[X&Y] Six Common "Limiting Beliefs" EXPOSED
Published: Mon, 03/16/09
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IN THIS EDITION: Every single one of us has battled "limiting
beliefs". They crawl inside our head and tell us we can't deserve
the kind of woman we want.
Meanwhile, every guy who succeeds with women GETS OVER them, pure
and simple.
Read on as we drop the hammer on the most common "limiting beliefs"...
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belong.
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TOP SIX "LIMITING BELIEFS" EXPOSED
So how about it? Are you ready to put aside some of the excuses
that have kept you from meeting women?
I realize that seems like a rhetorical question, but believe me--I
talk to guys EVERY DAY who would appear to be MORE COMFORTABLE
clinging to excuses than really SUCCEEDING with women.
It's true. But since you're reading this newsletter, I'm going to
continue on the premise that you're ready to truly go from GOOD to
GREAT with women...as opposed to simply talking about it to assuage
yourself.
Fair enough?
Right on. With that, welcome to an objective discussion of what
very well could be haunting YOU every single day in your journey to
greatness with women.
Here are a HALF-DOZEN that almost all of us face, along with a
quick solution for making each respective one DISAPPEAR:
1) Not Good Looking Enough
As much as we're told "looks don't matter" to women, you'd think
we'd get the message.
But we don't.
Why is that?
Simply put, we as guys tend to default to an understanding of
women's thought processes as if they were dead similar to our own.
As we've talked about before, the irony is that we go around
thinking like this even as we say "women are impossible to
understand".
Guys tend to "pre-value" women based on their physical appearance,
therefore we assume that women do the same. But women indeed view
the world differently.
Bottom line, you can look around you and see guys who would appear
to have been buffeted repeatedly about the head and shoulders with
an ugly stick--make that an ugly SHOVEL if you will--in the company
of GREAT women.
And those women adore them.
Overweight? Undertall? Bald? Same thing.
For sure, do the best with what you've got. Women appreciate that.
But if you represent the "Big Four" to a woman, you REALLY CAN
become the most debonair man she's ever had the pleasure to behold.
Your core masculinity, confidence, character and ability to inspire
her confidence IS flat-out beautiful to her.
2) Not Rich Enough
Even in the face of cold hard facts, SO MANY guys continue to
believe that "only rich guys get hot women".
First of all, if the only reason you ARE getting a woman is because
of your money, you're IN FOR A TOUGH LIFE. Need I say more?
But again, look around. Plenty of guys who can't rub two cents
together have great women.
In the immortal words of Allen Iverson, "It's not about the money".
In sports, whenever you hear that it REALLY IS "about the money".
But this is a whole different "ball game".
Money can be a BY PRODUCT of AMBITION. Money also tends to
demonstrate that you could POTENTIALLY provide SECURITY in
providing for a woman.
But it's the AMBITION ITSELF that tells women you have a plan...one
that they can hitch their wagon to.
And the REALITY of making a woman FEEL SAFE comes from YOUR
CONFIDENCE and CHARACTER, not from your wallet. Really.
High quality women are looking for YOU to represent security to
them. Even if you DID have millions of dollars, that alone
wouldn't cut it for them.
You become the "Big Four" man a woman craves, and all she'll care
about is living a great life with you holding her and telling her
everything is going to be okay.
And if she BELIEVES you when you tell her that, it really wasn't
the money.
3) I Don't Have The Right Personality
Every person is unique. Like a diamond. This alone means that
there can't possibly be "The Personality Type" that attracts women.
If you think about it, the simple fact that WOMEN are all different
means that each one is going to have unique tastes...just like you do.
Yet, this doesn't stop guys from thinking that women ALL want "life
of the party" guys if they're NOT that guy.
Meanwhile, I hear from very outgoing guys who firmly believe they
need to "tone it down" because women apparently want the "strong
silent type".
What gives? Are we ALL the "wrong" type of guy?
Come on, man. That CAN'T be true.
And we ESPECIALLY can't ALL be "wrong" for ALL women?
Whoever you are, you'll attract the women whose personality type
you mesh with. That's a good thing. So why stand in the way of
it?
Stop pretending you need to do a 180 and deserve what you want
instead--which is someone you'll actually get along with.
The MORE you fight your natural personality type, the LESS likely
that is to happen.
4) Women Don't Want To Be Bothered
Look what four decades of "feminization of manhood" has done to us.
Just last week I was in a discussion with a woman who claimed that
"human sexuality is limited to physical features...all the rest is
socio-cultural".
Femininity and masculinity were "relative" and "negotiable" to her.
When I suggested that she not be too hard on the next guy who was
only sexually attracted to her body parts, the conversation ended
abruptly.
Check it out gentlemen. THOSE WOMEN ARE THE MINORITY.
The rest of them are still proud to be 100% woman...feminine
through-and-through.
And they WANT a man around. The question is simply whether you
are going to MAN UP, realize that, and BRING IT.
You are sexually attracted to women, as I'm sure you've already
figured out.
NEWS FLASH: Women are usually sexually attracted to men. You're
not bothering them. Really.
To think otherwise is to give in to faulty programming from a vocal
minority. Either that, or it's just a flimsy excuse. One or the
other.
5) No Matter What, Women Just Don't Like Me
You've been out with some women, and you're not getting second
dates.
Meanwhile, your friends and family wonder why you're single and
don't have a girlfriend.
Solution? You've been LEADING. Even on those disastrous first
dates.
Sure, you do just fine socially...until you're in front of a woman
you're attracted to.
Face it: it's YOU who is different in those situations.
It's not that "women hate you" or something.
The good news is you can CONTROL the outcome. You are NOT a
victim.
If you are doing fine elsewhere with people, it means your
personality WORKS.
Now it's simply a matter of killing the "too good to be true factor".
Stop submarining your confidence thinking there's no chance a woman
YOU like could possibly like you back.
Let her decide that on her own rather than YOU leading her to a
negative outcome.
What difference could being as confident of other's approval in the
presence of a hottie as you typically are in all other situations
mean?
In a very real way it could mean shredding up this "limiting
belief" once and for all.
6) I Haven't Learned Enough Yet
Sure, having tons of knowledge about how women think and what they
want is IMMENSELY valuable.
And sure, maybe you recognize that there's a journey ahead of you
in becoming the "Big Four" guy YOU envision yourself to be.
BUT...you can't wallow in "theory" over there forever.
You've GOT TO PRACTICE.
If you play golf, you might read some Golf manuals and magazines,
then you go hit a bucket at the range.
You may take notes, come back and read some more, then maybe play
18 with a few friends.
Improvement happens over time through a combination of KNOWLEDGE
and PRACTICE.
It follows logically that succeeding with women is a similar process.
Unless, of course, you're looking for an excuse to remain terrified
of women. Then you'll continue to "fail to deploy".
Pull the trigger, gentlemen. Relax and have fun...the women dig you.
So you thought you were alone, did you?
If there's ANY takeaway from what you've just read, it's that just
about every one of us thinks we're ALL ALONE in dealing with our
self-perceived inadequacies.
But the truth is that WE ALL tend to battle VERY SIMILAR demons.
Can you get your head around that, realize that what you're "up
against" is completely normal, and use that information to RISE
ABOVE the adversity?
Your answer to that very question will decide whether or not you'll
have the stones to step up and make success happen with women...or not.
As I told you, The Master Plan is coming soon. In it I'm going to
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Come on, guys. It's time to KILL "limiting beliefs" DEAD IN THEIR
TRACKS once and for all. Get online, do it up right and start
meeting some women NOW.
I can't wait to hear your success stories.
So I'll talk to you again soon. A great St. Patrick's Day to those
of you who celebrate it. I'll have a Guinness for you, and be sure
to have one for yourself also.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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