[X&Y] "Break The Ice" AND Trigger Attraction...All With ONE SENTENCE
Published: Tue, 06/21/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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IN THIS EDITION: What if you could say ONE SENTENCE to a woman
that would "break the ice" and psychologically trigger attractionat the same time? Would you SAY IT? Of course you would. Read on...
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THE BOOMERANG COMPLIMENT
What's that you say? You want FIELD TESTED and PROVEN ways to get
better with women...but you also want NEW ideas instead of the same
old rehashed ones?
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Today I've got a super-easy yet devastatingly effective way to both
START a conversation with a woman AND get her thinking about how
attractive you are...all in one fluid motion.
In fact, if you get this one brain-dead simple principle down pat,
you'll actually be able to hear a woman VERBALIZE her attraction
toward you the very instant you start the conversation.
How amazing is that? Enough so that you're probably thinking I'm
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Not a chance. I'm going to tell you exactly how it works right
here and right now.
I call it the "Boomerang Compliment".
I've never, ever heard anyone talk about this idea before, possibly
because the MINDSET behind the simple action it entails could be
the HARDEST part to get right.
Namely, you're going to need to put aside any preoccupation you
have with "limiting beliefs" you have about yourself and make a
mental list of what's MOST ATTRACTIVE about you instead.
That's right. And go ahead and be GENEROUS about it. Every one of
us has our best qualities.
Let's say that when you get right down to it there's no doubt that
you have striking eyes, a terrific sense of humor and have an
excellent sense of style.
Just for good measure let's also say that your 'rents spent
beaucoup bucks on braces during your teenage years and you have
great teeth.Whatever's actually on your list will work just fine, as long as
you make sure to remember it.
Now here's how you turn that list into breathtaking results with
women in the real world.
The next time you encounter ANY woman who shares ANY of those
particularly good traits on your list in common with you,
ACKNOWLEDGE to her that she's got it going on.
No gushing, no supplication. Just say it matter-of-factly.
Then, hang back for a second, relax and perhaps even be amazed when
she says something to the effect of, "Thanks...and so do you,
actually."
That's why I call it the "Boomerang Compliment"...because it COMES
BACK TO YOU.
What you've done here, of course, is LED. You've opened the door
to acknowledging attractive traits in each other, and she's just
walked RIGHT THROUGH IT.
If you have your doubts about the real-world effectiveness of this,
I strongly suggest you temporarily suspend your disbelief and give
it a try.
Think of it. You're not exactly telling her you WANT her, you're
simply making an observation. There's no overarching
"pre-approval" evident in your statement at all.
Perhaps ironically, SHE is actually telegraphing more initial
attraction and approval by responding in kind to you...which she most
definitely will if she's feeling positively toward you AT ALL.
And since you've called attention to a feature that's one of your
BEST, you've given yourself an EXCELLENT chance at successfully
leading her down the path to mutual attraction.
Years ago I had a friend who had been honorably discharged from the
US Marine Corps and swore he'd NEVER cut his hair again.
So within a couple of years he had long hair, which he cared for
meticulously. The fact that he had a strong hairline at age 35
didn't hurt matters.
Frankly, the dude had hair that would make 99% of all women
jealous...yet he carried himself in a genuine, masculine manner so it
was all good.
And whenever he met a chick with great hair, he told her.
Invariably, the girl would giggle and coo back, "Thank you...and WOW,
so do you!"
At the time, we all watched in amazement as if long, flowing hair
was a requirement for attracting women.
But all the while my friend knew EXACTLY what I'm telling you about
now.
And YES...he got phone numbers, dates, and then some. What's more,
he and the women he met traded shampoo and conditioner
recommendations.
Whatever. The point is it flat out WORKED.
Since then I've seen the "Boomerang Compliment" work to equally
powerful positive effect in my own life.
In fact, one time I knew a woman who I butted heads with all the
time at first. All we did was disagree and argue.
But for some reason that just made me HOTTER for her. Go figure.
Finally one day, in what I felt at the time was a dangerous and
perhaps even "weak" moment, I blurted out that I didn't even know
why I bothered to talk to her at all, and that it could only be
because she flashes that sexy smile whenever she thinks she's
right...which was all the time, it seems.
She cocked her head and gave me the first "come hither" look I'd
ever seen from her.
"Why thank you, Mr. McKay. You have a pretty sexy smile yourself,
you know."
Everything in the weeks leading up to that moment had been
"foreplay", as it turns out.
Try the "Boomerang Compliment" guys. You'll be pleased with the
results.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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