[X&Y] Are You Paying Too Much For Dates? (Hint: ANYTHING Is Too Much)
Published: Sun, 09/12/10
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: You get to the end of the dinner date, and the
waiter hands you the bill. Now what? Should you pay the bill,
split it in half, or what? Check out my surprising answer below...
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IT'S GETTING TO BE FALL, AND WOMEN ARE SICK OF NOT
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WHAT'S INSIDE: You get to the end of the dinner date, and the
waiter hands you the bill. Now what? Should you pay the bill,
split it in half, or what? Check out my surprising answer below...
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IT'S GETTING TO BE FALL, AND WOMEN ARE SICK OF NOT
HAVING A GUY LIKE YOU IN THEIR LIVES
Okay, here's the deal. The "unofficial end of summer" was
last Monday, which means everyone is buckling down and getting
busy again.
And there are PLENTY of amazing women out there who DIDN'T find
their "summer romance" or whatever you want to call it.
Since that's true, it's altogether possible that means that YOU
didn't find THEM either.
Well if I've told you once I've told you a friggin' THOUSAND
TIMES: Online Dating is the FASTEST and EASIEST way to get
yourself in front of more high quality women than you well
anywhere else.
Still thinking that the good women aren't online?
Think again. For starters, I myself found a TERRIFIC woman online.
Plus, I continue to hear from guys who are meeting hot nurses, sweet
and sexy Kindergarten teachers--even actresses and/or their local TV
weather chick...all online.
So check it out. I'm probably even MORE CONVINCED that you
should be online than YOU ARE right now...but you'll thank me when
you finally get there.
And I also know you're going to need my Online Dating Domination
program in order to cut through all the "trial and error" and
get the secrets to online dating success down pat RIGHT NOW.
So here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to take a cue from
none other than Priceline.com and let you "name your own price"
for Online Dating Domination.
Sound like a plan? Well then, here's what you need to do:
1) Go to this link and read about Online Dating Domination,
taking note of all the killer content that's included:
Online Dating Domination
2) Next, Paypal WHATEVER AMOUNT YOU THINK IT'S WORTH to this
address:
secure@xandycommunications.net
3) I'll send you access to the EXACT SAME Member's Area that
you'd get if you bought through the website.
4) All that I ask is that you send me what you REALLY think
the program is worth, and that you give me GOOD, SOLID FEEDBACK
since we're going to be adding even more content to the program
soon.
Be sure to jump on this opportunity, guys. If this goes well
I'll do something similar for The Leading Man.
And now, let's hear from Kemal, who's got a REAL problem he needs
a solution to...
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ARE YOU PAYING TOO MUCH FOR DATES?
I just got the following message from a guy last night, and I
wanted to share it with you:
How's it going, Scot:
Tell you what - English is not my native tongue still I'll try to
get myself across.
Who pays??? I got it firmly fixed in my cerebral cortex that if you
buy her drinks/meals your dating game is lost. So the waiter hands
us two the bill. I leave a pause. The silence becomes excruciating.
What happens next - she either coughs up her share with a look of
defiance as though saying "you fucken cheapskate" or, with even more
defiance, out loud, "You're a man so you must pay!". In both cases,
you're the loser because the rapport is crushed to the ground.
There is no second date afterwards. How do i handle that?
Yours,
Kemal
My answer to Kemal was very simple: Whoever INVITES pays.
Since you're a man in control of his reality, that means you should
definitely take the bull by the horns and be the one who MAKES PLANS
with a woman.
I mean, think about it. This is just human nature at work.
If someone were to invite you somewhere cool, you'd probably go.
Right? But what if that same friend said at the end of the whole
experience, "Hey man, go ahead and pick up the tab for this one...I
know you won't mind."
You probably wouldn't hang out with him much anymore, would you? I
mean some friend, right?
Look, I get it. I understand that we've all been taught that
throwing a lot of money at women we barely know will basically cause
her to lose respect for you and think of you as a "walking ATM
machine".
And make no mistake about it, that's VERY true.
So it's NO WONDER that Kemal is writing me. What a mess, right?
Well, fortunately there's a VERY SIMPLE, UNCOMPLICATED solution to
this problem:
STOP TAKING WOMEN OUT ON EXPENSIVE DATES...
Okay, here's the deal. The "unofficial end of summer" was
last Monday, which means everyone is buckling down and getting
busy again.
And there are PLENTY of amazing women out there who DIDN'T find
their "summer romance" or whatever you want to call it.
Since that's true, it's altogether possible that means that YOU
didn't find THEM either.
Well if I've told you once I've told you a friggin' THOUSAND
TIMES: Online Dating is the FASTEST and EASIEST way to get
yourself in front of more high quality women than you well
anywhere else.
Still thinking that the good women aren't online?
Think again. For starters, I myself found a TERRIFIC woman online.
Plus, I continue to hear from guys who are meeting hot nurses, sweet
and sexy Kindergarten teachers--even actresses and/or their local TV
weather chick...all online.
So check it out. I'm probably even MORE CONVINCED that you
should be online than YOU ARE right now...but you'll thank me when
you finally get there.
And I also know you're going to need my Online Dating Domination
program in order to cut through all the "trial and error" and
get the secrets to online dating success down pat RIGHT NOW.
So here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to take a cue from
none other than Priceline.com and let you "name your own price"
for Online Dating Domination.
Sound like a plan? Well then, here's what you need to do:
1) Go to this link and read about Online Dating Domination,
taking note of all the killer content that's included:
Online Dating Domination
2) Next, Paypal WHATEVER AMOUNT YOU THINK IT'S WORTH to this
address:
secure@xandycommunications.net
3) I'll send you access to the EXACT SAME Member's Area that
you'd get if you bought through the website.
4) All that I ask is that you send me what you REALLY think
the program is worth, and that you give me GOOD, SOLID FEEDBACK
since we're going to be adding even more content to the program
soon.
Be sure to jump on this opportunity, guys. If this goes well
I'll do something similar for The Leading Man.
And now, let's hear from Kemal, who's got a REAL problem he needs
a solution to...
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ARE YOU PAYING TOO MUCH FOR DATES?
I just got the following message from a guy last night, and I
wanted to share it with you:
How's it going, Scot:
Tell you what - English is not my native tongue still I'll try to
get myself across.
Who pays??? I got it firmly fixed in my cerebral cortex that if you
buy her drinks/meals your dating game is lost. So the waiter hands
us two the bill. I leave a pause. The silence becomes excruciating.
What happens next - she either coughs up her share with a look of
defiance as though saying "you fucken cheapskate" or, with even more
defiance, out loud, "You're a man so you must pay!". In both cases,
you're the loser because the rapport is crushed to the ground.
There is no second date afterwards. How do i handle that?
Yours,
Kemal
My answer to Kemal was very simple: Whoever INVITES pays.
Since you're a man in control of his reality, that means you should
definitely take the bull by the horns and be the one who MAKES PLANS
with a woman.
I mean, think about it. This is just human nature at work.
If someone were to invite you somewhere cool, you'd probably go.
Right? But what if that same friend said at the end of the whole
experience, "Hey man, go ahead and pick up the tab for this one...I
know you won't mind."
You probably wouldn't hang out with him much anymore, would you? I
mean some friend, right?
Look, I get it. I understand that we've all been taught that
throwing a lot of money at women we barely know will basically cause
her to lose respect for you and think of you as a "walking ATM
machine".
And make no mistake about it, that's VERY true.
So it's NO WONDER that Kemal is writing me. What a mess, right?
Well, fortunately there's a VERY SIMPLE, UNCOMPLICATED solution to
this problem:
STOP TAKING WOMEN OUT ON EXPENSIVE DATES...
ESPECIALLY "DINNER DATES"
Unfortunately, "dinner and a movie" is pretty much embedded in our
conscience as the default plan for taking a woman out.
But what if I told you there was a BETTER WAY?
What if you could create WAY, WAY more attraction...all the while
doing something with a woman that you both actually ENJOY?
And what if your new way of planning time with women caused THEM to
want to get frisky with you FIRST?
And best of all, what if you could get all of that done while
spending FAR less money...maybe even NONE AT ALL?
Here's what you do. Simply plan a get-together where you and her
go somewhere and simply GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER?
It could be a park. It could be downtown in the city. It could
be ANYWHERE, really.
If you feel like you've succeeded at causing her to feel safe with
you, take her somewhere where you can throw a blanket down and just
stare at the stars.
Ask her about her dreams. If the opportunity comes up to share a
funny story or a joke...do so.
Remember always. You do NOT "impress" a woman by spending money on
her and/or piling on the "pressure".
If a woman is truly into YOU, all she really want's is to explore
your "connection" together.
By simply focusing on each other somewhere you can be alone, you
really heighten a woman's SENSUALITY. She's going to be EXCITED to
be interacting with you.
From there you can do thinks like look into her eyes and smile,
whisper in her ear, thumb wrestle...whatever.
I really hope that doesn't sound "lame" to you. It's not "macho"
by any stretch, but representing to a woman what she wants in a man
is MASCULINE by her standard of measurement.
She feels safe with you. You're confidently leading. You show
character by not being opportunistic in your desire to get your
hands all over her.
In short...you're a "Big Four" man.
And make no mistake about it: When you lead with what inspires
SENSUALITY in her, it comes back to you as SEXUALITY.
You can throw "sexual inuendoes" and "escalating kino" out the
window. Try the simple steps I'm suggesting and she's likely to
ask you, "How long are you going to make me wait?"
And again...you can get the job done with little ore even NO MONEY
spent whatsoever.
Have a great Sunday, gentlemen. If you're in the US, you've gotta
love the start of the new NFL season. May your team crush it today.
...And may YOU stop spending so much on dates.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. If all of that sounds not just okay but GREAT to you, it's
time to get your hands on that Extra Value Module in The Man's
Approach called:
12 'Date Replacing' Escapades That Make Her Want To
conscience as the default plan for taking a woman out.
But what if I told you there was a BETTER WAY?
What if you could create WAY, WAY more attraction...all the while
doing something with a woman that you both actually ENJOY?
And what if your new way of planning time with women caused THEM to
want to get frisky with you FIRST?
And best of all, what if you could get all of that done while
spending FAR less money...maybe even NONE AT ALL?
Here's what you do. Simply plan a get-together where you and her
go somewhere and simply GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER?
It could be a park. It could be downtown in the city. It could
be ANYWHERE, really.
If you feel like you've succeeded at causing her to feel safe with
you, take her somewhere where you can throw a blanket down and just
stare at the stars.
Ask her about her dreams. If the opportunity comes up to share a
funny story or a joke...do so.
Remember always. You do NOT "impress" a woman by spending money on
her and/or piling on the "pressure".
If a woman is truly into YOU, all she really want's is to explore
your "connection" together.
By simply focusing on each other somewhere you can be alone, you
really heighten a woman's SENSUALITY. She's going to be EXCITED to
be interacting with you.
From there you can do thinks like look into her eyes and smile,
whisper in her ear, thumb wrestle...whatever.
I really hope that doesn't sound "lame" to you. It's not "macho"
by any stretch, but representing to a woman what she wants in a man
is MASCULINE by her standard of measurement.
She feels safe with you. You're confidently leading. You show
character by not being opportunistic in your desire to get your
hands all over her.
In short...you're a "Big Four" man.
And make no mistake about it: When you lead with what inspires
SENSUALITY in her, it comes back to you as SEXUALITY.
You can throw "sexual inuendoes" and "escalating kino" out the
window. Try the simple steps I'm suggesting and she's likely to
ask you, "How long are you going to make me wait?"
And again...you can get the job done with little ore even NO MONEY
spent whatsoever.
Have a great Sunday, gentlemen. If you're in the US, you've gotta
love the start of the new NFL season. May your team crush it today.
...And may YOU stop spending so much on dates.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. If all of that sounds not just okay but GREAT to you, it's
time to get your hands on that Extra Value Module in The Man's
Approach called:
12 'Date Replacing' Escapades That Make Her Want To
Touch You First
That's right. EVERY shred of what I've just described to you is
described in greater detail within JUST ONE of the modules in The
Man's Approach. And I give you a DOZEN specific plans of action
that any man can get right. Check it out here:
http://bit.ly/mansapproach
This is, of course, in addition to the 10 core audios, 12 videos,
12 special reports, 12 special bonuses and the two other extra value
modules...including the one I added just yesterday.
If you haven't taken a look at exactly what The Man's Approach
delivers, be sure to take a REALLY GOOD LOOK. This is the complete
toolkit for getting over the fear of meeting high quality women,
starting conversations with them and--yes--making plans to see them
again:
http://bit.ly/mansapproach
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It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
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"No games" doesn't only apply to dating around here.
described in greater detail within JUST ONE of the modules in The
Man's Approach. And I give you a DOZEN specific plans of action
that any man can get right. Check it out here:
http://bit.ly/mansapproach
This is, of course, in addition to the 10 core audios, 12 videos,
12 special reports, 12 special bonuses and the two other extra value
modules...including the one I added just yesterday.
If you haven't taken a look at exactly what The Man's Approach
delivers, be sure to take a REALLY GOOD LOOK. This is the complete
toolkit for getting over the fear of meeting high quality women,
starting conversations with them and--yes--making plans to see them
again:
http://bit.ly/mansapproach
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2010. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly (and promptly) remove you from our mailing list.
"No games" doesn't only apply to dating around here.