[X&Y] Nice Guy Or Bad Boy...Can A Brother Get A THIRD OPTION?
Published: Fri, 02/05/10
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS SPECIAL EDITION
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ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST...WE HOPE
OK, a couple of days ago I sent you a link to a video my compadre
Carlos Xuma produced that gave you a SERIOUSLY DIFFERENT
perspective on the whole "nice guy" vs. "bad boy" debate.
After I told you about it, let's just say A LOT of eyes were opened.
Then, if that wasn't "interesting" enough, something else happened
that was just flat-out bizarre.
You see, the past couple of days have been particularly busy as far
as coaching calls go.
Basically, you guys are HAMMERING me to get your online profiles
done RIGHT and get them done RIGHT NOW before the door slams shut
After I told you about it, let's just say A LOT of eyes were opened.
Then, if that wasn't "interesting" enough, something else happened
that was just flat-out bizarre.
You see, the past couple of days have been particularly busy as far
as coaching calls go.
Basically, you guys are HAMMERING me to get your online profiles
done RIGHT and get them done RIGHT NOW before the door slams shut
on that golden "Valentine's Opportunity" I've been harping about lately.
Fair enough.
But here's the weird part.
Since I talked to you last, guys have been sending me Match.com
usernames of their TOP CHOICES in their metro area, along with
"first draft" e-mails of what they might write to them off the top
of their heads.
Guys were sending me profiles of SMOKIN' HOTTIES.
Well, I know Groundhog Day was a couple of days ago, but it all
started to look like something out of the MOVIE "Groundhog Day".
EVERY SINGLE ONE of these women were 100% CLEAR that they were
Fair enough.
But here's the weird part.
Since I talked to you last, guys have been sending me Match.com
usernames of their TOP CHOICES in their metro area, along with
"first draft" e-mails of what they might write to them off the top
of their heads.
Guys were sending me profiles of SMOKIN' HOTTIES.
Well, I know Groundhog Day was a couple of days ago, but it all
started to look like something out of the MOVIE "Groundhog Day".
EVERY SINGLE ONE of these women were 100% CLEAR that they were
NOT looking for some NICE GUY.
These women talked over and over and over again about how they
wanted a MAN to STEP UP and basically be NAUGHTIER THAN NICE.
Here's an actual line lifted from a profile of a 46 YEAR OLD WOMAN
in Austin, TX whose pictures portrayed the kind of "mom" we ALL wish
our friends had back in high school:
"My stomach is flat. Everything else about me is not."
I've been at this stuff for YEARS now, and that line almost made me
spit Diet Coke all over my keyboard.
In the VERY NEXT paragraph she spelled out in no uncertain terms what
kind of man was going to get to partake of her feminine gifts.
Now, I kid you not. I bet I've seen 40 women's profiles over the
last two days submitted by guys who'd LOVE LOVE LOVE to meet them.
And if I say 75% of them were classy, impeccably sharp women with a
NAUGHTY STREAK as wide as the Queen Mary, I'd be underestimating
These women talked over and over and over again about how they
wanted a MAN to STEP UP and basically be NAUGHTIER THAN NICE.
Here's an actual line lifted from a profile of a 46 YEAR OLD WOMAN
in Austin, TX whose pictures portrayed the kind of "mom" we ALL wish
our friends had back in high school:
"My stomach is flat. Everything else about me is not."
I've been at this stuff for YEARS now, and that line almost made me
spit Diet Coke all over my keyboard.
In the VERY NEXT paragraph she spelled out in no uncertain terms what
kind of man was going to get to partake of her feminine gifts.
Now, I kid you not. I bet I've seen 40 women's profiles over the
last two days submitted by guys who'd LOVE LOVE LOVE to meet them.
And if I say 75% of them were classy, impeccably sharp women with a
NAUGHTY STREAK as wide as the Queen Mary, I'd be underestimating
the situation.
They were NOT SHY about it, either.
Meanwhile? EVERY GUY I talked to was writing e-mails (and profiles
to back them up) that basically made very "nice" small talk.
And hey...I know all of you guys I've been coaching lately are
reading this. You already know the score, and you know you aren't
alone. Best of all, you're among the few and the proud who are now
on the RIGHT TRACK. Have fun out there.
But what about YOU.
This "Nice Guy" stuff is a SICKNESS.
And as of TODAY AT NOON (that's about a minute ago) Carlos
They were NOT SHY about it, either.
Meanwhile? EVERY GUY I talked to was writing e-mails (and profiles
to back them up) that basically made very "nice" small talk.
And hey...I know all of you guys I've been coaching lately are
reading this. You already know the score, and you know you aren't
alone. Best of all, you're among the few and the proud who are now
on the RIGHT TRACK. Have fun out there.
But what about YOU.
This "Nice Guy" stuff is a SICKNESS.
And as of TODAY AT NOON (that's about a minute ago) Carlos
Xuma has the CURE:
The Bad Boy Formula
Lookit. Even the world's highest quality women (even guys' FIRST
CHOICES in their ENTIRE CITY) are DISGUSTED by "Mr. Nice Guy".
But they're sophisticated enough to know they don't want an
IDIOT/JERK (I/J) either.
They don't want to get cheated on or (God forbid) beaten up.
What they WANT is a "Bad Boy".
You need to get inside their heads and know what they REALLY MEAN
BY THAT...and based on what I've seen this is practically at
CRISIS STAGE for most of us.
Here's a hint: They don't want a man who's "bad" enough to go to
jail. They want a man who's "bad" enough to deserve a good spanking.
AND...they want a guy who's MAN enough to know the difference
The Bad Boy Formula
Lookit. Even the world's highest quality women (even guys' FIRST
CHOICES in their ENTIRE CITY) are DISGUSTED by "Mr. Nice Guy".
But they're sophisticated enough to know they don't want an
IDIOT/JERK (I/J) either.
They don't want to get cheated on or (God forbid) beaten up.
What they WANT is a "Bad Boy".
You need to get inside their heads and know what they REALLY MEAN
BY THAT...and based on what I've seen this is practically at
CRISIS STAGE for most of us.
Here's a hint: They don't want a man who's "bad" enough to go to
jail. They want a man who's "bad" enough to deserve a good spanking.
AND...they want a guy who's MAN enough to know the difference
between "evil" and "naughty".
All I have to say is it's a GOOD THING Carlos Xuma, mad scientist
such that he is, has sequestered himself in his cave for the past
however-many months coming up with THIS:
The Bad Boy Formula
...Because I think we ALL know it's WAY, WAY overdue.
FINALLY...we get the COMPLETE SET OF ANSWERS on how to beat
such that he is, has sequestered himself in his cave for the past
however-many months coming up with THIS:
The Bad Boy Formula
...Because I think we ALL know it's WAY, WAY overdue.
FINALLY...we get the COMPLETE SET OF ANSWERS on how to beat
the "Mr. Nice Guy" problem over the head with a shovel until it quits
wiggling.
Best of all, you're about to make the transformation without having
to become a jerk-wad jailbird about it.
Best of all, you're about to make the transformation without having
to become a jerk-wad jailbird about it.
Outstanding.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. For a second there, I kicked myself for not coming up with a
program like this first. But having thought about it, Carlos was
the perfect guy to craft this message:
The Bad Boy Formula
Well done, Carlos. This is a REALLY good one.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. For a second there, I kicked myself for not coming up with a
program like this first. But having thought about it, Carlos was
the perfect guy to craft this message:
The Bad Boy Formula
Well done, Carlos. This is a REALLY good one.
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things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
entertainment purposes only and is not intended to constitute
professional advice.
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