[X&Y] More On Transforming Her Attraction Into Absolute Head-Over-Heels Obsession
Published: Fri, 06/04/10
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are more ways to transform a woman's
attraction into something much, much deeper.
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SO WHAT *IS* TEN-PLUS COACHING REALLY ABOUT,
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are more ways to transform a woman's
attraction into something much, much deeper.
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SO WHAT *IS* TEN-PLUS COACHING REALLY ABOUT,
ANYWAY?
It has come to my attention that I might not have been clear enough
in the past about what makes a Ten-Plus program so much different
than just a bunch of coaching sessions.
Well, maybe that's because I always seem to have as many guys on
board as I can handle at any given moment.
But that doesn't mean I don't indeed owe it to you guys to let you
know what exactly is included and why it's so popular.
The Ten-Plus program is a complete plan for getting you from where
you are right now to where you want to be with women. It
incorporates all of these components:
1) A complete initial inventory that helps you assess exactly where
you are and where you want to be.
2) A "session zero" call that is all about sorting through every
bit of what needs to be talked about in order to develop a
custom-crafted outline that meets your unique needs. There's no
time limit on this call.
3) Ten calls or live visits (depending on your location) of AT
LEAST an hour each. I am not a "clock watcher". What needs to be
covered gets covered.
4) Plenty of interactive success builders between sessions to
maximize your real-world progress.
5) On-demand calls of 5-7 minutes each whenever you have a
It has come to my attention that I might not have been clear enough
in the past about what makes a Ten-Plus program so much different
than just a bunch of coaching sessions.
Well, maybe that's because I always seem to have as many guys on
board as I can handle at any given moment.
But that doesn't mean I don't indeed owe it to you guys to let you
know what exactly is included and why it's so popular.
The Ten-Plus program is a complete plan for getting you from where
you are right now to where you want to be with women. It
incorporates all of these components:
1) A complete initial inventory that helps you assess exactly where
you are and where you want to be.
2) A "session zero" call that is all about sorting through every
bit of what needs to be talked about in order to develop a
custom-crafted outline that meets your unique needs. There's no
time limit on this call.
3) Ten calls or live visits (depending on your location) of AT
LEAST an hour each. I am not a "clock watcher". What needs to be
covered gets covered.
4) Plenty of interactive success builders between sessions to
maximize your real-world progress.
5) On-demand calls of 5-7 minutes each whenever you have a
question or live situation that you want input on. I'm on call for you.
6) Unlimited e-mail coaching between sessions.
7) All four of my main books.
8) The opportunity to get primary phone sessions recorded on MP3.
You basically get your own, customized "advanced series" on audio.
All of this is backed by a virtually unheard-of 100% guarantee, and
costs less than most weekend bootcamps from PUA shops.
Yet... you enjoy 1-on-1 access to our entireteam of coaches
(including Emily), or you can work directly with me exclusively if
you prefer.
Guys who say "enough is enough" and finally discover the Ten-Plus
program for themselves see REAL CHANGE and experience REAL
6) Unlimited e-mail coaching between sessions.
7) All four of my main books.
8) The opportunity to get primary phone sessions recorded on MP3.
You basically get your own, customized "advanced series" on audio.
All of this is backed by a virtually unheard-of 100% guarantee, and
costs less than most weekend bootcamps from PUA shops.
Yet... you enjoy 1-on-1 access to our entire
(including Emily), or you can work directly with me exclusively if
you prefer.
Guys who say "enough is enough" and finally discover the Ten-Plus
program for themselves see REAL CHANGE and experience REAL
SUCCESS.
Most are guys with a lot going for them...they just need to get that
last piece of the puzzle figured out. They know it's time to
finally get the woman in their life that they know they deserve.
Some guys have reaped so much benefit from Ten-Plus that they've
even put me to work at maximizing their success as entrepreneurs as
well.
Shouldn't you be next? Drop me a note at
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com and tell me your story.
You can find out more about all of the various coaching options
available to you here:
www.dating-coaches.com
And now, here's Part Two of last week's newsletter (which you guys
responded POWERFULLY to, by the way)...
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HOW TO TURN HER ATTRACTION INTO ABSOLUTE LOVING
Most are guys with a lot going for them...they just need to get that
last piece of the puzzle figured out. They know it's time to
finally get the woman in their life that they know they deserve.
Some guys have reaped so much benefit from Ten-Plus that they've
even put me to work at maximizing their success as entrepreneurs as
well.
Shouldn't you be next? Drop me a note at
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com and tell me your story.
You can find out more about all of the various coaching options
available to you here:
www.dating-coaches.com
And now, here's Part Two of last week's newsletter (which you guys
responded POWERFULLY to, by the way)...
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HOW TO TURN HER ATTRACTION INTO ABSOLUTE LOVING
DEVOTION (PART TWO)
OK, last time I showed you the first three out of five ways you can
get a woman who is attracted to you to fall totally head-over-heels
in love with you.
Having read over the first part again, I now realize I told you
that I had TWO notes regarding giving her a massage...but had run out
of time last time to give you the second one.
So let's not leave you hanging any longer.
3) GIVE HER A MASSAGE (CONTINUED)
Having read the first installment of this two-part newsletter, you
already know how to surprise your favorite woman with a massage,
and you also know the special significance of giving her a foot
massage.
And here's that all-important SECOND note I had for you...and it's a
really good one.
You should indeed have her feeling completely relaxed and purring
like a kitten...which is one of those moments that makes life so
wonderful.
She should be putty in your hands--and gladly so, since you're so
clearly demonstrating that you know how to keep her best interests
at heart.
Similarly, you likely also already know how much women CRAVE spa
days.
They LOVE to be pampered, and your woman is no exception.
So getting that kind of treatment from a man she truly adores is
just about the ultimate exhilarating experience for just about any
woman.
Knowing that, I'm going to personally come over to your house and
whack you upside the head with my trusty 2x4 if you don't do THIS
next.
Whisper in her ear that you'll be right back...and that you're going
to get a bubble bath ready for the two of you.
Don't ASK if she'd like a bubble bath. TELL her you're going to
get it ready.
And DON'T lose your composure like a twitchy hairless terrier
(named Cosmo).
Just let her relax and bask in her bliss for a minute or two while
you start the warm bath and light candles.
Pity the fool whose apartment only has a shower stall and no
bathtub...and even more so the guy who HAS a bathtub, yet hasn't
thought to invest in some tropical-scented bubble bath potion and a
few candles.
Now, at this point someone is thinking, "You've got to be kidding
me. There's no way."
YES way.
You just stay focused on igniting her femininity and enjoying it.
Avoid being all but obsessed about having sex with her and you'll
REALLY LIKE how naturally all of this flows together.
Women are unafraid of indulging in that which can only be described
as "sensual".
So when you know how to differentiate "sensual" from "sexual" you
all but galvanize the attraction a woman feels toward you as well
as her comfort level with you.
You've got to give that whole scenario some love yourself, no doubt
Then return to her, take her by the hand and lead her to the
bathroom. If you can sweep her up and carry her there, all the
better.
Finally, just enjoy taking off the rest of each other's clothes and
soaking in the bubbles together.
Well, not finally. There's more. Someday I'll give you even more
to work with here.
4) TAKE HER ON A ROAD TRIP
If she's attracted to you, she probably can't wait to get to know
you better. A LOT better.
And let's face it, the better you know each other the more intimate
your relationship will be at every level.
The less you feel like strangers, the more you feel like partners.
The problem for most new couples is that they go on a two or three
hour date a couple of times per week, max...assuming they live
relatively close to each other.
(Don't even get me started on that one.)
Well, how are you supposed to get to know each other in such short
"hit and run" spurts like that?
You CAN'T.
So how do you solve the problem?
You plan a road trip, that's how.
If you know how to listen, you've already figured out what she
likes to do and where she'd like to visit.
So make a plan. Set aside a weekend and spend some real
"windshield time" together.
In fact, if the two of you can coordinate some time off from work
together, make it a three-to-five day trip and splurge for plane
tickets to wherever the rental car will be waiting for you.
Get away...together. But make SURE to do lot's of driving around.
Simply put, if you continue to get along incredibly well when
you're sequestered in a car together for 1000 miles or so, that's a
GREAT sign.
It means you'll be that much CLOSER to each other, and that much
further along in the "get to know you" process.
And hey, if you end up at each other's throats instead, at least
you'll know what's up.
Either way, planning the trip is a great idea.
By the way, do this sort of thing at least twice before putting a
ring on any woman's finger.
5) GO TO THE ABSOLUTE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE AND
OK, last time I showed you the first three out of five ways you can
get a woman who is attracted to you to fall totally head-over-heels
in love with you.
Having read over the first part again, I now realize I told you
that I had TWO notes regarding giving her a massage...but had run out
of time last time to give you the second one.
So let's not leave you hanging any longer.
3) GIVE HER A MASSAGE (CONTINUED)
Having read the first installment of this two-part newsletter, you
already know how to surprise your favorite woman with a massage,
and you also know the special significance of giving her a foot
massage.
And here's that all-important SECOND note I had for you...and it's a
really good one.
You should indeed have her feeling completely relaxed and purring
like a kitten...which is one of those moments that makes life so
wonderful.
She should be putty in your hands--and gladly so, since you're so
clearly demonstrating that you know how to keep her best interests
at heart.
Similarly, you likely also already know how much women CRAVE spa
days.
They LOVE to be pampered, and your woman is no exception.
So getting that kind of treatment from a man she truly adores is
just about the ultimate exhilarating experience for just about any
woman.
Knowing that, I'm going to personally come over to your house and
whack you upside the head with my trusty 2x4 if you don't do THIS
next.
Whisper in her ear that you'll be right back...and that you're going
to get a bubble bath ready for the two of you.
Don't ASK if she'd like a bubble bath. TELL her you're going to
get it ready.
And DON'T lose your composure like a twitchy hairless terrier
(named Cosmo).
Just let her relax and bask in her bliss for a minute or two while
you start the warm bath and light candles.
Pity the fool whose apartment only has a shower stall and no
bathtub...and even more so the guy who HAS a bathtub, yet hasn't
thought to invest in some tropical-scented bubble bath potion and a
few candles.
Now, at this point someone is thinking, "You've got to be kidding
me. There's no way."
YES way.
You just stay focused on igniting her femininity and enjoying it.
Avoid being all but obsessed about having sex with her and you'll
REALLY LIKE how naturally all of this flows together.
Women are unafraid of indulging in that which can only be described
as "sensual".
So when you know how to differentiate "sensual" from "sexual" you
all but galvanize the attraction a woman feels toward you as well
as her comfort level with you.
You've got to give that whole scenario some love yourself, no doubt
Then return to her, take her by the hand and lead her to the
bathroom. If you can sweep her up and carry her there, all the
better.
Finally, just enjoy taking off the rest of each other's clothes and
soaking in the bubbles together.
Well, not finally. There's more. Someday I'll give you even more
to work with here.
4) TAKE HER ON A ROAD TRIP
If she's attracted to you, she probably can't wait to get to know
you better. A LOT better.
And let's face it, the better you know each other the more intimate
your relationship will be at every level.
The less you feel like strangers, the more you feel like partners.
The problem for most new couples is that they go on a two or three
hour date a couple of times per week, max...assuming they live
relatively close to each other.
(Don't even get me started on that one.)
Well, how are you supposed to get to know each other in such short
"hit and run" spurts like that?
You CAN'T.
So how do you solve the problem?
You plan a road trip, that's how.
If you know how to listen, you've already figured out what she
likes to do and where she'd like to visit.
So make a plan. Set aside a weekend and spend some real
"windshield time" together.
In fact, if the two of you can coordinate some time off from work
together, make it a three-to-five day trip and splurge for plane
tickets to wherever the rental car will be waiting for you.
Get away...together. But make SURE to do lot's of driving around.
Simply put, if you continue to get along incredibly well when
you're sequestered in a car together for 1000 miles or so, that's a
GREAT sign.
It means you'll be that much CLOSER to each other, and that much
further along in the "get to know you" process.
And hey, if you end up at each other's throats instead, at least
you'll know what's up.
Either way, planning the trip is a great idea.
By the way, do this sort of thing at least twice before putting a
ring on any woman's finger.
5) GO TO THE ABSOLUTE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE AND
JUST TALK
You've seen this in movies time and again, and you know it works
like catnip with women.
Yet, we as guys are either too lazy or too intimidated by
"conversation" to make it happen, aren't we?
You know she likes you. You know she trusts you.
So figure out a safe but secluded place where nobody else is likely
to be around, grab a blanket, and just take her there.
Give the weather a quick check. Clear is great, partly cloudy is
better. Make sure it isn't going to be windy.
Know what the temperature is going to be like, and bring an extra
jacket for her even if the projected low temp still seems warmish
to you.
Andthe killer : Give the lunar calendar a quick check. Plan this
evening together on a night where there is either full moonlight or
NO moonlight.
In fact, if you can get far enough out of town where the city
lights are long gone, go ahead and aim for the stars. It's
amazing. Save the moonlight for the second time around.
Pick her up and take her to your location of choice right before
sunset starts, and enjoy the sunset.
Hang out until the sunset gives way to moonlight or an incredible
starlit splendor.
Allow that feeling that the two of you are all that matters in the
whole universe to take over...and enjoy the feeling of masculine
power that gives you.
There's no way she'd be out there by herself, is there?
The sunset will have given you plenty to talk about, as the stars
will give you even more.
From there, the conversation gets deeper and deeper...and so will her
intense desire for you.
As always, it's important not to get sexually impatient here.
ENJOY getting to know her. Really. Discover what really makes
each other tick.
There's plenty of time for more "physical" stuff later. So be
careful how soon you look into her eyes and kiss her. Things tend
to progress rather fast from there.
Remember, be CAREFUL. All of this is intensely powerful stuff.
Indeed, what I've shared with you in this newsletter and the last
one are pretty much the diametric opposite of "charm throttling".
And I guarantee you that the woman you're with hasn't met a guy who
"gets it" as much as you in quite some time, if ever.
So be sure to put plans like these into action ONLY when you know
for sure that you've got a woman in your life who you really do
sense has long-term potential.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I've been doing all-nighters making sure EVERYTHING is
covered and that the quality is primo.
But yes...at this point the core components of The Man's Approach are
finally finished.
HOWEVER, now I've decided that I want to give you even more...and
that's what I'm working on even as you read this.
Let's just say that starting in about three weeks, EVERY great man
on Earth will have precisely what he needs--on demand--to step up and
meet the high-quality woman of HIS choice.
The Man's Approach has been driven by YOUR questions and
suggestions, so it has been carefully crafted from the ground up to
give you EXACTLY what you've been asking for from me.
As long as my entireteam and I keep the pedal to the metal, you
can indeed expect to get your hands on it around the 25th of this
month.
www.themansapproach.com
=====
If you like what you've read, please feel free to forward this
newsletter to others. Help a friend out.
In fact, did a friend forward YOU this message? To receive this
newsletter for men from X & Y Communications on a regular basis,
simply visit our main portal...
www.deservewhatyouwant.com
...drop your email in the annoying popup window, and download "Get
The First Date...And The Second Date" for free. Or, just send a
blank email to xandy@aweber.com. Easy stuff.
X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
entertainment purposes only and is not intended to constitute
professional advice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2010. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.
You've seen this in movies time and again, and you know it works
like catnip with women.
Yet, we as guys are either too lazy or too intimidated by
"conversation" to make it happen, aren't we?
You know she likes you. You know she trusts you.
So figure out a safe but secluded place where nobody else is likely
to be around, grab a blanket, and just take her there.
Give the weather a quick check. Clear is great, partly cloudy is
better. Make sure it isn't going to be windy.
Know what the temperature is going to be like, and bring an extra
jacket for her even if the projected low temp still seems warmish
to you.
And
evening together on a night where there is either full moonlight or
NO moonlight.
In fact, if you can get far enough out of town where the city
lights are long gone, go ahead and aim for the stars. It's
amazing. Save the moonlight for the second time around.
Pick her up and take her to your location of choice right before
sunset starts, and enjoy the sunset.
Hang out until the sunset gives way to moonlight or an incredible
starlit splendor.
Allow that feeling that the two of you are all that matters in the
whole universe to take over...and enjoy the feeling of masculine
power that gives you.
There's no way she'd be out there by herself, is there?
The sunset will have given you plenty to talk about, as the stars
will give you even more.
From there, the conversation gets deeper and deeper...and so will her
intense desire for you.
As always, it's important not to get sexually impatient here.
ENJOY getting to know her. Really. Discover what really makes
each other tick.
There's plenty of time for more "physical" stuff later. So be
careful how soon you look into her eyes and kiss her. Things tend
to progress rather fast from there.
Remember, be CAREFUL. All of this is intensely powerful stuff.
Indeed, what I've shared with you in this newsletter and the last
one are pretty much the diametric opposite of "charm throttling".
And I guarantee you that the woman you're with hasn't met a guy who
"gets it" as much as you in quite some time, if ever.
So be sure to put plans like these into action ONLY when you know
for sure that you've got a woman in your life who you really do
sense has long-term potential.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I've been doing all-nighters making sure EVERYTHING is
covered and that the quality is primo.
But yes...at this point the core components of The Man's Approach are
finally finished.
HOWEVER, now I've decided that I want to give you even more...and
that's what I'm working on even as you read this.
Let's just say that starting in about three weeks, EVERY great man
on Earth will have precisely what he needs--on demand--to step up and
meet the high-quality woman of HIS choice.
The Man's Approach has been driven by YOUR questions and
suggestions, so it has been carefully crafted from the ground up to
give you EXACTLY what you've been asking for from me.
As long as my entire
can indeed expect to get your hands on it around the 25th of this
month.
www.themansapproach.com
=====
If you like what you've read, please feel free to forward this
newsletter to others. Help a friend out.
In fact, did a friend forward YOU this message? To receive this
newsletter for men from X & Y Communications on a regular basis,
simply visit our main portal...
www.deservewhatyouwant.com
...drop your email in the annoying popup window, and download "Get
The First Date...And The Second Date" for free. Or, just send a
blank email to xandy@aweber.com. Easy stuff.
X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
professional advice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2010. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.