[X&Y] 6 "Secret Moves" That Make Women Hot For You
Published: Thu, 08/12/10
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are six different ways to make a woman
physically HOT for you that you may never have discovered before.
When it comes to turning a woman on and bringing out her wild side,
why not be a man with options? A little creativity goes a LONG way
with women...
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LAST CALL FOR AUTHENTIC SEXUAL POWER
Last time I told you about how the guys at AMP had openedthe doors
once again on their amazingly popular Authentic Sexual Power
program...but this time at 50% OFF what it was last year.
As expected, you have responded POWERFULLY to this.
And that's for good reason.
After all, I know first-hand that what's in there is THE definitive
plan for taking your intimate relationship with the woman in your
life (or soon to be in your life) to the ultimate level in
passionate fulfillment.
And now a WHOLE LOT of you know that also.
But here's the thing.
This half-off opportunity ends TOMORROW NIGHT at midnight. After
that, it goes back to full price FOREVER and some of the bonuses
are going away.
They didn't say whether that's happening at midnight Eastern
Daylight Time or what, so I'd click this link and get in on this
now just to make sure:
Authentic Sexual Power
When you factor in that the AMP guys are forking over some special
one-time bonuses THIS WEEK ONLY, that makes getting Authentic
Sexual Power now rather than later even more of a no-brainer.
In addition to the already stacked core program, you'll get "The
Integrator Sexual Embodiment Workbook" featuring 15 practices
designed to help you open the emotional, physical and sexual
channels in your body and mind.
Plus, you'll get a massive 9 HOURS of additional insights from
AMP's own Decker on how to rock your world (and hers) with amazing
new sexual possibilities:
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are six different ways to make a woman
physically HOT for you that you may never have discovered before.
When it comes to turning a woman on and bringing out her wild side,
why not be a man with options? A little creativity goes a LONG way
with women...
=====
LAST CALL FOR AUTHENTIC SEXUAL POWER
Last time I told you about how the guys at AMP had opened
once again on their amazingly popular Authentic Sexual Power
program...but this time at 50% OFF what it was last year.
As expected, you have responded POWERFULLY to this.
And that's for good reason.
After all, I know first-hand that what's in there is THE definitive
plan for taking your intimate relationship with the woman in your
life (or soon to be in your life) to the ultimate level in
passionate fulfillment.
And now a WHOLE LOT of you know that also.
But here's the thing.
This half-off opportunity ends TOMORROW NIGHT at midnight. After
that, it goes back to full price FOREVER and some of the bonuses
are going away.
They didn't say whether that's happening at midnight Eastern
Daylight Time or what, so I'd click this link and get in on this
now just to make sure:
Authentic Sexual Power
When you factor in that the AMP guys are forking over some special
one-time bonuses THIS WEEK ONLY, that makes getting Authentic
Sexual Power now rather than later even more of a no-brainer.
In addition to the already stacked core program, you'll get "The
Integrator Sexual Embodiment Workbook" featuring 15 practices
designed to help you open the emotional, physical and sexual
channels in your body and mind.
Plus, you'll get a massive 9 HOURS of additional insights from
AMP's own Decker on how to rock your world (and hers) with amazing
new sexual possibilities:
Authentic Sexual Power
By the way, I haven't had the chance to go through all nine hours
of Decker's bonus yet, but what I've seen is right on the money and
will surely deliver you some MAGICAL results.
Let's just say that when Decker started talking about "hip biting"
somewhere in there, I had to smile. This is the kind of stuff that
most of us as guys just will never find out on our own by accident.
In fact, I have to say I was inspired.
So read on for 6 of my own "secret moves" you can do to make a
woman HOT for you...as in IMMEDIATELY, right there on the spot.
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SIX "SECRET MOVES" THAT MAKE WOMEN HOT FOR YOU
Yes, it's true.
Emily and I have put our Netflix queue on hold and have instead
been giving our copy of AMP's Authentic Sexual Power its
well-deserved turn on our DVD player.
And so as you might imagine, we've been left thinking a lot about
sex the past couple of days.
This, of course, isn't such a bad thing...at all.
But the only reason you'd possibly care about that is if it
resulted in me sharing some REAL PRACTICAL input with you on how
you could take our "thought processes" and put them to work for YOU
in YOUR relationships with women, right?
Fair enough.
So grab a cold one and kick back for this particular edition of the
newsletter.
After all, what you're about to read is going to be about as close
to "sex advice" as you'll ever hear from us.
And yes, I said "us". All of what lies ahead was pretty much a
"joint effort" by both Emily and I.
Here are a full half-dozen physical things you can do--let's call
them "secret moves", just for fun--that are absolutely guaranteed to
make a woman meow with sexual anticipation with you...immediately.
Now granted, the caveat here is that we've all got to assume that
you actually KNOW her she's at the very least ATTRACTED to you
already.
In other words, you can't just walk up to any woman on the street
and do this stuff. You'll get arrested.
But you're a big boy now and you know that. Still, I've got to
cover my legal bases here.
Enough already...here's the friggin' list:
1) Discover The Nape Of Her Neck
Ask just about any woman and she'll tell you. There's just
SOMETHING about giving the nape of her neck attention that drives
her wild.
All you really have to do is get close to her and breathe on it,
actually...even (and especially) subtly.
In fact, you can softly breathe on the side of her neck, the front
of her neck OR the back of her neck. It drives women absolutely
nuts...in a very good way.
If she smells great, so much the better. Enjoy that, and she'll
enjoy the fact that you're enjoying it.
And if you go head and softly kiss her there a few seconds later,
expect her to giggle and squirm a little.
But here's the clincher.
Find the very spot on the back of her neck where her hairline ends.
On most women there's just a small bit of "peach fuzz" right
there. Lift her hair up, if necessary and bite it. In fact, bite
it right off.
2) Turn Into A Vampire...Temporarily
OK, while we're visiting about a woman's neck here, I've got to
bring this up.
I'm all but certain that you're as underwhelmed by the "Twilight"
flicks as I am, but let's face it...for some crazy reason women
are--and always have been--fascinated by vampire stuff.
And that "crazy reason" is this: Vampires seduce women with an
element of "danger" that NO woman wants in REAL life, but which
EVERY WOMAN fantasizes about.
I personally think it's that latent "naughty" side of a woman that
brings this fantasy out.
"Forbidden love" is a HUGE theme in women's romance novels and the
like, right? This is just another (albeit pretty twisted) version
of all that.
So try this. Walk up behind her, grab her by the shoulders and
simply wrap your teeth softly around that muscle that extends from
her neck to her shoulder.
More precisely, I'm talking about the Trapezius muscle if you want
to get technical, but you probably don't.
What you want to do is just get into position to bite, WITHOUT
biting.
When she giggles with anticipatory pleasure, THAT'S when you give
her the world's softest bite.
But don't be surprised when she wants you to bite harder. I'm
serious.
3) Whisper In Her Ear
OK, so we're already well acquainted with the fact that women love
for you to bring out their "naughty" side.
And sure, you could simply tell her whatever's on your mind as far
as what you have "planned" for the two of you to engage in together.
But NOTHING truly ramps up genuine, bona fide naughtiness like
SECRECY.
Welcome to why sending sexual "zingers" via text message when she's
in the middle of a board meeting is so thrilling for her.
In large part, it's because NOBODY ELSE KNOWS about it. It's just
between the two of you.
Whispering in a woman's ear has exactly that same effect.
Although whispering "naughty nothings" in her ear is especially
potent when you're around a group of other people, there's no rule
that says you can't do so in the privacy of your own home instead.
It'll still work magnificently, in part because it'll still FEEL
like a secret to her...which will register as decidedly playful
considering nobody else is around.
Besides, there's something that's just flat-out sensual about
hearing someone else's voice so close up. It just sends a tingle
up your spine, right?
4) Trace Her Profile
No, no. I don't mean run a background check on her or make sure
she's canceled her Match.com account.
What I'm talking about here is actually one of the most simple but
overlooked maneuvers you can imagine.
While kissing her, or right before you're ABOUT to kiss her, simply
lift your gaze to the top of her forehead (or keep looking in her
eyes, your choice) and softly trace the tip of your forefinger
downward from the top of her forehead, over the bridge of her nose,
and down to her chin.
What you're looking for here is for her to bite your finger at the
precisely appropriate moment. Outstanding.
5) Bite Her Lip
The next time you kiss her, why make it the same old boring lip
lock?
Instead, softly bite her top lip and HOLD IT for a brief second.
Then turn your head to the other side and continue.
There's just this hint of deeper passionate intent that finds its
way to the surface when you do that.
She'll read that sign like the morning news, gentlemen. And she'll
LIKE the message you're sending.
By the way, if she actually bites YOUR lip first you can consider
that "permission" to step things up a notch.
In fact, you already know that when a woman bites her lip softly
while interacting with you in ANY way (even conversation) that you
usually feel something move in your boxers.
That's because it's a universal signal of imminent sexual desire.
You gotta love it.
6) Inhale Her Exhale
Here's another particularly brilliant move you can make while
kissing her.
Obviously, the "ram your tongue down her throat" style is much
maligned by 100% of women out there.
This is not only because it telegraphs a decidedly overeager sense
of desperation, it's because it flat-out lacks finesse, dude.
Granted, we're men here, so "finesse" can seem like an evil word.
"Finesse" defenses may not win NFL championships, but I'm telling
you that finesse when it comes to kissing a woman will make you a
champion in a woman's eyes.
Kissing is as much a spiritual act as a physical act, assuming
you're doing it right and getting the most out of it.
Have you ever heard a woman say she believes kissing is more
intimate than sex? That sounds preposterous, but there could be
something to it.
So what could be more intimate than literally sharing each other's
breath?
Try inhaling her exhale as you kiss.
She'll instinctively know what you're doing and it'll create this
almost supernatural connection between you. There's a synchronicity
there that's unmistakable. It's really amazing.
In fact, did you know that the ancient Greek word for "breath" is
actually a very close variant of the word for "soul"? I think
those guys knew what they were talking about.
Breathe in a woman's exhale and her soul sort of becomes part of
you in the moment...literally.
I have to tell you, I took particular enjoyment in writing this all
down for you.
You probably noticed that the six ideas I included aren't
necessarily the OBVIOUS choices.
Yeah, yeah. You can start pillow fights, tickle each other, grab a
handful of hair while kissing her and/or give her a foot massage.
But all of those have been written about enough by both myself and
others.
This list, on the other hand, has been devoted to sharing "secret"
moves.
Not to say "original", because for every bullet point above it's
likely that at least five of you are going to e-mail me saying
you've been doing that for years (and with great success, I'm
sure).
If, however, at least a few of these have caused a "light bulb" to
go on for you, by all means give them a try...and soon.
And hey, if all of this talk about getting women frisky has
inspired YOU, why not dream up a few "secret moves" of your own?
Be Good,
And so as you might imagine, we've been left thinking a lot about
sex the past couple of days.
This, of course, isn't such a bad thing...at all.
But the only reason you'd possibly care about that is if it
resulted in me sharing some REAL PRACTICAL input with you on how
you could take our "thought processes" and put them to work for YOU
in YOUR relationships with women, right?
Fair enough.
So grab a cold one and kick back for this particular edition of the
newsletter.
After all, what you're about to read is going to be about as close
to "sex advice" as you'll ever hear from us.
And yes, I said "us". All of what lies ahead was pretty much a
"joint effort" by both Emily and I.
Here are a full half-dozen physical things you can do--let's call
them "secret moves", just for fun--that are absolutely guaranteed to
make a woman meow with sexual anticipation with you...immediately.
Now granted, the caveat here is that we've all got to assume that
you actually KNOW her she's at the very least ATTRACTED to you
already.
In other words, you can't just walk up to any woman on the street
and do this stuff. You'll get arrested.
But you're a big boy now and you know that. Still, I've got to
cover my legal bases here.
Enough already...here's the friggin' list:
1) Discover The Nape Of Her Neck
Ask just about any woman and she'll tell you. There's just
SOMETHING about giving the nape of her neck attention that drives
her wild.
All you really have to do is get close to her and breathe on it,
actually...even (and especially) subtly.
In fact, you can softly breathe on the side of her neck, the front
of her neck OR the back of her neck. It drives women absolutely
nuts...in a very good way.
If she smells great, so much the better. Enjoy that, and she'll
enjoy the fact that you're enjoying it.
And if you go head and softly kiss her there a few seconds later,
expect her to giggle and squirm a little.
But here's the clincher.
Find the very spot on the back of her neck where her hairline ends.
On most women there's just a small bit of "peach fuzz" right
there. Lift her hair up, if necessary and bite it. In fact, bite
it right off.
2) Turn Into A Vampire...Temporarily
OK, while we're visiting about a woman's neck here, I've got to
bring this up.
I'm all but certain that you're as underwhelmed by the "Twilight"
flicks as I am, but let's face it...for some crazy reason women
are--and always have been--fascinated by vampire stuff.
And that "crazy reason" is this: Vampires seduce women with an
element of "danger" that NO woman wants in REAL life, but which
EVERY WOMAN fantasizes about.
I personally think it's that latent "naughty" side of a woman that
brings this fantasy out.
"Forbidden love" is a HUGE theme in women's romance novels and the
like, right? This is just another (albeit pretty twisted) version
of all that.
So try this. Walk up behind her, grab her by the shoulders and
simply wrap your teeth softly around that muscle that extends from
her neck to her shoulder.
More precisely, I'm talking about the Trapezius muscle if you want
to get technical, but you probably don't.
What you want to do is just get into position to bite, WITHOUT
biting.
When she giggles with anticipatory pleasure, THAT'S when you give
her the world's softest bite.
But don't be surprised when she wants you to bite harder. I'm
serious.
3) Whisper In Her Ear
OK, so we're already well acquainted with the fact that women love
for you to bring out their "naughty" side.
And sure, you could simply tell her whatever's on your mind as far
as what you have "planned" for the two of you to engage in together.
But NOTHING truly ramps up genuine, bona fide naughtiness like
SECRECY.
Welcome to why sending sexual "zingers" via text message when she's
in the middle of a board meeting is so thrilling for her.
In large part, it's because NOBODY ELSE KNOWS about it. It's just
between the two of you.
Whispering in a woman's ear has exactly that same effect.
Although whispering "naughty nothings" in her ear is especially
potent when you're around a group of other people, there's no rule
that says you can't do so in the privacy of your own home instead.
It'll still work magnificently, in part because it'll still FEEL
like a secret to her...which will register as decidedly playful
considering nobody else is around.
Besides, there's something that's just flat-out sensual about
hearing someone else's voice so close up. It just sends a tingle
up your spine, right?
4) Trace Her Profile
No, no. I don't mean run a background check on her or make sure
she's canceled her Match.com account.
What I'm talking about here is actually one of the most simple but
overlooked maneuvers you can imagine.
While kissing her, or right before you're ABOUT to kiss her, simply
lift your gaze to the top of her forehead (or keep looking in her
eyes, your choice) and softly trace the tip of your forefinger
downward from the top of her forehead, over the bridge of her nose,
and down to her chin.
What you're looking for here is for her to bite your finger at the
precisely appropriate moment. Outstanding.
5) Bite Her Lip
The next time you kiss her, why make it the same old boring lip
lock?
Instead, softly bite her top lip and HOLD IT for a brief second.
Then turn your head to the other side and continue.
There's just this hint of deeper passionate intent that finds its
way to the surface when you do that.
She'll read that sign like the morning news, gentlemen. And she'll
LIKE the message you're sending.
By the way, if she actually bites YOUR lip first you can consider
that "permission" to step things up a notch.
In fact, you already know that when a woman bites her lip softly
while interacting with you in ANY way (even conversation) that you
usually feel something move in your boxers.
That's because it's a universal signal of imminent sexual desire.
You gotta love it.
6) Inhale Her Exhale
Here's another particularly brilliant move you can make while
kissing her.
Obviously, the "ram your tongue down her throat" style is much
maligned by 100% of women out there.
This is not only because it telegraphs a decidedly overeager sense
of desperation, it's because it flat-out lacks finesse, dude.
Granted, we're men here, so "finesse" can seem like an evil word.
"Finesse" defenses may not win NFL championships, but I'm telling
you that finesse when it comes to kissing a woman will make you a
champion in a woman's eyes.
Kissing is as much a spiritual act as a physical act, assuming
you're doing it right and getting the most out of it.
Have you ever heard a woman say she believes kissing is more
intimate than sex? That sounds preposterous, but there could be
something to it.
So what could be more intimate than literally sharing each other's
breath?
Try inhaling her exhale as you kiss.
She'll instinctively know what you're doing and it'll create this
almost supernatural connection between you. There's a synchronicity
there that's unmistakable. It's really amazing.
In fact, did you know that the ancient Greek word for "breath" is
actually a very close variant of the word for "soul"? I think
those guys knew what they were talking about.
Breathe in a woman's exhale and her soul sort of becomes part of
you in the moment...literally.
I have to tell you, I took particular enjoyment in writing this all
down for you.
You probably noticed that the six ideas I included aren't
necessarily the OBVIOUS choices.
Yeah, yeah. You can start pillow fights, tickle each other, grab a
handful of hair while kissing her and/or give her a foot massage.
But all of those have been written about enough by both myself and
others.
This list, on the other hand, has been devoted to sharing "secret"
moves.
Not to say "original", because for every bullet point above it's
likely that at least five of you are going to e-mail me saying
you've been doing that for years (and with great success, I'm
sure).
If, however, at least a few of these have caused a "light bulb" to
go on for you, by all means give them a try...and soon.
And hey, if all of this talk about getting women frisky has
inspired YOU, why not dream up a few "secret moves" of your own?
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Next time, I've got one of those golden topics for you that
are my favorite kind: INCREDIBLY useful, yet which NOBODY has ever
written about. Stay tuned...
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this newsletter to others. After all, your friends probably could
use an extra measure of success with women also.
In fact, did a friend forward YOU this message? That's a good friend
indeed. To make sure you receive this newsletter for men from X & Y
Communications on a regular basis without future intervention from
said friend, simply visit our main portal...
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...drop your email in the annoying popup window, and download "Get
The First Date...And The Second Date" for f-r-e-e. Or, just send a
blank email to xandy@aweber.com. We made it easy on purpose.
X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's straight talk about the most creative subjects,
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Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
"professional advice". You are responsible for your own decisions in
life (which we hope will include meeting more high quality women).
Any external links in this e-mail should be understood to be affiliate
links. Purchases made through them help support X & Y Communications
podcasts, this newsletter, and all the other cool content that you get
from us that costs nothing...and keeps the good stuff coming your way.
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doesn't only apply to dating around here.