[X&Y] Life Lessons...From A Cowboy?
Published: Wed, 06/22/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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COWBOY LIFE LESSONS
Get ready for a particularly unusual newsletter here...in part
because I'm decidedly NOT a "cowboy".
But you see, as I write this I'm sitting under the stars in
Holbrook, Arizona.
Holbrook is close to Petrified Forest National Park and is notable
for having the best-preserved section of the old Route 66 left in
the country.
Buffalo roam. A BNSF freight blasts through every 20 minutes it
seems.
Neon signs advertise the "Best Steaks In Town" and dusty pickup
trucks fill the parking lots.
In other words, this is SERIOUS cowboy country, pardner.
As fortune would have it, about an hour ago I walked into the men's
room (of all places) here at the campground we're staying at
tonight and immediately noticed a large framed poster on the wall
with the title "Cowboy Life Lessons" at the top.
I read what followed, of course. How could I not?
Here's what was written:
Cowboy Life Lessons
The future has been losing the wisdom of the past ever since the
freeway bypassed the corral.
No matter where you ride to, that's where you are.
Don't squat with your spurs on, and never smack a man who's chewing
tobacco.
Always drink upstream from the herd.
Broke is what happens when a cowboy lets his yearnins get ahead of
his earnins.
When in doubt, let your horse do the thinking.
The only way to drive cattle fast is slowly.
A bronc rider should be light on arrogance and heavy in the seat.
Worry is like a rockin' horse. You can ride it as hard as you
want, but it'll get you nowhere.
Poor is having to sell the horse to buy a saddle.
Don't interfere with something that ain't bothering you none.
If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is STOP
DIGGING.
The quickest way to double your money is to fold it over and put it
back in your pocket.
Never, ever miss a good opportunity to shut up.
As I read, the words began to form in my head in John Wayne's
voice.
I don't know...maybe having stood at the spot overlooking Monument
Valley two days before that was marked "John Wayne's Favorite
Vantage Point" had planted that in my head.
But let's face it. In a world these days where "Brokeback
Mountain" apparently counts as a "Western", we'd all still rather
think of John Wayne when we hear the word "cowboy".
And not coincidentally, you can still overhear lots of high quality
women these days wondering audibly where their "John Wayne" is.
Does that list of "Cowboy Life Lessons" help you get more women in
and of itself? I can't promise you that.
But this I know: A guy who's ridden enough fences in his day to
get most of that list (or one like it) right on a daily basis
stands a pretty good chance at attracting a woman who's looking for
her "John Wayne".
Practically speaking, I could easily add to the list of "Cowboy
Life Lessons"...mostly because such a list isn't just for "cowboys",
really.
Carry a pocket knife in one pocket and spare change in the other.
Be the one guy who has jumper cables and saves the day. Know how
to drive a stick shift and how to back up a trailer into a parking
spot.
Own a can of WD-40 and grill ribs that don't need any sauce. And
don't be more afraid of the spider in the kitchen than she is.
You get the idea. You could add to or change up the list I just
shared with you as easily as I could based on what your personal
style is.
Whether you're a cowboy or a city slicker really doesn't matter.
It's all about wise decisions, strong character, keeping one's cool
in the face of adversity and facing fear with courage.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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