[X&Y] Do YOU Believe In Your Ability To Succeed With Women As Much As I Do?
Published: Mon, 12/22/08
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IN THIS EDITION: A little "holiday cheer" for anyone interested in
online dating (which should be YOU), and a few words on going for
the very best when it comes to success with women.
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FREE E-BOOK ABOUT MEETING WOMEN ON TWITTER...ALL YOU DO IS DOWNLOAD IT
Lately I've been talking about Twitter quite a bit.
Well, I may be totally nuts, but now I've written a full e-book on
how to meet women on there.
This was going to be a series of blog posts at first, but I ended up
having 72-pages worth of 100% original material on the subject,
including lots of killer tips on how to be successful on Twitter in
general.
The name of the book is "Twiduction: How To Meet Women On
Twitter". I just launched it on Twitter last night (where else?),
but you can also download it IMMEDIATELY and for F-R-E-E right here:
http://www.twiduction.com/download
When you click the link above, the e-book will appear on your
screen in PDF format. Merry Christmas or Happy Hannukah to you
from me.
Consider it a small indicator of what you can expect from the bonanza
that is Online Dating Domination.
If you are on Twitter, this is a no-brainer. If you are NOT on
Twitter, you SHOULD be on Twitter. "Follow" me on Twitter and I'll
follow you back:
http://www.twitter.com/scotmckay
OK, you know what? I'm in the giving spirit, so how about THIS too...
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GET THE NEWLY EXPANDED INSIDER INTERNET DATING, GET ONLINE DATING
DOMINATION WITH IT
Since I just mentioned how killer Online Dating Domination is, I'm
now going to literally put my money where my mouth is.
By now it's no secret that Dave M of "Insider Internet Dating" fame
is completely re-launching his program with tons of expanded
content and a whopping 14 bonuses (including one from me).
You'll probably get tons of e-mails about it from other guys whose
lists you may be on, but I'm going to go "Vito Corleone" on you and
give you an "offer you can't refuse". It goes like this:
1) Get Dave's brand-new version of Insider Internet Dating using
this link:
http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=513755&u=http://www.insiderinternetdating.com/Giveaway
2) E-mail me your receipt. scot@twiduction.com will work. (Nice,
huh?)
3) I'll send you Online Dating Domination to go with it. No
funny stuff, nothing else to buy. You can download it
directly from the Member's Area.
4) Scroll back up this email and download my e-book on Twitter to
complete your monumental stash of online dating artillery,
realizing you've scored MAJORLY here.
I know. Somebody must have slipped some extra "holiday cheer" in
my Sam Adams. But that's the deal. Get Dave M.'s killer program
on a 1-month trial, and get my Online Dating Domination program and
tear through it NOW while you wait for his to arrive.
All at "2-for-1" pricing.
Do I have to tell you that I've pretty much just laid out the
ultimate plan for getting on the fast-track to online dating
success?
Dave M's material is the best for getting you from "nowhere" to
"somewhere" online. And Online Dating Domination gives you what
you need to take the next step: From "good" to "great".
I'd recommend jumping on this before some of my "dating guru"
buddies figure out what I'm doing and hammer me for it...LOL
Here's that link, and this newsletter is the ONLY PLACE you'll see
it:
http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=513755&u=http://www.insiderinternetdating.com/Giveaway
Speaking of going from "good" to "great", let's talk about that
some more...
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DO YOU BELIEVE IN YOUR ABILITY TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN AS MUCH AS I DO?
Lately I've been starting to earn the reputation for being the
dating coach who takes guys from "good with women" to "great with
women".
Sure, David D. introduced me as that guy when I was on his
"Interviews With Dating Gurus" series nearly two years ago, but
these days it's really starting to take hold.
In fact, just last Thursday I did an interview where the host said
exactly the same thing when SHE introduced me to her audience.
Yes, I said "she".
And I'll tell you, there's nothing I love better than to hear
success stories from guys who have raised the bar higher than they
ever could have imagined previously...perhaps even higher than they
thought possible even two or three months prior to getting in touch
with us.
You can see one such story on the blog right now.
So basically, I wake up every morning amazingly psyched to go to
work. As some of you who have e-mailed me or talked to me or who
are on Twitter already know, sometimes I don't HAVE to "wake up"
for work...I'm STILL up from YESTERDAY.
But here's the painful part.
Some guys believe I'm full of it.
They refuse to believe (and I think "refuse" is the correct word
here) that what I talk about around here is EVEN POSSIBLE...AT ALL,
let alone for THEM.
I would be shocked and confused by this, except for one simple
factor: Less than a decade ago I would have been RIGHT THERE WITH
THEM.
I used to think that dating more than one woman at once was a
ridiculous fantasy that was only possible in the movies.
I thought that women called all the shots, and men had to grovel
for acceptance from them...only to usually get "rejected".
And heck, after my divorce I even started thinking all women were
"crazy" and just wanted to use guys.
It was only after doing a LOT of research and "field testing" that
I started to see results that clearly indicated that what I heard
about other guys succeeding with women was NO JOKE.
I have to tell you...THAT'S what compelled me to leave a perfectly
good career as a regional sales manager for a trendy IT company to
start X & Y Communications.
It wasn't to make hollow promises to desperate guys about how to
"get laid quick".
Sure, I understand how bad sexual frustration can feel. And I know
how easy it would be to capitalize on helping guys who have
experienced zero success with women cure the immense personal pain
that goes along with that.
But you know what?
If getting a phone number equals "success", and simply having sex
is the goal, then there are HUNDREDS of places on the Internet that
can hook you up.
But my vision for you is MUCH, MUCH greater than that.
Sure, I hope you are unwilling to "settle" for anything less than a
wildly successful dating life where you call all the shots, make
all the decisions, and manage relationships with women who
absolutely adore you and would do ANYTHING for you...ultimately
culminating in meeting and permanently attracting the GREATEST
woman ever.
But before even hoping you are unwilling to "settle", I hope you
are even able to SEE IT'S POSSIBLE to be "great" instead of just
"good" with women.
Consider this. Did you know that when I think of my "typical"
newsletter reader, I picture an educated, athletic, and
socially-talented guy with tons of potential? And I picture him
FED UP with hanging out with women who don't meet his standards.
That's how I see YOU.
And guess what? Based on the vast majority of e-mail I get, I
think I pretty much understand my audience.
So here's my challenge to you: Do YOU believe in YOUR OWN SUCCESS
as much as I DO?
Because it's not just POSSIBLE. It's WITHIN YOUR GRASP.
Emily is not a paid actress. (Yes, I've actually heard that
assertion before).
And yes, things go as well for us in real life as they do on our
Web sites.
And yes, there were other high quality women in my life before I
met Emily.
And above all, NO...I'm not smoking crack. I REALLY think you can
rise above simply "getting a girl...ANY girl" and seriously
accomplish your ULTIMATE vision of success with women.
But the think is that some guys only have limited vision in that
area.
Do you know what my biggest challenge with guys on my Ten-Plus
program is?
You may shake your head, but it's that they DISAPPEAR after four or
six out of ten planned 1-on-1 calls with me.
They aren't displeased. They don't want their money back. They're
just OVERWHELMED.
They're getting SOME success, and they're THRILLED with it.
But what I have in mind for them is a more complete plan with an
even happier ending. And I continually, it seems, have to remind
guys of that and help them see the opportunity for greater success
than THEY EVEN IMAGINE ahead.
It's gotten to the point where I actually TELL GUYS about this
phenomenon when they first get started on a Ten-Plus program. They
say it'll never happen in their case, and it often still does.
Why?
Because ALMOST NO GUY ON EARTH ever actually achieves the kind of
success we talk about around here. Therefore, it's hard to imagine
because almost everyone you've ever met can't relate to it.
And the one or two guys you've known along the way who can? When
you heard them talk about the women in their lives you probably
thought they were...are you ready for this?...full of it.
Here's the most mind-bending part of the story of all. Despite the
fact that almost all guys live their entire lives without the
success with women they would have liked to have had, it's JUST NOT
AS HARD AS YOU THINK to achieve it.
You may have suspected that all along, in fact. And I've just
confirmed it for you.
It's just that most of us are competitive creatures, and it's
easier for us to DISMISS rumors of success than to ACCEPT THE TRUTH
and make it happen for ourselves.
Worse? Most of us are too proud to ask for directions.
Or...we figure out there's no "quick fix" and it might take some
effort.
So we, like most people in life, get lazy and stop right after we
start.
Or we get too squeamish and give up too quickly.
How many times have you seen a guitar in the corner gathering dust?
Welcome to exactly the concept I'm talking about.
Most of us would love to be rock stars, but are content to play a
video game that simulates it instead.
Success with women? Most of us are content to watch porn instead
of doing what it takes to meet a great woman.
And here it is: Porn stars aren't even a fair simulation of what
having a great woman is all about. And I think you know that
already.
The valid truth about human nature is this. We all want THE PRIZE,
but we don't often want to exert any energy or effort to GET IT.
Consider the times where you've seen raffles or drawings featuring
a cool prize for the winner. You want the prize. But as soon as
you figure out you've got to fill out some sort of form to be
eligible, you pass.
Similarly, you might like to win the Tour De France. But after
about ten minutes on Lance Armstrong's training program, you might
decide otherwise.
The higher you aim, the higher the potential prize. And the higher
the prize, the more effort is involved.
But like I just alluded to, success with women is one of the
"prizes" in life that absolutely, positively brings the MOST REWARD
for even a very REASONABLE AMOUNT of effort.
And guys STILL MISS THAT. They REFUSE to believe it.
Welcome to what keeps me up at night.
What's it going to take to get YOU to believe you can SUPER-ACHIEVE
with women?
Was this newsletter enough?
Can you cut through your doubt and begin to BELIEVE that what you
hear about elsewhere when it comes to AMAZING SUCCESS with women is
true?
Can you accept a vision for YOURSELF that is as lofty as MINE is?
Can you look WAY past getting a phone number as a definition of
"success"?
I trust you can. Because crazy or not, I BELIEVE you can achieve.
If I can, YOU CAN. All it really takes is a belief that you CAN
understand women, that they CAN be high-quality human beings, and
that they DO want a high-quality "big four" man like you in their
lives as YOU want them in yours.
Next week, I'm going to share with you something I call the
"leapfrog effect", which is what comes AFTER ultimate success with
women. Yes, there's more...WAY more. Stay tuned.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I'm not done with sending Christmas Presents just yet.
There's a new episode of The Chick Whisperer that's all done...it
just needs editing. I'll send that to you on Christmas day,
barring the unexpected.
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