[X&Y] Aim Higher (This Is A MUST READ)
Published: Tue, 03/22/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Before any dating or seduction advice will
work for you, you've got to have your head together in THISarea...
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YOUR "PERSONAL TRAINER FOR ATTRACTION"
OK, I've introduced you to Rob Brinded before. You remember...he's
that crazy British guy with all the wild ideas who co-hosted the
TCW podcast with me back in January.
Basically, your response to this guy was OFF THE CHARTS.
Well, the "Master Of Movement" has come up with something new that's
seriously worth taking a good look at:
Now, when I say it's WORTH IT, I'm not kidding.
Here's the deal, Rob has personally trained the likes of soccer
coach extraordinaire Jose Mourinho and Russian billionaire Roman
Abromovich.
Are you kidding me? Roman Abromovich's "private jet" is a wide-body
Airbus A-340. (For real...Google it.)
The point is, these guys could consult with ANYONE ON EARTH at ANY
PRICE.
So why do they choose Rob?
That's easy. Rob is THE EXPERT on this entire planet when it comes
to HUMAN MOVEMENT.
There's a lot of talk about "body language", but Rob has figured
out exactly how MOVEMENT figures in the attraction equation...and
it's a MASSIVE factor indeed.
To say he can transform your ENTIRE VIBE is an understatement. This
guy can help you be exponentially more attractive to women from afar
BEFORE you even MEET them.
And now, the personal trainer to the rich and famous in this sort of
thing is ready to give YOU personal attention:
Is it going to cost an arm and a leg? Well it probably SHOULD,
but it WON'T.
Rob will personally analyze your walk and your general movement,
and send you a custom-crafted program in response.
Seriously...this is no joke. Check out the details here:
I let Rob work his magic on me back when I met him in Oslo last
September. He's the real deal.
And hey...now I can say that I've consulted with the same world-
class expert that Roman Abramovich works with. And soon you'll be
able to say the same.
Now, let's check out an e-mail I received from one of you.
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AIM HIGHER
There's a particularly strange challenge I tend to face as a dating
coach.
No, it's not helping guys get over approach anxiety. It's not how
to get a woman's number. It's not even how to initiate getting
physical with a woman.
It's none of those "typical" things at all. In fact, it's not only
a flat-out bizarre challenge, it's probably the single BIGGEST one
I face on a daily basis.
What is it?
Simply put, I have a seriously difficult time around here getting a
lot of guys to even believe what we talk about at X & Y
Communications is possible--let alone something that the "average
guy" can attain.
Now granted, we prefer to talk about the highest echelon of women
on Earth rather than how to attract just any woman who can fog a
mirror.
And in a world of quick fixes and immediate gratification, I can
understand how the bar usually isn't set very high.
And hey, it wasn't all that long ago that I was relating 1000% to
the concept that ANY woman in my life was better than NO women.
But here's the thing.
When I talk about how getting guys to aim high in their quest for
success with great women is a challenge, I mean that virtually zero
guys are committed to it. A precious few, at best.
Even among my Ten-Plus guys--who have put me to work for them
expressly because they want to go from good to great--I have a
downright odd problem. Guys get through session number five or six
out of ten...and they disappear on me.
Don't get me wrong, I've still never issued even one penny back to
a customer for "quality control" reasons. These guys definitely
don't want their money back.
It's just that they usually start to get results like they've never
seen before relatively quickly...and it overwhelms them.
It's almost as if there's a "comfort zone" of success that we find
"believable" as guys. It's sort of like we find ourselves with the
kind of woman who isn't exactly what we dream of, but who is better
than who we've been able to attract in the past...and we hold our
cards.
But my vision for every single guy I meet is invariably much
loftier than that.
Is "average" success with women really good enough for the
"average" guy?
It shouldn't be.
Perhaps counter-intuitively, some of the world's sharpest women are
the ones who have the HARDEST TIME finding the right guy to be with.
Sure, maybe they're smart as a whip and/or financially successful.
This can be intimidating to all but 1% of all guys out there...max.
I get that.
But what of the beautiful women with strong character and kind
hearts who are going dateless?
Who is going to step up to the plate and be the man they crave?
Here's a hint: It's likely not to be a self-absorbed "pretty boy"
who is obsessed over his looks and sees no reason to work on his
character.
Think about it...why would a woman of high character go there?
And how about this? Did you know that there is a high percentage
of beautiful women out there who refuse (and may even fear) dating
men who are better looking than they are?
Seriously...she doesn't want to be upstaged. She'd rather be
appreciated.
Finally, considering how many guys already suffer from
garden-variety approach anxiety out there, you've got to believe
it's going to be an infinitesimal minority of guys who are going to
dare approach a woman with the "whole package" working.
And no..."hit and run" shots like, "You look nice today!" while
hurrying past don't count.
The vast majority of guys disqualify themselves without ever even
trying.
Therefore, you've got sharp but dateless women out there.
Simply put, the greatest women out there want a man who does the
best with what he's got in every respect. Your masculinity, your
ability to cause a woman to feel secure in your presence, a decent
sense of style, and the confidence that packages it all up spell
A-T-T-R-A-C-T-I-O-N to great women.
Combine that with true character and integrity and you could be
unstoppable.
And here's the thing: NOT one aspect of your potentially maximized
self that I just delineated is outside of your direct control.
You CHOOSE to be that man.
Either that, or by not stepping up to the challenge you inherently
choose by NOT choosing anything...other than sustained mediocrity.
Many years ago a country preacher named Bruce Theilmann referred to
those coddled masses who embrace the easier path to mediocrity as
"The Legions Of The Unjazzed".
I've yet to encounter a more poignant description of the human
condition anywhere.
So what's it going to be? You can't be an "artist" of any kind if
you can only "paint by numbers" ...especially a pickup artist.
Aim higher. Deserve What You Want. And if you choose to do so, I've
got your back all the way.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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