[X&Y] Does The "Big Four" Apply To Women Also?
Published: Mon, 04/05/10
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: By now you know all about the "Big Four" man. But
what does the "Big Four" woman look like to us? I've come to a
startling conclusion. See if you agree...
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THE "BIG FOUR(TEEN)"?
In this newsletter we're going to talk some more about the "Big
Four" again. That's because it's not just important to be that guy
if you want to attract the highest quality women in your life, it's
an absolute MUST.
Confidence. Masculinity. The ability to inspire confidence in a
woman. Character.
Literally hundreds of men worldwide already know that The Master
Plan is the definitive toolkit for becoming that guy.
And more importantly, MILLIONS of women already know it too...at
least instinctively.
What it comes down to is that if you reclaim your birthright as a
man who was born to attract women (which you were), then
representing to the highestechelon of women what they TRULY want
in a man is almost effortless.
So for the next 48 hours I'm going to bring back that instant $50
off coupon for The Master Plan:
The Master Plan + Igniting Femininity
And--you guessed it--I'm going to give you another chance to get your
hands on that full-length audio program I just recorded last week
called:
Igniting Femininity: 14 Ways Women Define Masculinity
You wanted an objective, real-world list of ways you can ignite a
woman's femininity with real masculinity. This audio is your
chance to get that covered, once and for all.
Remember, this is only available to you for the next 48 hours only,
and you won't find the Igniting Femininity audio listed on the web
site for The Master Plan.
It really is a SPECIAL BONUS, and I'll send it to you along with
your welcome e-mail for The Master Plan:
The Master Plan + Igniting Femininity
In case you haven't realized it just yet, this is absolutely the
most STACKED offer I've ever put together for The Master Plan.
=====
WHAT'S INSIDE: By now you know all about the "Big Four" man. But
what does the "Big Four" woman look like to us? I've come to a
startling conclusion. See if you agree...
=====
THE "BIG FOUR(TEEN)"?
In this newsletter we're going to talk some more about the "Big
Four" again. That's because it's not just important to be that guy
if you want to attract the highest quality women in your life, it's
an absolute MUST.
Confidence. Masculinity. The ability to inspire confidence in a
woman. Character.
Literally hundreds of men worldwide already know that The Master
Plan is the definitive toolkit for becoming that guy.
And more importantly, MILLIONS of women already know it too...at
least instinctively.
What it comes down to is that if you reclaim your birthright as a
man who was born to attract women (which you were), then
representing to the highest
in a man is almost effortless.
So for the next 48 hours I'm going to bring back that instant $50
off coupon for The Master Plan:
The Master Plan + Igniting Femininity
And--you guessed it--I'm going to give you another chance to get your
hands on that full-length audio program I just recorded last week
called:
Igniting Femininity: 14 Ways Women Define Masculinity
You wanted an objective, real-world list of ways you can ignite a
woman's femininity with real masculinity. This audio is your
chance to get that covered, once and for all.
Remember, this is only available to you for the next 48 hours only,
and you won't find the Igniting Femininity audio listed on the web
site for The Master Plan.
It really is a SPECIAL BONUS, and I'll send it to you along with
your welcome e-mail for The Master Plan:
The Master Plan + Igniting Femininity
In case you haven't realized it just yet, this is absolutely the
most STACKED offer I've ever put together for The Master Plan.
It doesn't get any better than this. So if you've been holding off,
now is the time:
The Master Plan + Igniting Femininity
By the way, don't forget to get in on the Power Sessions inner
circle while you're at it. The first month is f-r-e-e as always,
and I've got some truly amazing videos coming soon--but it's ONLY
for that elite cadre of guys.
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THE WOMEN'S VERSION OF THE "BIG FOUR"
A few days ago I was on a coaching call with a guy when an
interesting question came up.
Is there a women's equivalent of the "Big Four"?
In other words, just like the "Big Four" traits in a man represent
what high quality women desire most in a man, are there also four
distinct traits in women that really cause the HIGHEST QUALITY
examples of us guys to recognize greatness in them?
The answer was actually relatively easy to come up with.
Not only is that answer a resounding "yes", there's a surprising
twist: It's actually the SAME LIST...only the female equivalent, of
course.
That's right. We as human beings, male or female, tend to want
something similar from our relationships with MOTOS (members of the
opposite sex).
As such, the "Big Four" are NOT gender specific, save for the
obvious and highly necessary substitution necessary to ensure
proper sexual polarity.
Let me show you exactly what I mean:
1) Confidence
You've heard that "confidence is sexy" a hundred times. And every
time you've heard it, there's been no elaboration as to whether
that fact applies to men or to women in particular.
That's because it indeed applies to everyone.
There's nothing worse than a woman who doesn't believe she's
competent (except, of course, a man who doesn't). When she second
guesses herself or shies away from social situations it's a turn
off. When she's sheepish around you in public you wonder not only
who she really is under there, but also what she's going to be like
in private (i.e. behind closed doors).
You betcha. We as guys love women who know they've "got it" and
carry themselves accordingly.
2) Femininity
Feminine women want a masculine man. And yes, you as a masculine
man want a feminine woman.
So it makes perfect sense that the "sexual polarity" factor is
equally important in the women's version of the "Big Four" as it is
in the men's version.
Of course you want her to visually appear as if she's 100% woman,
by your very definition of the word. Beautiful, radiant, even
stunning.
But you also want that joyful energy, that sweet heart and that
supportive spirit.
Somehow, the qualities that make her potentially a great mother
turn you on, also. When was the last time you heard an attractive
woman singing a lullaby? Admit it...you stopped in your tracks as if
the Sirens themselves had begun to join together in chorus.
Hard-edged resolve doesn't cut it. Neither does corporate
ambition. All of that's your job.
Likewise, the word "butch" is quite possibly the biggest attraction
killer known to man as far as you're concerned.
Manicures, sundresses and hair that smells great are what do it for
you. And that's no coincidence...it's nature.
3) Ability To Inspire Confidence
I hear someone already, "What is this, McKay, some sort of joke? I
don't need some woman to make me feel safe and secure."
The heck you don't.
Don't get me wrong; this isn't about a woman acting as your
"protector", per se. You indeed probably don't need that.
But I'm pretty sure that among your biggest, gnarliest nightmares
when it comes to relationships are that she's going to either
humiliate you in public, second guess your dreams and/or fail to
stand beside you when the chips are down.
We as guys don't want to even think of our woman ever letting us
down. We want to believe in her like she hopefully believes in us.
Any other state of affairs leaves us flat-out unfulfilled.
4) Character
OK...you've got me here.
Perhaps an even bigger, gnarlier nightmare is getting involved in a
long-term relationship with a woman only to wake up a few years (or
even months) later with someone COMPLETELY different next to you in
bed.
Maybe it was a ruse all along, or maybe she changed.
Whatever.
When she switches religions, attitudes or even (...ahem) sex partners
on you; you'll know more than ever how important bringing a woman
of strong, upstanding character into your life really is. And that
goes double if she can't seem to tell you the truth about anything
or follow through with what she says she's going to do.
There you go. It's a pretty convincing list, after all, isn't it
though?
Truth be told, I definitely still advocate, as always, putting
together your own version of "The Spreadsheet" detailing the top
ten traits in a woman you can't live without. That list needs to
include your own subjective criteria based solely on personal taste.
But ultimately, just about anything on that list really is going to
fall under one of the "Big Four". Go ahead and put your own list
to the test, and let me know what you come up with.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Your response to my announcement regarding The Man's Approach
To Meeting Women was nothing short of overwhelming. I can't believe
the number of ideas you guys sent me. I've got every one of them
saved, and you can rest assured that I'll deliver EXACTLY what
you're asking for.
Meanwhile, keep the ideas coming. Write me at:
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
=====
If you like what you've read, please feel free to forward this
newsletter to others. Help a friend out.
In fact, did a friend forward YOU this message? To receive this
newsletter for men from X & Y Communications on a regular basis,
simply visit our main portal...
By the way, don't forget to get in on the Power Sessions inner
circle while you're at it. The first month is f-r-e-e as always,
and I've got some truly amazing videos coming soon--but it's ONLY
for that elite cadre of guys.
=====
THE WOMEN'S VERSION OF THE "BIG FOUR"
A few days ago I was on a coaching call with a guy when an
interesting question came up.
Is there a women's equivalent of the "Big Four"?
In other words, just like the "Big Four" traits in a man represent
what high quality women desire most in a man, are there also four
distinct traits in women that really cause the HIGHEST QUALITY
examples of us guys to recognize greatness in them?
The answer was actually relatively easy to come up with.
Not only is that answer a resounding "yes", there's a surprising
twist: It's actually the SAME LIST...only the female equivalent, of
course.
That's right. We as human beings, male or female, tend to want
something similar from our relationships with MOTOS (members of the
opposite sex).
As such, the "Big Four" are NOT gender specific, save for the
obvious and highly necessary substitution necessary to ensure
proper sexual polarity.
Let me show you exactly what I mean:
1) Confidence
You've heard that "confidence is sexy" a hundred times. And every
time you've heard it, there's been no elaboration as to whether
that fact applies to men or to women in particular.
That's because it indeed applies to everyone.
There's nothing worse than a woman who doesn't believe she's
competent (except, of course, a man who doesn't). When she second
guesses herself or shies away from social situations it's a turn
off. When she's sheepish around you in public you wonder not only
who she really is under there, but also what she's going to be like
in private (i.e. behind closed doors).
You betcha. We as guys love women who know they've "got it" and
carry themselves accordingly.
2) Femininity
Feminine women want a masculine man. And yes, you as a masculine
man want a feminine woman.
So it makes perfect sense that the "sexual polarity" factor is
equally important in the women's version of the "Big Four" as it is
in the men's version.
Of course you want her to visually appear as if she's 100% woman,
by your very definition of the word. Beautiful, radiant, even
stunning.
But you also want that joyful energy, that sweet heart and that
supportive spirit.
Somehow, the qualities that make her potentially a great mother
turn you on, also. When was the last time you heard an attractive
woman singing a lullaby? Admit it...you stopped in your tracks as if
the Sirens themselves had begun to join together in chorus.
Hard-edged resolve doesn't cut it. Neither does corporate
ambition. All of that's your job.
Likewise, the word "butch" is quite possibly the biggest attraction
killer known to man as far as you're concerned.
Manicures, sundresses and hair that smells great are what do it for
you. And that's no coincidence...it's nature.
3) Ability To Inspire Confidence
I hear someone already, "What is this, McKay, some sort of joke? I
don't need some woman to make me feel safe and secure."
The heck you don't.
Don't get me wrong; this isn't about a woman acting as your
"protector", per se. You indeed probably don't need that.
But I'm pretty sure that among your biggest, gnarliest nightmares
when it comes to relationships are that she's going to either
humiliate you in public, second guess your dreams and/or fail to
stand beside you when the chips are down.
We as guys don't want to even think of our woman ever letting us
down. We want to believe in her like she hopefully believes in us.
Any other state of affairs leaves us flat-out unfulfilled.
4) Character
OK...you've got me here.
Perhaps an even bigger, gnarlier nightmare is getting involved in a
long-term relationship with a woman only to wake up a few years (or
even months) later with someone COMPLETELY different next to you in
bed.
Maybe it was a ruse all along, or maybe she changed.
Whatever.
When she switches religions, attitudes or even (...ahem) sex partners
on you; you'll know more than ever how important bringing a woman
of strong, upstanding character into your life really is. And that
goes double if she can't seem to tell you the truth about anything
or follow through with what she says she's going to do.
There you go. It's a pretty convincing list, after all, isn't it
though?
Truth be told, I definitely still advocate, as always, putting
together your own version of "The Spreadsheet" detailing the top
ten traits in a woman you can't live without. That list needs to
include your own subjective criteria based solely on personal taste.
But ultimately, just about anything on that list really is going to
fall under one of the "Big Four". Go ahead and put your own list
to the test, and let me know what you come up with.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Your response to my announcement regarding The Man's Approach
To Meeting Women was nothing short of overwhelming. I can't believe
the number of ideas you guys sent me. I've got every one of them
saved, and you can rest assured that I'll deliver EXACTLY what
you're asking for.
Meanwhile, keep the ideas coming. Write me at:
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
=====
If you like what you've read, please feel free to forward this
newsletter to others. Help a friend out.
In fact, did a friend forward YOU this message? To receive this
newsletter for men from X & Y Communications on a regular basis,
simply visit our main portal...
www.deservewhatyouwant.com
...drop your email in the annoying popup window, and download "Get
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X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
entertainment purposes only and is not intended to constitute
professional advice.
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...drop your email in the annoying popup window, and download "Get
The First Date...And The Second Date" for free. Or, just send a
blank email to "xandy@aweber.com". Easy stuff.
X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
professional advice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2010. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.