time and knowing how to meet her effectively.
It's either that...or having your entire dating life relegated to
hanging out with whomever your Aunt Bertha sets you up with.
Don't get me wrong.
I'm sure Aunt Bertha's bridge partner's daughter is a "nice girl".
But even so, you're STILL going to have to know exactly what to say
when you meet her.
...Even if that means saying to YOURSELF, "Man, I've got to figure
out how to meet the kind of women I REALLY WANT in my life."
Right on?
Enter Stephen Nash.
http://www.marketerschoice.com/app/?Clk=2640601
Now, you may know Stephen as "Playboy" from Neil Strauss' book The
Game.
And make no mistake about it, at one time he lived at the infamous
Project Hollywood and was COMPLETELY IMMERSED in the "underground"
world of pickup artists.
But after a while, something interesting happened.
Stephen found himself back in New York City. And instead of living
the "PUA" lifestyle, he is now planning a bright future with the
greatest woman he has ever met.
Perhaps you've heard one or more of any number of audio programs that
Stephen and I have recorded together, including several podcasts or
even that epic Virtuosity session of his that has become one of THE
most popular of all.
Simply put, we collaborate quite often together because he and I
think a LOT alike these days.
So when a guy like Stephen Nash decides it's time to take everything
he knows about "pickup" and surround it all with exactly the kind of
character-based mindset that he's all about nowadays, you can bet I'm
going to make sure you know about it:
http://www.marketerschoice.com/app/?Clk=2640601
In fact, he just released his "magnum opus" to the world MINUTES AGO.
Incidentally, for those of you keeping score at home...YES...this
marks a FIRST in X & Y Communications history.
It's the first and only time I've EVER shared a "pickup" program with
you.
Then again, this is the first time that Stephen Nash has ever
released one.
So rest assured, I am of sound mind. The sky is not falling.
Quite the opposite, frankly.
I realize that LOTS OF GUYS want to know exactly how to succeed at
approaching women and meeting them...all WITHOUT having to resort
to sleazy tactics, cheesy lines or manipulative techniques.
If you're one of those guys, you need not look any further than here:
http://www.marketerschoice.com/app/?Clk=2640601
There is no better guy to teach these crucial skills than Stephen
Nash. So I highly recommend taking a look. Enjoy.
PLUS...here's a "news flash": Stephen's also giving out his massive
20-hour "Natural Attraction" program for F-R-E-E to the first 500
guys who get in on this. Unreal.
And I'll be back atcha again about the middle of next week with a
killer topic that I realize is LONG overdue.
I'm FINALLY going to give you the true secrets to highly effective
FLIRTING.
Until then, let me give you a hint: You (yes YOU) are probably
MUCH BETTER at flirting than you think ALREADY. AND...you probably
flirt MUCH MORE than you think you do EVERY DAY.
More next time...
Until then, have a great weekend. And I'll talk to you again soon.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. If you're new to X & Y Communications within the past year or
so, you probably have not heard the BONUS episode of The Chick
Whisperer that I released back in November of 2007.
The topic was "Stop Giving Your Power Away" and the co-host was none
other than Brent Smith of DYD fame. It was (and still is) epic.
Well, I've unlocked the "vault" and just published that "lost"
episode to the feed for the FIRST TIME EVER. You can find it here...
http://feeds.feedburner.com/thechickwhisperer
...or on iTunes under "health/self-help" in the "podcasts" section.
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