[X&Y] Okay, You've Been Right All Along
Published: Fri, 04/02/10
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OKAY, YOU'VE BEEN RIGHT ALL ALONG
For over four years now I've been getting e-mails from you
CONSTANTLY asking for input on how to approach women and start
conversations with them.
For a while there, my response was to say that I'm not a PUA, and
that there are literally hundreds of guys out there teaching pickup
that you can learn from.
My job, as I understood it, was to teach guys the advanced skills
in going from good to great with high quality women...the vast
majority of whom would not respond so well to tricks, techniques
and "canned openers" anyway.
But the e-mails kept on coming.
So I began to cover the topics of approaching women and creating
initial attraction more and more in these newsletters...albeit from
far more of a "character based"
elsewhere.
And if anything, you started writing me MORE THAN EVER wanting
me to talk about pickup-related stuff.
Finally, after having been immersed in the Seduction Community
Finally, after having been immersed in the Seduction Community
long enough and finally (just over this past weekend) seen the
proverbial "straw that broke the camel's" back insofar as pickup
tactics based on pure trickery go, I've come to a shocking
conclusion.
There's a reason so many of you have been literally pounding my
door down to talk more about pickup.
And it's a REALLY GOOD one.
Straight up, it's like this. Even though there are HUNDREDS of
guys out there teaching PUA stuff, literally NOBODY is teaching
decent, "normal" guys who have ZERO interest in becoming a "pickup
artist" how to go about approaching and meeting high quality women.
NOBODY.
Like I said, it's really sort of shocking isn't it? In the true sense of the
proverbial "straw that broke the camel's" back insofar as pickup
tactics based on pure trickery go, I've come to a shocking
conclusion.
There's a reason so many of you have been literally pounding my
door down to talk more about pickup.
And it's a REALLY GOOD one.
Straight up, it's like this. Even though there are HUNDREDS of
guys out there teaching PUA stuff, literally NOBODY is teaching
decent, "normal" guys who have ZERO interest in becoming a "pickup
artist" how to go about approaching and meeting high quality women.
NOBODY.
Like I said, it's really sort of shocking isn't it? In the true sense of the
word.
I have no idea if this is all a matter of pickup teachers still
pretty much capitalizing on the default formula made famous by The
Game, if people just lack creativity, if it's all based on some
sort of marketing research, or if the vast number of you "regular"
guys who I'm talking to right now have just been overlooked--if not
flat-out ignored.
But as of today--right here, right now--I want you to know that the
blinders are officially OFF, and I get it.
Here it is: The fact that I'm NOT a pickup artist makes it ALL THE
MORE IMPORTANT that I step it up around here and start teaching
pickup.
So you have my word. I'm the guy who needs to do this, and I'm
accepting the responsibility.
I've already gotten started on a complete program on how to get
over fear of approaching women, how to actually meet them and
I have no idea if this is all a matter of pickup teachers still
pretty much capitalizing on the default formula made famous by The
Game, if people just lack creativity, if it's all based on some
sort of marketing research, or if the vast number of you "regular"
guys who I'm talking to right now have just been overlooked--if not
flat-out ignored.
But as of today--right here, right now--I want you to know that the
blinders are officially OFF, and I get it.
Here it is: The fact that I'm NOT a pickup artist makes it ALL THE
MORE IMPORTANT that I step it up around here and start teaching
pickup.
So you have my word. I'm the guy who needs to do this, and I'm
accepting the responsibility.
I've already gotten started on a complete program on how to get
over fear of approaching women, how to actually meet them and
how to start conversations.
That's right. FINALLY there's going to be a clear path to mastery
over all of this for guys like you who ARE NOT interested in being
PUAs, but rather who are simply real men who want to bring high
quality women into their lives.
You have no interest in laughing yourself to sleep, amused by the
trickery you got some chick to fall for. You actually respect
women, and as The Leading Man you expect respect from them in
return.
The bottom line is that I have no idea how long it will take to bring
That's right. FINALLY there's going to be a clear path to mastery
over all of this for guys like you who ARE NOT interested in being
PUAs, but rather who are simply real men who want to bring high
quality women into their lives.
You have no interest in laughing yourself to sleep, amused by the
trickery you got some chick to fall for. You actually respect
women, and as The Leading Man you expect respect from them in
return.
The bottom line is that I have no idea how long it will take to bring
all of this together for you, but I can say this: I already have an
amazing outline.
The working title right now is The Man's Approach To Meeting
Women, and I'd love to hear your ideas. What should I make sure
to include so as to make this program the best it can possibly be
for you?
Write me at: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Without question, it would be an excellent idea to go through
The Master Plan long before The Man's Approach To Meeting
The working title right now is The Man's Approach To Meeting
Women, and I'd love to hear your ideas. What should I make sure
to include so as to make this program the best it can possibly be
for you?
Write me at: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Without question, it would be an excellent idea to go through
The Master Plan long before The Man's Approach To Meeting
Women is released.
After all, that's where you'll discover all of the foundational steps to
becoming the "big four" man who will enjoy dramatically improved
success when approaching and meeting women.
Between now and Thursday I'm
going to work up something very
special for you guys who don't have The Master
Plan. Stay tuned.
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rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
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