[X&Y] When The First Kiss Just Isn't Happening [Video]

Published: Tue, 06/09/09

X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER


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IN THIS EDITION: What if she's into holding hands, hugging...and
nothing more? How are you supposed to know where you stand? Here's
a video answer to an e-mail I received on that exact subject.


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UNBREAKABLE...THE ONLY WAY TO BE


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about the epic 1½ hour video bonus that's in there from Christian
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You like the urban yet refined approach to meeting women that those
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I have to say, I think it's refreshing to see also...which is precisely
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Well, now Christian's got a series of f-r-e-e videos for you ahead
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he's been working on:



http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/unbreakable



He explains some things about approaching and interacting with
women that are pretty mind blowing, especially regarding your
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You're going to learn A LOT from this video and the ones coming up
behind it. I can assure you that.

And now, here's the video newsletter on today's all-important but
rarely discussed subject...



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WHAT IF THE FIRST KISS ISN'T HAPPENING?


Has this ever happened to you? You meet a woman you like, and
everything seems to be going well.

She smiles, flirts and laughs at your jokes. You find yourself
naturally holding hands with her...and she even nestles herself into
your arms as you watch movies together.

But NOTHING more. No first kiss. No hot sexual tension. NOTHING.

What's up with that?

How are you supposed to diagnose what the issue IS, let alone solve
it?

Well recently a reader named Matt wrote me a letter talking about
this very subject, and I've posted a video response to it on my
Edumckaytion blog. Take a look:



http://www.edumckaytion.com/blog



I think there's a solid chance my answer will surprise you.

Let me know what you think by leaving a comment on the blog. I'd
love to hear your opinions and any "been there don't that" stories
you have.

And I'll talk to you again soon,


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S. I haven't asked this in a while, and it's time. Who would
you like for me to invite as a co-host for The Chick Whisperer
podcast?

And what topic should we cover? I'm planning future episodes and
want your input. Send your ideas to: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com




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