[X&Y] Which Of These Guys Are YOU? (It's One Or The Other)
Published: Wed, 03/02/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS WEEKLY NEWSLETTER
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WHAT'S INSIDE: There's one key style-defining question left to
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RECLAIM YOUR BIRTHRIGHT AS A MAN
Just yesterday we had yet another coaching call with a smart,
successful woman who brought the VERY SAME frustration to the table
as literally dozens of women before her have.
"Where are all the REAL MEN nowadays?", she wondered aloud. "I
meet lots of guys and they're really nice and all...but I just don't
FEEL IT for any of them."
Then the clincher.
"What's wrong with me?"
Hmmm...
Remember that newsletter a couple of weeks ago where the guy in
Australia blamed himself when the woman was really the one with the
problem?
Guess what? That's NOT a gender-specific phenomenon by any stretch.
Just to spell it out for you, there are countless women out there
who have gone SO LONG without meeting even ONE MAN who presents
himself as truly MASCULINE that they've literally FORGOTTEN what it
LOOKS LIKE.
It's gotten to be such a worldwide problem that women are starting
to think it's THEIR FAULT that guys are failing to be sexually
attractive to them.
But seriously...can you imagine a world where all the women around
you were trying to NEUTER themselves out of shame, or worse--trying
to be MEN instead of women?
How much would THAT fry your circuits over and over on a daily
basis?
Unfortunately, maybe you don't have to imagine too hard after all...
OK, so here's where the rubber meets the road, gentlemen.
If YOU (yes YOU) can simply be the REAL MAN you were BORN to be,
you might very well be the ONLY guy a high quality woman has met in
months or even YEARS who can "ignite her femininity" as I like to
call it.
The great news here is that you were BORN to grow up to be a REAL
MAN.
This isn't something you have to go out and learn...it's something
that you simply need to REDISCOVER.
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In other words, The Master Plan transforms you into the guy who
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that's the place reserved for guys who women "aren't feeling it"
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You see, I'm convinced that once you recognize that women really do
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ARE YOU A CAR GUY OR A TRUCK GUY?
For the last two newsletters we've been covering some great
questions you can ask yourself in order to truly define what your
"personal style" really is.
"Style" goes way beyond the clothes you wear. It's really about
the WHOLE VIBE you project to the world.
If you read the two-part series I sent to you last week, you'll
remember that I told you there was one last major piece of the
puzzle that had been conspicuous by it's absence thus far, and that
I would cover it next time.
Were you able to guess what it was?
The title above gives it away, of course. We've still yet to cover
WHAT YOU DRIVE.
So how about it? Are you a CAR GUY or a TRUCK GUY?
While it's very true that being a car or truck enthusiast is
generally a "guy thing", I can hear some of you out there already.
"But Scot, man...I really couldn't care less about cars OR trucks."
Guess what? That's fine. The question still applies to you anyway.
After all, unless you're hoofing it you've got a vehicle of some
sort. And it's likely that you CHOSE that vehicle.
What's that you say? You got your Aunt Clara's hand-me-down 1981
Dodge Aries when you turned 19 and haven't really had the chance to
flip it for a new ride just yet?
Or is it that you really do live somewhere like New York City and
you'd have to have rocks in your head to actually own a car?
Neither of those scenarios affects the power of the question much,
believe it or not.
The truth is that few of us probably actually HAVE our "dream car"
parked in the driveway.
But if you could have it, what would it BE?
You only get to pick one. But go ahead and do that...right now.
What vehicle did you choose?
Was it a Lambo? How about a Mercedes S-Class?
Or was it a Range Rover or Cadillac Escalade?
Perhaps a Hummer H2 or a 4x4 Ford F-250?
Who knows? Maybe you honestly think all of the above are a waste
of money and you're happiest rolling in a used Toyota Camry.
After all, you won't draw a bunch of unnecessary attention and if
someone dings the door in the parking lot it won't really bother
you much.
All of those are VALID answers, as is whatever your ACTUAL answer
was.
But make no mistake. What you picture yourself driving is one of
THE most powerful indicators of what your "personal style" is.
That goes for whether you have a need for speed, a need to haul
stuff, a need to stay on the highway, a need to get OFF of the
highway or just a need to get decent gas mileage.
Me? I've gone through several phases in my life (read: "style
adjustments") but these days I'm happiest in a four-door pickup
truck.
My current one is the rarest factory color available for it's model
year and is 4X4 with a bedliner and Yakima racks.
It pretty much fits my personality perfectly.
Like me, you may pile on the complexity of being a BIKE guy also.
If you are, that adds yet ANOTHER layer onto your overall "vibe".
And if so, you're probably either a motocross/dual-purpose guy, a
Harley guy or a sportbike guy.
Or I don't know, maybe you're one of those guys who digs "full
dress" Honda Goldwings.
There's a DIFFERENT guy on each of those types of bikes, no
question.
No matter what is good for the next guy, your mileage may
vary...literally.
And that's why YOUR style is a unique one...especially when you
combine your answer to today's question with your answers to all
the others I asked last week.
While we're on this whole topic it's interesting to note how what
you drive applies to attracting women.
Contrary to popular belief, women aren't really AS concerned about
what kind of car you drive as you might think.
Sure, there are a few "car chicks" out there who might let a guy's
nice ride positively influence whether she hangs out with him or
not.
And as far as bikes go, they tend to completely polarize women.
Some love them, others wouldn't be caught dead on one.
But the percentage of women who care WHAT you drive per se is
shockingly small.
Mostly, women look at your car and read what it says about YOU...just
like we've been discussing here all along.
What's more, they also notice how CLEAN and orderly your ride is
and whether it's in a solid state of repair or not.
Remember, women are ALL ABOUT safety and security and LOVE a man
who has his life in order.
I once had a friend with a beat-up VW that actually had friggin'
roaches in the backseat...crawling all over the used pizza boxes and
burger wrappers.
That hurt his mojo.
Meanwhile, I had another friend who ran a ten-year-old four-door
Honda Accord...in that boring "champagne" color, no less.
But it was clean and in good shape. Let's just say his car
definitely didn't HURT his success with women...he attracted them
like crazy.
So the best course of action? Make sure your ride is congruent
with your "personal style", and the women will credit that to you
as a strong indicator that you're a "Big Four" man.
And by the way, even if your current vehicle can't exactly be your
"dream ride" just yet, keep in mind that you still have to choose
it. Choose the one that matches your LIFEstyle and you'll be IN
style for sure.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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