[X&Y] Exactly WHY The Holidays Are Such A Bonanza When It Comes To Meeting Women
Published: Tue, 11/16/10
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: OK, you already know that the Holiday Season is a
great time to meet women. Today I'm going to tell you exactly WHYthat is...and believe me, knowing the details will give you a major
advantage.
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THERE HAS NEVER BEEN A BETTER TIME TO BE ONLINE
In today's newsletter I'm going to talk about why The Holidays are
such a great time to meet women.
But knowing that's the case up front, I'd be remiss if I didn't
remind you that if you do not have an online dating profile up and
working for you RIGHT NOW then you are missing out...and MAJORLY SO.
If this is the flat-out easiest time of the year to meet women (and
it is), then meeting them ONLINE has got to be the single best way
to make it EVEN EASIER.
What's that you say? You've tried online dating and flunked
massively? And so have all your friends?
Well, here's the thing... Online dating IS easy, but ONLY when you
"know the ropes". The select few guys who are in on the secrets
are the ones who are dating ALL the high quality women.
Seriously, this is NOT about whether you're a great guy who
deserves a high quality woman or not. That's not enough in and of
itself when it comes to online dating.
It's about how you present yourself online and the way you go about
contacting women and following up with them.
I'm living proof that this is true.
For the first year or so I was online I was meeting all the WRONG
women, if I was in fact meeting ANY at all.
But once I figured out the "rhythm" to succeeding on Match.com, I
was dating up to three women per DAY and continually "raising the
bar"...up until the day I found myself with THREE WOMEN I felt like I
could be happily married to.
And it was right AFTER THAT I met Emily...online.
So listen up. I've been getting your e-mails, and it sure looks to
me like you're all pretty normal guys out there.
All you REALLY need to do is get in tune with how to succeed
online...and you'll very likely jump right to the head of the line.
And here's the crazy part. You already know that the vast majority
of guys REFUSE to ask directions...even when they're lost on the
interstate.
So you can instinctively guess that the 95% of men who quit online
dating in disgust probably never made even the first move to ensure
some kind of success.
Meanwhile, the 5% who are meeting all the great women? You guessed
it. They're the ones who learned the secrets from someone
else...instead of beating themselves up.
Right here, right now--just in time for the Holiday Season--I'm going
to make it ultra-easy for you to get EXACTLY the "directions" that
virtually zero other guys have the wherewithal (or the guts) to ask
for:
When you click that link above, you'll find the order page for the
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Now, I'll tell you straight up that I don't believe in writing your
online profile for you, despite how those kind of services have
been advertised and hyped elsewhere by others.
The problem is that when your profile isn't written in your own
voice, it's not only tough to update it yourself when you'd like
to, it's all but IMPOSSIBLE to come off as the person you seemed to
be when you actually meet someone in person.
So we created the DateToOrder division of X & Y Communications to
radically change how 1-on-1 online dating training takes place.
With the Online Dating Success Package, you'll start by spending a
full hour on the phone with me crafting a completely killer online
profile in YOUR WORDS that gets results.
But it's not all about the profile, of course. The truth is that
most high quality women spend more time READING e-mails from guys
than they spend SEARCHING profiles.
So you absolutely, positively have GOT to know how to screen for
high quality women online, and you MUST know how to craft an
effective first e-mail.
We'll spend an hour 1-on-1 talking about exactly that...including
writing great e-mails to actual women who are your TOP CHOICES in
your metro area.
And just to make sure you're enjoying the level of success you
expect sooner than later, a 30 minute fine-tuning session is
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That's just to make sure your new online presence is firing on all
cylinders.
Space is very limited for the Online Dating Success Package, as it
involves real time spent on the phone together.
So be sure to reserve your slot now:
And here's a special surprise.
Just to underscore how mission critical it really is to be online
at this time of year, I'm going to fork over a minty-fresh copy of
the complete Online Dating Domination program to the first 20 guys
who get in on the Online Dating Success Package between now and
midnight tomorrow night.
That's a $97 value. What's more, with the combo of Online Dating
Domination and the Online Dating Success Package you'll have just
about every single advantage in your favor necessary to put you on
the fast track.
It's already November 16th, gentlemen. There's really no time for
"trial and error" if you want to meet the kind of high-quality
women online who are looking for a great man this time of year.
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WHY THE HOLIDAYS ARE SUCH A BONANZA WHEN IT COMES TO MEETING WOMEN
I realize that you've probably heard a million times about how the
Holiday Season is the best time to meet a woman.
And that's for good reason. Seriously, it seems like women who
don't have a boyfriend this time of year find themselves on a
MISSION to get one.
Heck, even if they don't have their minds set on getting into an
exclusive relationship, pretty much all of them at least want to
have a guy in their lives...in one capacity or another.
So WHY is this? That's the part that nobody ever really takes the
time to figure out.
But knowing the reasons why could add up to a tremendous advantage
as you go about the business of making sure YOU are the guy that
the woman you have your eye on wants to be with this Holiday Season.
With that in mind, I've identified FIVE factors that--when
considered in context--provide a pretty good explanation for the
whole phenomenon of women wanting a guy around this time of year:
1) Cold Weather
If you're in the temperate zone of the Northern Hemisphere, which
most people reading this are, this is the time of year when the air
starts to get a certain chill in it.
So for starters here, raise your hand if every woman you've ever
met gets cold before you do, and you end up giving her your jacket
rather than vice-versa.
I'm raising my hand, in case you're wondering. I mean, let's face
it...the idea of a man asking a woman for her jacket seems flat-out
silly, doesn't it?
Women, besides tending to be a bit more cold-natured than we as men
are, CRAVE affection...at least typically.
Add it all up, and their minds are very much on finding someone to
"snuggle" with about now. And whether you love the word "snuggle"
or hate it, I'm sure being the man she does so with wouldn't suck.
2) Togetherness
There's no doubt whatsoever that The Holidays are pretty much built
on spending time with people you care about.
Show me someone who's alone this time of year, and I'll show you
someone who's either a sociopath or miserable.
OK, so maybe since you're a dude you can blow off the possibility
that you may be going solo on Thanksgiving weekend or New Year's...if
not spending it with your bros.
But for women the thought of being alone on ANY important date this
time of year is nothing short of DISASTROUS.
In fact, the only thing MORE disastrous for her than spending The
Holidays alone MIGHT be spending it with annoying relatives. Just
saying.
Whether a woman digs the company of her relatives or not, you can
bet your bottom dollar she'd much rather mix in some romance and
spend her time with someone she's actually HOT for.
3) Social Events
Fact: There is a larger concentration of parties and special
events planned around Holiday time than at any other time during
the year.
Women particularly dread going to these social gatherings alone,
lest they look like an "old maid"...perhaps even the ONLY ONE there
without a date.
Believe me, women will beg, borrow or steal to avoid that scenario.
What's going on here actually transcends the concept of
"togetherness" inherently fostered by the Holiday Season itself.
This is more in line with entering the lunchroom in college with
your tray only to find you don't know anyone, and therefore have
nobody to eat lunch with.
The horror.
I mean, don't be surprised if women you haven't heard from for
weeks or even MONTHS ring you up inviting you to join them at some
Christmas party.
4) Memories
Maybe the first three were obvious to you, or maybe not. But
here's one you probably haven't thought about.
Women, being the sensitive creatures they are can be very
sentimental about memories. The Holidays are a virtual "memory
factory".
Some of those memories will be pleasant and others will be sad.
Whenever emotions are running at a high level, it's particularly
nice in a woman's mind to have someone she's romantically
interested in there to be affectionate with.
She also wants to make sure that FUTURE memories are good
ones, right?
ones, right?
Sure, this also kind of ties in to the idea of not being alone
during the holidays, but there's a decidedly different twist going
on in this case. Can you see it?
during the holidays, but there's a decidedly different twist going
on in this case. Can you see it?
Now that you have a "heads up" regarding this factor, you're much
better positioned to be "Mr. Amazing" for the right woman. You'll
just "get it" at precisely the time she needs you to...and she'll
love you for it.
better positioned to be "Mr. Amazing" for the right woman. You'll
just "get it" at precisely the time she needs you to...and she'll
love you for it.
5) The Very Nature Of Femininity
Yep, women are sentimental. They're affectionate. And they need a
jacket sooner than men do.
But that's not the whole story.
Women are also all about being providers of joy, hospitality and
playfulness. Add it all up and The Holidays are pretty much their
PLAYGROUND.
Believe me, they want a great guy to bestow all those amazing
feminine gifts upon. It might as well be you. Relax and enjoy.
So having discovered exactly WHY women are so bent on getting a man
in their lives around Holiday time, are you more stoked than ever
about going out and meeting some great ones?
My sincere wish is that you are. My own personal memories of time
spent with women between Thanksgiving and New Year's are almost
universally positive.
Go give a great woman something to truly love about The Holidays,
and you'll surely enjoy the results.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. How about a teleseminar on this whole subject of women and
The Holidays? Would you be in? And who should I invite to co-host
it with me?
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